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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seem to find that alot of people have been complaining on here recently with the complaint that there is too much talking and not enough action on here. Have any of you had this problem?

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By *oofyCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

We like a bit of conversation before "action", our days of wham bam now whats your name have long gone.

Also we don't agree with the person who gives us a timetable, E.G. meet ate 8, drinks until 9,kissing and fumbleing until 9-30, then bed, f--- until 11 then go home!!!

I am not joking this has happened twice to us.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


" meet ate 8, drinks until 9,kissing and fumbleing until 9-30, then bed, f--- until 11 then go home!!!

I am not joking this has happened twice to us."

I laughed at this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'm starting to think this is a pen pal site

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Yes, I'm starting to think this is a pen pal site"

You've only been here 4 weeks did you expect everyone you message to just drop their knickers??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I'm starting to think this is a pen pal site

You've only been here 4 weeks did you expect everyone you message to just drop their knickers?? "

Yes

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Yes, I'm starting to think this is a pen pal site

You've only been here 4 weeks did you expect everyone you message to just drop their knickers??

Yes "

Oh dear. Then your gonna have a shock I think lol. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I'm starting to think this is a pen pal site

You've only been here 4 weeks did you expect everyone you message to just drop their knickers??

Yes

Oh dear. Then your gonna have a shock I think lol. X"

ha ha, i was just messing. But from reading the forums, people's statuses and in the chat room, fab does seem to be more of social network, somewhere for adults to just keep in touch rather then meet new people with similar sexual interests.

I've also noticed there tends to be a couple of clique's in the chat room and forums, where a bunch of people who all know each other interact alot more with each other and make it very hard for other people to interact with them.

Like you say I've only been on here 4 weeks so may have wrong idea, but so far, I think I'm right

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

On a meet or just in general on Fab?

If it is on a meet then we enjoy the social side as much as the sexual. If we can't have a good conversation and a giggle then it's unlikely our clothes will come off. Not a fan of being timed, we have chatted for 30 minutes, so upstairs!

In general on here - We like to exchange a few messages and chat for a bit before meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all the gear and no idea

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"We like a bit of conversation before "action", our days of wham bam now whats your name have long gone.

Also we don't agree with the person who gives us a timetable, E.G. meet ate 8, drinks until 9,kissing and fumbleing until 9-30, then bed, f--- until 11 then go home!!!

I am not joking this has happened twice to us."

Shit really? I've just spent an hour drawing up our timetable, even used my new best highlighters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best meets have come from lots of chat before hand,Its how I like it,im never in a rush,im not to be pushed,I have other things going on in my life and more than one playmate I can meet up with

Works very well for me,I make that clear at the start so people can choose if they think im worth getting to know or not,I don't really care if it does'nt suit anyone else,theres plenty of other people to hound for instant meets on here,I get plenty of fun regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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ha ha, i was just messing. But from reading the forums, people's statuses and in the chat room, fab does seem to be more of social network, somewhere for adults to just keep in touch rather then meet new people with similar sexual interests.

I've also noticed there tends to be a couple of clique's in the chat room and forums, where a bunch of people who all know each other interact alot more with each other and make it very hard for other people to interact with them.

Like you say I've only been on here 4 weeks so may have wrong idea, but so far, I think I'm right"
i agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find on here you can be minding your own biz,your chatting bollox on the forums,browsing the couples and whammm a wink fab or offer rolls in to fuck there and then or later that day and you remember why your here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like a bit of conversation before "action", our days of wham bam now whats your name have long gone.

Also we don't agree with the person who gives us a timetable, E.G. meet ate 8, drinks until 9,kissing and fumbleing until 9-30, then bed, f--- until 11 then go home!!!

I am not joking this has happened twice to us.

Shit really? I've just spent an hour drawing up our timetable, even used my new best highlighters! "

Not done your PowerPoint presentation then...????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i find on here you can be minding your own biz,your chatting bollox on the forums,browsing the couples and whammm a wink fab or offer rolls in to fuck there and then or later that day and you remember why your here "

For a couple I'd say you're right but A single male who hasn't got that first meet veri its very rare. Maybe my profile needs some work, I dont know, only been on here for 4 week so time will tell

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"We like a bit of conversation before "action", our days of wham bam now whats your name have long gone.

Also we don't agree with the person who gives us a timetable, E.G. meet ate 8, drinks until 9,kissing and fumbleing until 9-30, then bed, f--- until 11 then go home!!!

I am not joking this has happened twice to us.

Shit really? I've just spent an hour drawing up our timetable, even used my new best highlighters!

Not done your PowerPoint presentation then...???? "

Well I was just about to start that! I just wanted the written copy to put on the headboard so we can keep check x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like a bit of conversation before "action", our days of wham bam now whats your name have long gone.

Also we don't agree with the person who gives us a timetable, E.G. meet ate 8, drinks until 9,kissing and fumbleing until 9-30, then bed, f--- until 11 then go home!!!

I am not joking this has happened twice to us.

Shit really? I've just spent an hour drawing up our timetable, even used my new best highlighters!

Not done your PowerPoint presentation then...????

Well I was just about to start that! I just wanted the written copy to put on the headboard so we can keep check x"

Why do that when you can project your PP pres on the wall..????? A-ha!!! Didn't think of that little embellishment, did ya....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like a bit of conversation before "action", our days of wham bam now whats your name have long gone.

Also we don't agree with the person who gives us a timetable, E.G. meet ate 8, drinks until 9,kissing and fumbleing until 9-30, then bed, f--- until 11 then go home!!!

I am not joking this has happened twice to us."

Frightening. We had one couple per- plan just between themselves something they wanted to try out on me (mrs) and then proceeded to tell me after it was all planned out. I really really didn't like what they did or the fact they did not discuss this with me beforehand.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Clears throat.....

Anyone want a shag?

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

Had meet few weeks past couple turned up then after bout 10 mins asked to leave which is bout as bad as timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My best meets have come from lots of chat before hand,Its how I like it,im never in a rush,im not to be pushed,I have other things going on in my life and more than one playmate I can meet up with

Works very well for me,I make that clear at the start so people can choose if they think im worth getting to know or not,I don't really care if it does'nt suit anyone else,theres plenty of other people to hound for instant meets on here,I get plenty of fun regardless "

I'm the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like a bit of conversation before "action", our days of wham bam now whats your name have long gone.

Also we don't agree with the person who gives us a timetable, E.G. meet ate 8, drinks until 9,kissing and fumbleing until 9-30, then bed, f--- until 11 then go home!!!

I am not joking this has happened twice to us.

Frightening. We had one couple per- plan just between themselves something they wanted to try out on me (mrs) and then proceeded to tell me after it was all planned out. I really really didn't like what they did or the fact they did not discuss this with me beforehand. "

Hope you brought that meet to an end pdq..??? I would have...

ted.

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd


"We like a bit of conversation before "action", our days of wham bam now whats your name have long gone.

Also we don't agree with the person who gives us a timetable, E.G. meet ate 8, drinks until 9,kissing and fumbleing until 9-30, then bed, f--- until 11 then go home!!!

I am not joking this has happened twice to us.

Shit really? I've just spent an hour drawing up our timetable, even used my new best highlighters!

Not done your PowerPoint presentation then...????

Well I was just about to start that! I just wanted the written copy to put on the headboard so we can keep check x

Why do that when you can project your PP pres on the wall..????? A-ha!!! Didn't think of that little embellishment, did ya.... "

Ahh I did not! Thankgod you have shown me the light x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many single men commenting on this topic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I'm starting to think this is a pen pal site

You've only been here 4 weeks did you expect everyone you message to just drop their knickers?? "
amen !! U b suprised how many do expect it .. ppl need to understand that we don't all work in the same way !! We are all individuals .. and have lifes beyond this place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like a bit of conversation before "action", our days of wham bam now whats your name have long gone.

Also we don't agree with the person who gives us a timetable, E.G. meet ate 8, drinks until 9,kissing and fumbleing until 9-30, then bed, f--- until 11 then go home!!!

I am not joking this has happened twice to us.

Shit really? I've just spent an hour drawing up our timetable, even used my new best highlighters!

Not done your PowerPoint presentation then...????

Well I was just about to start that! I just wanted the written copy to put on the headboard so we can keep check x

Why do that when you can project your PP pres on the wall..????? A-ha!!! Didn't think of that little embellishment, did ya....

Ahh I did not! Thankgod you have shown me the light x"

In that case, I look forward to reading a new thread in a few days entitled "Do shagging and PowerPoint mix?". The OP should be very enlightening.....

ted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i find on here you can be minding your own biz,your chatting bollox on the forums,browsing the couples and whammm a wink fab or offer rolls in to fuck there and then or later that day and you remember why your here

For a couple I'd say you're right but A single male who hasn't got that first meet veri its very rare. Maybe my profile needs some work, I dont know, only been on here for 4 week so time will tell "

I love your profile! Chat on the forums and get yourself known as that seems to help.

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Jokes aside, we do enjoy the social side of it and to us it can be just as important as the sexual side.

I get quite nervous on meets, not sure why really just do, but if I have chatted with the people on here first, know we have the same sense of humour then alot of the nerves disappear.

Xx

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Not many single men commenting on this topic"

I did, but it seems this thread is all talk but no action.

(see what I did there? eh? eh?)

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London


"I've also noticed there tends to be a couple of clique's in the chat room and forums, where a bunch of people who all know each other interact alot more with each other and make it very hard for other people to interact with them."

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Ted I will give everyone we meet a survey before they leave so I can write a full report xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ted I will give everyone we meet a survey before they leave so I can write a full report xx"

Can't wait to see the answer to the question "Would you recommend this couple to friends?"

ted.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Its horses for courses,

some will message a bit some more and some a lot,

I choose to use the site and its tools in a way that suits me, If that doesn t appeal to others thats their choice,

I seem to have enough talk that suits me, thats a fair bit, and action too, thats a lbit as well,, , ,,

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

we've had our fair share of whom we regard as timewasters. as a couple only looking for ladies to join us we appreciate its going to be harder to get meets. lots of single sexy ladies and lots of other couples that maybe physically sweeter on the eye than us. we've tried the full on dirty message as a first approach, as some like this and the more gentle approach as some prefer this. we don't mind chatting to ladies for a while before meeting or having a social as we would like them to feel at ease and there needs to be some attraction whether it be physical or otherwise. just a bit down heartened when we chat and try to arrange meetings usually at a time they choose then just get let down. no explanation. understandably things happen that cant be controlled but out of politeness could message at some point.

frustasted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i find on here you can be minding your own biz,your chatting bollox on the forums,browsing the couples and whammm a wink fab or offer rolls in to fuck there and then or later that day and you remember why your here

For a couple I'd say you're right but A single male who hasn't got that first meet veri its very rare. Maybe my profile needs some work, I dont know, only been on here for 4 week so time will tell

I love your profile! Chat on the forums and get yourself known as that seems to help. "

I'm no the forum quite often, but no one pays attention to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seem to find that alot of people have been complaining on here recently with the complaint that there is too much talking and not enough action on here. Have any of you had this problem?"

Nope ... all that talk has led to a few great moments and hopefully many more great moments.

Wouldn't say that 'the clique thing' exists either. I found that if you just jump in where and when you can it is relatively easy to find a few like minds.

Ending on a positive note it seems that 'more action' may be on the cards (possibly due to the warm weather) ... uncharacteristically, this week I've had interest from 3 couples for fun this weekend but am too busy with family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No point bemoaning the realities of being a single man on here. If it happens it happens....

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