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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was just wondering what straight guys who share there women get from it ? Is it just that they want to let there partner live out her fantasy or do they enjoy having another guy there ? And what are guys who do this looking for in a man who might join in mmf3 sum ?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

You're looking for couples so what do you think they get out of it

You must have some idea or otherwise there won't be many couples that would be happy to let you play in an MMF with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well i guess the point of it was to get the spectrum of reasons for why people do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own as always, everyone will have their own reasons why they enjoy it, some because they like to see their partner be naughty, or simply enjoy, some because they are allowing their partners to live out a fantasy, some because they are bi and want a piece of the action, and some because they hope the favour will be returned and another female allowed to join in at sometime.

I guess the simplest of answers to what kind of guy these people will look for are, the kind of guys that understand why they do this, as understanding is considered to bring respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah, Honey jibbed in whilst I was posting, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"ah, Honey jibbed in whilst I was posting, lol."

Tooooo slow with the fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

till you try it youll never know,its really horny after a while.its strange at first seeing your misses getting seen to by another guy but it gets you realy horny,and we fucked all night the first time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a few mmf 3somes with my ex and in the first instance was for her to fulfil her fantasy of having 2 guys pleasure her, 2 mouths,cocks and 4 hands incredible,

And for me seeing a woman enjoying herself be it partner or friend with benefits is a big turn on,

As for what to look for in a guy well i personally feel that is better if the guys are not selfish lovers if thats the right words,am sure the ladies will know what i mean,although everyones perception is different,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own as always, everyone will have their own reasons why they enjoy it, some because they like to see their partner be naughty, or simply enjoy, "

This is exactly why my FB likes to see me with others... men or women. When we're out together, I am his for that evening and he loves to see others pleasuring me and absolutely goes wild when he sees me pleasuring them in return.

Afterwards I get to take advantage of how horny it makes him as he makes me his own again.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I was just wondering what straight guys who share there women get from it ? Is it just that they want to let there partner live out her fantasy or do they enjoy having another guy there ? And what are guys who do this looking for in a man who might join in mmf3 sum ?"

Ah this is our domain

But sadly, I don't think there is a definitive answer so we are not going to be much help lol

All he can say is, it turns him on and like anything else that turns you on, how do you explain it?

But, I can say he loves to watch me with other men, he loves to join in as and when ( obviously plays with just me because he is totally straight ) I enjoy the fact he is getting turned on by it AND I get two cocks, four hands and two tongues into the bargain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don`t know why but I get a real kick watching my wife with other men. It`s something I`ll never tire of.

As someone else on this thread said, it is something you need to experiance yourself to find your answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have only shared a partner once and it was quite an experience, my ex was dropping hints so i gave in, had my best mate round then took turns, think i prefared watching her than anything really, its just mind blowing

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

My hubby has always found it a huge turn on seeing me with another guy (or girl for that matter) and I have to confess that even with another couple I also get turned on seeing him play. The question is why and to be honest I don't know (and neither does he), it just turns us on, so we enjoy it

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

We both get off on seeing our other half shagging another partner, of either sex. It doesn't bother me if I can't play with the other guy (if he's straight) as I love just watching A having a good time.

I recently discovered that she has never had a (significantly) younger guy, so that's on the to-do list, and it won't matter if he's bi or not, as it'l be her party!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id imagine its just as simple as they want to see their partner enjoy themselves, and it turns them on seeing them do that.

i know that being part of a mmf 3some is a turn on for me purely because i love to see that a woman is having a good time, and if thats what does it for her then id enjoy it too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like the look in her eye when she turns to me and smiles whilst with another guy.

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By *otswoldMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


".... And what are guys who do this looking for in a man who might join in mmf3 sum ?"

So the woman isn't expected to have an opinion?

Surely the whole point of an MMF is the woman's enjoyment. All tat should matter from the guy's point of view is that the two of them can work at it together amicably.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


".... And what are guys who do this looking for in a man who might join in mmf3 sum ?

So the woman isn't expected to have an opinion?

Surely the whole point of an MMF is the woman's enjoyment. All tat should matter from the guy's point of view is that the two of them can work at it together amicably. "
i can work out what the women want thats why i was asking the opinion from the guys point of view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you want to meet a couple for MFM? that'll probably answer your own question.

Its all about seeing and being part of giving the woman involved pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was sharing the Wife with another Bloke but didn't know, they live together now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually the whole point as with all swinging encounters is that everyone present enjoys it, both the males and the female.

Any swinger who loves thier partner gets a great deal of enjoyment out of seeing his or her partner having fun.

Some guys like to watch and will join in when it suits them.

Some women do it once just for the experience some do it all the time just for the fun.

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By *otswoldMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

The OP has chosen call the thread ‘MMF’ and asks what straight guys who share there(sic) women get from it. Is it too old fashioned and prosaic to suggest they may expect the satisfaction of a job well done?

More to the point, I wonder whether the OP’s question and his two supplementary questions indicate a basic lack of understanding of the dynamics of such a threesome. Based upon my own limited experience, I prefer to think of it as ‘MFM’. In other words, the woman is the centre of attention and what the two guys should be doing would be subordinate to that situation.

Nevertheless, I can assure him that the pleasure of emptying one’s balls remains unchanged and that there is a reasonable expectation that the woman will find other ways of showing her gratitude either at the same time or at some time later.

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By *uintillianMan
over a year ago

washington services

tried it with a couple of my partners itz kind of a power trip and ego boost 4 the female,knowing she`s teasing nd pleasing two men and was a hell of a turn on for me seeing a new,wilder side to them.

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By *zMaleMan
over a year ago

penzance

For me it all started when my late wife and I started swinging. I found that she enjoyed having the attention and as a result she found it intensly erotic and turned her on no end.

I personally love to pleasure my ladies and if this gives them the pleasure they crave bring it on.

AND no I'm NOT saying I couldn't pleasure her myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause im a lazy twat and like ta watch xx

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By *enderbycoupleCouple
over a year ago

derbyshire or localish

have watched my wife with many guys and fems too,we love it and will continue to do so,especially when she,s in a very slutty mood!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly it's knowing that the F is totally satisfied and shagged out

Oddly (or maybe not...) I've had more MMF than FFM threesomes, and it's always been fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tutttttt where are bi1get1free when I need them?

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Tutttttt where are bi1get1free when I need them? "

Did our bell ring?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tutttttt where are bi1get1free when I need them?

Did our bell ring? "

MFM anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard to describe exactly what we get from it.

We have a thrill and great sex on the 'hunt' for playmate(s) and build-up to a meet, specially first meet.

First meets have a different excitement - like opening a new present lol.

Repeat meets are good as there is a level of knowing each other and less nerves.

We really enjoy the fun with playmate(s), greater options for fun, positions, giggles and stuff - great to see and hear your partner enjoying it, encouraging them and having that returned..

The biggest kick of all for us is after, when it's back to us, all our playtimes give us such sexy talk, turn-ons, memories and thrills - for years after.

I don't think anyone will give you a proper answer, ask me tomorrow or in a different mood or at a different turned-on level and you'll most likely get a different set of reasons.

We do it because we like it, it thrills us and it's naughty xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

each to their own, i enjoy seeing m enjoy herself and others enjoynig her. if she is happy i am happy.

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