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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am asking from a female perspective only here.

Whats the best way you have found to perform oral sex on a woman. Tips please with as much detail as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stating the obvious a 69 is good, but the 1 I like is to get the lady on the edge of the bed or chair with her legs raise and you can tease everywhere with your tongue and fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Edge of the bed legs raised or even sitting on the face to get really deep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am asking from a female perspective only here.

Whats the best way you have found to perform oral sex on a woman. Tips please with as much detail as possible. "

Definetly going to be reading this thread with interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am asking from a female perspective only here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love licking her pussy legs spread wide as they can while my fingers are inside her. once she is really wet I make her squirt and then lick her clean till climax

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

I'm not giving up my secrets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly, I like to take time, let her feel warm and relaxed, and make sure that she's emotionally at the point where she's ready.

Then usually the best place is with me kneeling at the side of the bed as she brings herself to my....

Then just take my time, pick up on every movement, every little sign of what she wants - where, fast or slow, soft or hard, changing with her desire.

Not going straight to the centre - there are so many other sensitive spots to arouse first - then softly, slowly, lovingly, take her to the edge and back - finding every way to give her pleasure - knowing in my own mind exactly what her body is going through, just what private fantasies are running through her head....

And when I take her over the top, it is gently, just holding her there - again and again until she's way beyond any place that she's ever been before - and slowly, so delicately, take her down the other side - floating down until she's so totally exhausted...

And then, above all, I hold her lovingly as she curls up and sleeps - safe in my soft and tender arms.

And that's what it's like from a feminine perspective - and why I love and adore my female partner, and why she loves me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple.

You perform with enthusiasm, technique honed over years of practice - and most importantly - because you truly enjoy it and the sensations it gives, rather than for any other motive!

It's something that should be done with no expectancy of reciprocation and whilst there's nothing intrinsically wrong with a '69' - I much prefer my company to just lie back and enjoy!!

And as a previous poster said - I'm not sharing any 'trade secrets' - I'd simply suggest guys throw themselves into as much practice as possible and gauge their technique based on the responses of their company!

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford


"Firstly, I like to take time, let her feel warm and relaxed, and make sure that she's emotionally at the point where she's ready.

Then usually the best place is with me kneeling at the side of the bed as she brings herself to my....

Then just take my time, pick up on every movement, every little sign of what she wants - where, fast or slow, soft or hard, changing with her desire.

Not going straight to the centre - there are so many other sensitive spots to arouse first - then softly, slowly, lovingly, take her to the edge and back - finding every way to give her pleasure - knowing in my own mind exactly what her body is going through, just what private fantasies are running through her head....

And when I take her over the top, it is gently, just holding her there - again and again until she's way beyond any place that she's ever been before - and slowly, so delicately, take her down the other side - floating down until she's so totally exhausted...

And then, above all, I hold her lovingly as she curls up and sleeps - safe in my soft and tender arms.

And that's what it's like from a feminine perspective - and why I love and adore my female partner, and why she loves me...

"

Aww lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly, I like to take time, let her feel warm and relaxed, and make sure that she's emotionally at the point where she's ready.

Then usually the best place is with me kneeling at the side of the bed as she brings herself to my....

Then just take my time, pick up on every movement, every little sign of what she wants - where, fast or slow, soft or hard, changing with her desire.

Not going straight to the centre - there are so many other sensitive spots to arouse first - then softly, slowly, lovingly, take her to the edge and back - finding every way to give her pleasure - knowing in my own mind exactly what her body is going through, just what private fantasies are running through her head....

And when I take her over the top, it is gently, just holding her there - again and again until she's way beyond any place that she's ever been before - and slowly, so delicately, take her down the other side - floating down until she's so totally exhausted...

And then, above all, I hold her lovingly as she curls up and sleeps - safe in my soft and tender arms.

And that's what it's like from a feminine perspective - and why I love and adore my female partner, and why she loves me...

"

If Carlsberg did Oral they would do it like this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly, I like to take time, let her feel warm and relaxed, and make sure that she's emotionally at the point where she's ready.

Then usually the best place is with me kneeling at the side of the bed as she brings herself to my....

Then just take my time, pick up on every movement, every little sign of what she wants - where, fast or slow, soft or hard, changing with her desire.

Not going straight to the centre - there are so many other sensitive spots to arouse first - then softly, slowly, lovingly, take her to the edge and back - finding every way to give her pleasure - knowing in my own mind exactly what her body is going through, just what private fantasies are running through her head....

And when I take her over the top, it is gently, just holding her there - again and again until she's way beyond any place that she's ever been before - and slowly, so delicately, take her down the other side - floating down until she's so totally exhausted...

And then, above all, I hold her lovingly as she curls up and sleeps - safe in my soft and tender arms.

And that's what it's like from a feminine perspective - and why I love and adore my female partner, and why she loves me...

"

Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple.

You perform with enthusiasm, technique honed over years of practice - and most importantly - because you truly enjoy it and the sensations it gives, rather than for any other motive!

It's something that should be done with no expectancy of reciprocation and whilst there's nothing intrinsically wrong with a '69' - I much prefer my company to just lie back and enjoy!!

And as a previous poster said - I'm not sharing any 'trade secrets' - I'd simply suggest guys throw themselves into as much practice as possible and gauge their technique based on the responses of their company! "

With you on the 69 there Obi I'd rather lay back and enjoy than have a mouthful or facefull of balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly, I like to take time, let her feel warm and relaxed, and make sure that she's emotionally at the point where she's ready.

Then usually the best place is with me kneeling at the side of the bed as she brings herself to my....

Then just take my time, pick up on

every movement, every little sign of what she wants - where, fast or slow, soft or hard, changing with her desire

Not going straight to the centre - there are so many other sensitive spots to arouse first - then softly, slowly, lovingly, take her to the edge and back - finding every way to give her pleasure -

knowing in my own mind exactly what her body is going through, just what private fantasies are running through her head....

And when I take her over the top, it is gently, just holding her there - again

and again until she's way beyond any place that she's ever been before - and slowly, so delicately, take her down the other side - floating down until she's so totally exhausted...

And then, above all, I hold her lovingly

as she curls up and sleeps - safe in my soft and tender arms.

And that's what it's like from a feminine perspective - and why I love and adore my female partner, and why she loves me..

"
will you marry me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly, I like to take time, let her feel warm and relaxed, and make sure that she's emotionally at the point where she's ready.

Then usually the best place is with me kneeling at the side of the bed as she brings herself to my....

Then just take my time, pick up on

every movement, every little sign of what she wants - where, fast or slow, soft or hard, changing with her desire

Not going straight to the centre - there are so many other sensitive spots to arouse first - then softly, slowly, lovingly, take her to the edge and back - finding every way to give her pleasure -

knowing in my own mind exactly what her body is going through, just what private fantasies are running through her head....

And when I take her over the top, it is gently, just holding her there - again

and again until she's way beyond any place that she's ever been before - and slowly, so delicately, take her down the other side - floating down until she's so totally exhausted...

And then, above all, I hold her lovingly

as she curls up and sleeps - safe in my soft and tender arms.

And that's what it's like from a feminine perspective - and why I love and adore my female partner, and why she loves me..

will you marry me "

if only you were a male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

will you marry me "

Aww, thanks, but you're two weeks too late - I've popped the question and she said Yes...! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

will you marry me

Aww, thanks, but you're two weeks too late - I've popped the question and she said Yes...! xxx"
congratulations to you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my own point of view and experiences, i think it is all about responding to her body and the signals that she is giving you with everything that you do. Like they say, with every action there is a reaction.

Personally, i like to take my time when im down there. Many dont realise that she can feel and sense every touch, even the touch of your warm breath on her body.

Im quite sensual when it comes to all this and i love to tease. It is all about the anticipation i believe, taking her to the edge..keep her edging for more. The thoughts in her head as to what will he do next.

Most importantly, i think its key to not leave her body untouched i.e. if your fingers are not inside or your tongue is not licking her..not to teasr her by doing nothing but tease her maybe with your warm breath on her clit..so she knows your there but wonders what you are doing...

Its all about the anticipation

(Thats all from a male perspective lol)

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By *londeandbrownCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"I am asking from a female perspective only here.

"

Men eh !! Never listen or too daft to read.

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By *londeandbrownCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"I am asking from a female perspective only here.

"

Men eh !! Never listen or too daft to read.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was more technique I was after. I had a young man bury his head between my legs which was most uncomfortable. And I could not say why what he was doing was not as good as what my fb does.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am asking from a female perspective only here.

Men eh !! Never listen or too daft to read. "

Sorry, I meant oral on a girl rather than on a guy. Not at all clear with my initial post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly, the 69 position does not make good oral for a women, that's men being selfish!

In my experience, It's about 100% satisfying the women, make sure she us laid comfy, legs up in the air isn't comfy after 30 mins of oral, It's not a race, It's about being allowed to perform a very intimate sexual act on someone you fancy

Lots of licking and general teasing the whole area first, making sure with your fingers the pussy is getting nice and wet, use your finger to softly rub the clit area, find that spot where you get the most reaction, then replace your finger with your tongue, and tease that clit, stimulating the women, slipping a finger between her lips as you lick her clit, move down and slip your tongue deep inside her now soaking wet pussy, feel her reaction against your tongue

If the women likes anal, you can rim her or finger fuck her ass while your licking her clit and pussy, but be careful, that bit isn't for all women.

Most importantly, enjoy it, and she will, slowly slowly, catch a orgasm: and when the women does orgasm, never stop, the next 10 mins are the wettest and most enjoyable for both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly, the 69 position does not make good oral for a women, that's men being selfish!

In my experience, It's about 100% satisfying the women, make sure she us laid comfy, legs up in the air isn't comfy after 30 mins of oral, It's not a race, It's about being allowed to perform a very intimate sexual act on someone you fancy

Lots of licking and general teasing the whole area first, making sure with your fingers the pussy is getting nice and wet, use your finger to softly rub the clit area, find that spot where you get the most reaction, then replace your finger with your tongue, and tease that clit, stimulating the women, slipping a finger between her lips as you lick her clit, move down and slip your tongue deep inside her now soaking wet pussy, feel her reaction against your tongue

If the women likes anal, you can rim her or finger fuck her ass while your licking her clit and pussy, but be careful, that bit isn't for all women.

Most importantly, enjoy it, and she will, slowly slowly, catch a orgasm: and when the women does orgasm, never stop, the next 10 mins are the wettest and most enjoyable for both "

wow

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Him in the other room...I don't like it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly, the 69 position does not make good oral for a women, that's men being selfish!

In my experience, It's about 100% satisfying the women, make sure she us laid comfy, legs up in the air isn't comfy after 30 mins of oral, It's not a race, It's about being allowed to perform a very intimate sexual act on someone you fancy

Lots of licking and general teasing the whole area first, making sure with your fingers the pussy is getting nice and wet, use your finger to softly rub the clit area, find that spot where you get the most reaction, then replace your finger with your tongue, and tease that clit, stimulating the women, slipping a finger between her lips as you lick her clit, move down and slip your tongue deep inside her now soaking wet pussy, feel her reaction against your tongue

If the women likes anal, you can rim her or finger fuck her ass while your licking her clit and pussy, but be careful, that bit isn't for all women.

Most importantly, enjoy it, and she will, slowly slowly, catch a orgasm: and when the women does orgasm, never stop, the next 10 mins are the wettest and most enjoyable for both

wow "

Wow indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly, the 69 position does not make good oral for a women, that's men being selfish!

In my experience, It's about 100% satisfying the women, make sure she us laid comfy, legs up in the air isn't comfy after 30 mins of oral, It's not a race, It's about being allowed to perform a very intimate sexual act on someone you fancy

Lots of licking and general teasing the whole area first, making sure with your fingers the pussy is getting nice and wet, use your finger to softly rub the clit area, find that spot where you get the most reaction, then replace your finger with your tongue, and tease that clit, stimulating the women, slipping a finger between her lips as you lick her clit, move down and slip your tongue deep inside her now soaking wet pussy, feel her reaction against your tongue

If the women likes anal, you can rim her or finger fuck her ass while your licking her clit and pussy, but be careful, that bit isn't for all women.

Most importantly, enjoy it, and she will, slowly slowly, catch a orgasm: and when the women does orgasm, never stop, the next 10 mins are the wettest and most enjoyable for both

wow

Wow indeed! "

Free demonstration available

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By *uroladiesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Edinburgh

As a woman who is in a relationship with a woman here is my tuppence worth:

Start by teasing the whole area with your tongue barely touching to increase excitement. Rushing in too forcefully and shoving fingers in her love tunnel can feel rushed and rough. As you make greater contact make sure the area is dripping with her own juices or your saliva. Try different pressures and techniques and stick with whatever she responds too. As she become more aroused and you sense climax is near do not whatever you do stop or try something else. As far as fingers are concerned try inserting one or two, or your thumb when she is wet and open, if you get the angle right you can stimulate her G spot at the same time. Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly, the 69 position does not make good oral for a women, that's men being selfish!

In my experience, It's about 100% satisfying the women, make sure she us laid comfy, legs up in the air isn't comfy after 30 mins of oral, It's not a race, It's about being allowed to perform a very intimate sexual act on someone you fancy

Lots of licking and general teasing the whole area first, making sure with your fingers the pussy is getting nice and wet, use your finger to softly rub the clit area, find that spot where you get the most reaction, then replace your finger with your tongue, and tease that clit, stimulating the women, slipping a finger between her lips as you lick her clit, move down and slip your tongue deep inside her now soaking wet pussy, feel her reaction against your tongue

If the women likes anal, you can rim her or finger fuck her ass while your licking her clit and pussy, but be careful, that bit isn't for all women.

Most importantly, enjoy it, and she will, slowly slowly, catch a orgasm: and when the women does orgasm, never stop, the next 10 mins are the wettest and most enjoyable for both

wow

Wow indeed!

Free demonstration available"

if only u were nearer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly, the 69 position does not make good oral for a women, that's men being selfish!

In my experience, It's about 100% satisfying the women, make sure she us laid comfy, legs up in the air isn't comfy after 30 mins of oral, It's not a race, It's about being allowed to perform a very intimate sexual act on someone you fancy

Lots of licking and general teasing the whole area first, making sure with your fingers the pussy is getting nice and wet, use your finger to softly rub the clit area, find that spot where you get the most reaction, then replace your finger with your tongue, and tease that clit, stimulating the women, slipping a finger between her lips as you lick her clit, move down and slip your tongue deep inside her now soaking wet pussy, feel her reaction against your tongue

If the women likes anal, you can rim her or finger fuck her ass while your licking her clit and pussy, but be careful, that bit isn't for all women.

Most importantly, enjoy it, and she will, slowly slowly, catch a orgasm: and when the women does orgasm, never stop, the next 10 mins are the wettest and most enjoyable for both

wow

Wow indeed!

Free demonstration available

if only u were nearer "

Been known to stay the odd night near Birmingham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly, the 69 position does not make good oral for a women, that's men being selfish!

In my experience, It's about 100% satisfying the women, make sure she us laid comfy, legs up in the air isn't comfy after 30 mins of oral, It's not a race, It's about being allowed to perform a very intimate sexual act on someone you fancy

Lots of licking and general teasing the whole area first, making sure with your fingers the pussy is getting nice and wet, use your finger to softly rub the clit area, find that spot where you get the most reaction, then replace your finger with your tongue, and tease that clit, stimulating the women, slipping a finger between her lips as you lick her clit, move down and slip your tongue deep inside her now soaking wet pussy, feel her reaction against your tongue

If the women likes anal, you can rim her or finger fuck her ass while your licking her clit and pussy, but be careful, that bit isn't for all women.

Most importantly, enjoy it, and she will, slowly slowly, catch a orgasm: and when the women does orgasm, never stop, the next 10 mins are the wettest and most enjoyable for both

wow

Wow indeed!

Free demonstration available

if only u were nearer

Been known to stay the odd night near Birmingham"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to have her kneel over me as I lay under her and gently kiss softly around her pussy lips and even more softly touch her clit to build up the tension, whilst I'm doing this I'm running my hands over her body and caressing her breasts and bum, I gradually build it up from there by kissing and licking and sucking her clit and lips, and gradually start to massage her gspot with my fingers whilst still sucking her clit whilst sliding my tongue into the clit aswell, always found this works well

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"

will you marry me

Aww, thanks, but you're two weeks too late - I've popped the question and she said Yes...! xxx"

Congratulations xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Firstly, the 69 position does not make good oral for a women, that's men being selfish!

In my experience, It's about 100% satisfying the women, make sure she us laid comfy, legs up in the air isn't comfy after 30 mins of oral, It's not a race, It's about being allowed to perform a very intimate sexual act on someone you fancy

Lots of licking and general teasing the whole area first, making sure with your fingers the pussy is getting nice and wet, use your finger to softly rub the clit area, find that spot where you get the most reaction, then replace your finger with your tongue, and tease that clit, stimulating the women, slipping a finger between her lips as you lick her clit, move down and slip your tongue deep inside her now soaking wet pussy, feel her reaction against your tongue

If the women likes anal, you can rim her or finger fuck her ass while your licking her clit and pussy, but be careful, that bit isn't for all women.

Most importantly, enjoy it, and she will, slowly slowly, catch a orgasm: and when the women does orgasm, never stop, the next 10 mins are the wettest and most enjoyable for both "

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