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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London

I would never respond to any advert re a meet where a certain cock size is all that's required as I'd feel like a mechanical piece of meat ( pardon the pun )

Surely chemistry and attraction to the partner/s should be of paramount importance ?

I wouldn't dream of placing an advert requesting a certain size pussy as I'll take what comes with the given lady who has attracted me via personality/appearance.

Opinions please ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Just because you wouldn't do any of those thingsdoesnt stop others doing them does it. Different strokes and all that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some ladys like massive cocks, it's as simple as that. Some men don't like BBW's or midgets everyones allowed to have preferences.

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London


"Just because you wouldn't do any of those thingsdoesnt stop others doing them does it. Different strokes and all that "

Absolutely!

Just seeing what others feel regarding desired meet criteria ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman with a pulse would do for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was that the original line before Beautiful South changed it to .... 36d so what, what else have you got

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why on earth would you assume that we might treat a man with any less friendliness, attraction or respect just because we do the sensible thing and ask for parts that match???

That's sounds not much better than some of the offensive messages that I get from some insecure men who call me names just because I want something long enough to hit the spot...

If we want longer, it doesn't make us sluts, or say that we're "well used", or past being tight - it just means that some of us actually need deeper penetration!

And, contrary to what I keep being told, size does actually matter - if it doesn't reach then all the skill in the world isn't going to make any difference!

So, as they say - "If your spoon doesn't reach the sugar, then please don't bother trying to stir my coffee...!!!"

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London


"Was that the original line before Beautiful South changed it to .... 36d so what, what else have you got "

Ha! Ha! was thinking of that song re ethical inspiration when I came up with the question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hahaha you go girl

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London


"Why on earth would you assume that we might treat a man with any less friendliness, attraction or respect just because we do the sensible thing and ask for parts that match???

That's sounds not much better than some of the offensive messages that I get from some insecure men who call me names just because I want something long enough to hit the spot...

If we want longer, it doesn't make us sluts, or say that we're "well used", or past being tight - it just means that some of us actually need deeper penetration!

And, contrary to what I keep being told, size does actually matter - if it doesn't reach then all the skill in the world isn't going to make any difference!

So, as they say - "If your spoon doesn't reach the sugar, then please don't bother trying to stir my coffee...!!!"

"

With respect you are missing my point.

I meant picking people for a meet purely on a size of said member without any interest in the person whatsoever I didn't mean size doesn't count/matter to some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate if that's all you got to worry about, your a lucky fella!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why on earth would you assume that we might treat a man with any less friendliness, attraction or respect just because we do the sensible thing and ask for parts that match???

That's sounds not much better than some of the offensive messages that I get from some insecure men who call me names just because I want something long enough to hit the spot...

If we want longer, it doesn't make us sluts, or say that we're "well used", or past being tight - it just means that some of us actually need deeper penetration!

And, contrary to what I keep being told, size does actually matter - if it doesn't reach then all the skill in the world isn't going to make any difference!

So, as they say - "If your spoon doesn't reach the sugar, then please don't bother trying to stir my coffee...!!!"

"

Size definitely works both ways, nothing worse than a vagina that can accommodate a boeing 747.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Blah blah blah big cock and nothing else yadda yadda yadda'

Anyone who reads my profile and verifications will quickly realise I don't just rely on the size of my penis to woo a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Blah blah blah big cock and nothing else yadda yadda yadda'

Anyone who reads my profile and verifications will quickly realise I don't just rely on the size of my penis to woo a woman."

Bet your glad eh!

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London


"'Blah blah blah big cock and nothing else yadda yadda yadda'

Anyone who reads my profile and verifications will quickly realise I don't just rely on the size of my penis to woo a woman."

Who said you did ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman with a pulse would do for me! "

Personaly I'd rather know what I was offering was exactly what my playmates liked ! Everyone has different likes and dislikes, wants and needs .. There is someone for everyone ...Never want to be any pussy with a pulse ! I'm fussy and I'd rather they were too !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

With respect you are missing my point.

I meant picking people for a meet purely on a size of said member without any interest in the person whatsoever I didn't mean size doesn't count/matter to some."

Why do you see that as wrong? This is a swinger site - for people to meet for sex. I'm not here looking for a loving partner because I've already got one - I'm principally here to get laid occasionally by a big cock (which is something that she doesn't actually have...) I'd much prefer a big cock with a lovely personality to match, but if I'm desperate then I'll maybe take what I can get!

Then again, if you want to speak out against the women (or men?) who ask for nothing more than big cocks (have you found many of them?) - please could you also do something about the endless messages that I get from men who just want to "fuck my big tits" etc....

It's life - people are like that - accept it and take time to find someone who will treat you the way that you want to be treated. I take my time and have met some lovely people on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman with a pulse would do for me!

Personaly I'd rather know what I was offering was exactly what my playmates liked ! Everyone has different likes and dislikes, wants and needs .. There is someone for everyone ...Never want to be any pussy with a pulse ! I'm fussy and I'd rather they were too ! "

Sorry, would it help if i said a woman with a sense of humour AND a pulse? It was a tongue cheek post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman with a pulse would do for me!

Personaly I'd rather know what I was offering was exactly what my playmates liked ! Everyone has different likes and dislikes, wants and needs .. There is someone for everyone ...Never want to be any pussy with a pulse ! I'm fussy and I'd rather they were too !

Sorry, would it help if i said a woman with a sense of humour AND a pulse? It was a tongue cheek post! "

Yer that's so much better !!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman with a pulse would do for me!

Personaly I'd rather know what I was offering was exactly what my playmates liked ! Everyone has different likes and dislikes, wants and needs .. There is someone for everyone ...Never want to be any pussy with a pulse ! I'm fussy and I'd rather they were too !

Sorry, would it help if i said a woman with a sense of humour AND a pulse? It was a tongue cheek post!

Yer that's so much better !!! Lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought we were here to enjoy the skte rather than debate what appendage we have or require

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Sorry, would it help if i said a woman with a sense of humour AND a pulse? It was a tongue cheek post! "

Rarer on fab than a single bi woman wrapped in bacon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think there is any real difference on picking guys for cock size or height or build or hair colour. People do that all the time unless they have no preferences which is, in reality, pretty rare. It's just the core requirement to find specifically what you are looking for (i.e. big cock) and then you can look for different attributes after that. We wouldn't give people a hard time over having preferences.

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By *allDarkFoxForYou OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester/London


"

With respect you are missing my point.

I meant picking people for a meet purely on a size of said member without any interest in the person whatsoever I didn't mean size doesn't count/matter to some.

Why do you see that as wrong? This is a swinger site - for people to meet for sex. I'm not here looking for a loving partner because I've already got one - I'm principally here to get laid occasionally by a big cock (which is something that she doesn't actually have...) I'd much prefer a big cock with a lovely personality to match, but if I'm desperate then I'll maybe take what I can get!

Then again, if you want to speak out against the women (or men?) who ask for nothing more than big cocks (have you found many of them?) - please could you also do something about the endless messages that I get from men who just want to "fuck my big tits" etc....

It's life - people are like that - accept it and take time to find someone who will treat you the way that you want to be treated. I take my time and have met some lovely people on here...

"

I agree that only being into a tit size is the same principle.

I also agree that people are on here for a myriad of reasons and that's cool also.

Simply expressing a view and seeing what other fab users views and tastes are on the subject as is the purpose of the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont see anything wrong with asking for certain sizes, when we used to meet single guys 9 times out of 10 it was only because he had a massive cock... Oh its not always about the size of the woman vagina either as most times I couldnt take the big cocks for a full sex session but still prefered bigger for an all round play session.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i for one would never meet a guy just because he has a big cock..there has to be more to him than that !!...everyone is looking for different things on here and they are intitled to ask for what they want, you either answer or reply to their mail..theres one guy on here that goes on and on about the size of his cock its boring..so take note !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Sorry, would it help if i said a woman with a sense of humour AND a pulse? It was a tongue cheek post!

Rarer on fab than a single bi woman wrapped in bacon!

"

Well, i've had a few 'pigs in blankets'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought we were here to enjoy the skte rather than debate what appendage we have or require"

Let's see - er, it's a Forum, a place to debate...

Um - and a "swinger's chat" forum - for swingers to chat and debate...

OK - what would you like us to natter about instead...?

Knitting?..... We could talk knitting.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought we were here to enjoy the skte rather than debate what appendage we have or require

Let's see - er, it's a Forum, a place to debate...

Um - and a "swinger's chat" forum - for swingers to chat and debate...had a grey moment sorry

OK - what would you like us to natter about instead...?

Knitting?..... We could talk knitting.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought we were here to enjoy the skte rather than debate what appendage we have or require

Let's see - er, it's a Forum, a place to debate...

Um - and a "swinger's chat" forum - for swingers to chat and debate...

OK - what would you like us to natter about instead...?

Knitting?..... We could talk knitting.....

"

How big are your needles though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the diferene between a knit stich and a pearl stich?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the diferene between a knit stich and a pearl stich?"

Dunno - I'm to busy trying to get laid to have time for complicated stuff like that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's the diferene between a knit stich and a pearl stich?"

Something to do with dropping one! Keep the air freshener handy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet to give oral, but if I was looking for a sexual match, I would have to specify a smaller rather than larger penis, simply because I have a prolapsed womb and find sex with a larger cock too painful.. so I guess to specify a larger cock preference is cool, if that's what hits your spot.. happy sunny Saturday everyone.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is important for us all that we can be free to express our wants and needs without fear of speaking out.

However, the OP does bring up a valid argument (which I respect, even though I want to debate it) - it would be wonderful if people on here did look for chemistry and attraction.

Unfortunately, that seems to be a rarity - I'd say that maybe one in a hundred messages that I get show the slightest interest in my personality - or even refer to things that I've mentioned in my profile.

Sadly, most of them are just interested in physical attributes - so I just accept it as the status quo and use the site in a similar manner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deep down we are all narcissisitic, shallow human beings. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I perfee girth to size lol just to be awkward xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Broclilad makes me blush lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Deep down we are all narcissisitic, shallow human beings. lol"

Him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to know, as it happens I have a penis as wide as a packet of pringles. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good to know, as it happens I have a penis as wide as a packet of pringles. x"

Yummy any flavour ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good to know, as it happens I have a penis as wide as a packet of pringles. x

Yummy any flavour ???"

Cheese n onion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good to know, as it happens I have a penis as wide as a packet of pringles. x

Yummy any flavour ???"

Haha can't say I've tasted it myself. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good to know, as it happens I have a penis as wide as a packet of pringles. x

Yummy any flavour ???

Haha can't say I've tasted it myself. lol"

Lol I have lots xxx

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Good to know, as it happens I have a penis as wide as a packet of pringles. x

Yummy any flavour ???

Haha can't say I've tasted it myself. lol

Lol I have lots xxx"

Just had a Pringles sandwich. It was yummy. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fav sarnie is banana with crisps xx

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"My fav sarnie is banana with crisps xx"

Never tried that. Normally I have cheese and crisp sandwiches x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we were looking for another male then he would most certainly need to have a bigger cock than myself as that would be our only reason.....and the fact that the wife would be hooded too looks would be far less important .

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"It is important for us all that we can be free to express our wants and needs without fear of speaking out.

However, the OP does bring up a valid argument (which I respect, even though I want to debate it) - it would be wonderful if people on here did look for chemistry and attraction.

Unfortunately, that seems to be a rarity - I'd say that maybe one in a hundred messages that I get show the slightest interest in my personality - or even refer to things that I've mentioned in my profile.

Sadly, most of them are just interested in physical attributes - so I just accept it as the status quo and use the site in a similar manner.

"

That's it isn't it: people have individual ways of using the site. I don't meet people who are clinical: no interest in me.

Whilst I'm not looking for a life mate, I'd expect a man to want to know something about the woman who'll have his nuts in a vice. Besides, the police may want to pursue me for gbh...they'll need to tell them something!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dunno what it is about cock size,if i'm honest mine does not get any complaints but i know for a fact my nuts are bigger than the average bears boo boo !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman with a pulse would do for me! "

Some people are sooo picky ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock size matters to me, i don't like huge cocks and wouldn't meet a guy that's over 8 inch because they hurt me, its ok saying its the person that matters and not the cock size but am i honestly supposed to shag a cock that hurts me because the guys a nice lad and personality counts.more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some ladys like massive cocks, it's as simple as that. Some men don't like BBW's or midgets everyones allowed to have preferences."
oh hi mr im gonna arrange a meet with you then block you the day before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some ladys like massive cocks, it's as simple as that. Some men don't like BBW's or midgets everyones allowed to have preferences.oh hi mr im gonna arrange a meet with you then block you the day before "

Did you tell him you don't like pringles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope ha ha just another idiot I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet to meet anybody that is the age/height/size they claim to be anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never respond to any advert re a meet where a certain cock size is all that's required as I'd feel like a mechanical piece of meat ( pardon the pun )

Surely chemistry and attraction to the partner/s should be of paramount importance ?

I wouldn't dream of placing an advert requesting a certain size pussy as I'll take what comes with the given lady who has attracted me via personality/appearance.

Opinions please ? "

I hate big cocks but i know my fella loves them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got quite a big cock and sometimes I see that people request less than certain sizes.

It's nothing personal against anyone it's about choice and preference.

I could understand if someone was in a relationship for a couple of years and she told him he was 'inadequate' it would perhaps be an issue for a guy.

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