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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Morning all, after browsing through sone hot profiles im coming very interested in the older ladies on this site. There profiles are so clear on what they want and some of the verifys are WOW ( turned on after reading some them)

Any older ladies please get in touch.....

also anyone care to share and stories they have had with mature ladies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a kid the older ladies used to give me imperial mints when I went to chapel on a Sunday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said it before, and I'll say it again. If you're interested in older ladies, DO NOT MENTION OUR AGE!. The biggest sexual turn-off is for a man to say he is attracted to me because I am older (or more mature, or more experienced, or a cougar or a MILF).

All these phrases guarantee that I will never meet that person.

Just approach us in the same way as you would approach a woman your own age or younger, and keep schtum on your own sexual fantasies. We're not here to fulfil your sexual fantasies, we're here for our own sexual needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've said it before, and I'll say it again. If you're interested in older ladies, DO NOT MENTION OUR AGE!. The biggest sexual turn-off is for a man to say he is attracted to me because I am older (or more mature, or more experienced, or a cougar or a MILF).

All these phrases guarantee that I will never meet that person.

Just approach us in the same way as you would approach a woman your own age or younger, and keep schtum on your own sexual fantasies. We're not here to fulfil your sexual fantasies, we're here for our own sexual needs. "

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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago

n/wales


"I've said it before, and I'll say it again. If you're interested in older ladies, DO NOT MENTION OUR AGE!. The biggest sexual turn-off is for a man to say he is attracted to me because I am older (or more mature, or more experienced, or a cougar or a MILF).

All these phrases guarantee that I will never meet that person.

Just approach us in the same way as you would approach a woman your own age or younger, and keep schtum on your own sexual fantasies. We're not here to fulfil your sexual fantasies, we're here for our own sexual needs. "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well sorry for saying anything will keep me mouth shut from now on.... thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're here to fulfill your fantasies too,so say what you like,

some people will like it and others won't thats just the way of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes - we "older ladies" as you like call us are experienced, uninhibited, sexually adventurous, wonderful company and a whole bundle of fun...

Which is exactly why many of us prefer to stick to our own age group!

Can't be doing with all this youth and inexperience, myself...

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

always confuses me this one .. how old is an older woman ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're here to fulfill your fantasies too,so say what you like,

some people will like it and others won't thats just the way of life "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the problem with being called older. Unless someone is exactly the same age as me, then I'm either older or younger!!

Maybe some of you can suggest what younger men are meant to call us? My preference is for younger men. I assume its ok for me to call them that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've said it before, and I'll say it again. If you're interested in older ladies, DO NOT MENTION OUR AGE!. The biggest sexual turn-off is for a man to say he is attracted to me because I am older (or more mature, or more experienced, or a cougar or a MILF).

All these phrases guarantee that I will never meet that person.

Just approach us in the same way as you would approach a woman your own age or younger, and keep schtum on your own sexual fantasies. We're not here to fulfil your sexual fantasies, we're here for our own sexual needs. "

Unbelievable.

We're all here to fulfill our fantasies. Otherwise stay in a monogamous relationship.

Oh, and you contradicted yourself by referring to yourself as "older"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unbelievable.

We're all here to fulfill our fantasies. Otherwise stay in a monogamous relationship.

Oh, and you contradicted yourself by referring to yourself as "older" "

Yeah, and I'm going to CONTINUE to fulfil my fantasies with men who understand women, and who understand the importance of treating each other with courtesy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see any discourtesy towards anyone in this thread,just an angry mature woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see any discourtesy towards anyone in this thread,just an angry mature woman "

I'm not in the slightest bit angry, cus I'm getting plenty from courteous men. I am merely trying to explain to the OP that approaching women telling them that he finds them attractive because they are "older" is likely to be self-defeating, as many (not all) women find that being reminded of their age is a sexual turn-off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

should be proud of your age regardless of what it be

its all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't see the problem with being called older. Unless someone is exactly the same age as me, then I'm either older or younger!!

Maybe some of you can suggest what younger men are meant to call us? My preference is for younger men. I assume its ok for me to call them that? "

How about fit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have not approached any ladies at all was simply just saying I like the older, mature what ever you want call your selfs. All I was saying that looking through profiles I find the more mature ones a lot better and easier to read.

Yes I know you have more experience etc etc and would just like to chat and may be a meet when I'm in UK

So again I sorry if I upset anyone

Please forgive me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not read all the threads on here but i'm guessing the term "older woman" is causing a stink.

The thing that amuses me is I get messages from men in their late 30's asking to meet me because it's always been their fantasy to have an older woman!

Older yes...but just by the odd year or two??? Oh i'm 40 by the way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have not approached any ladies at all was simply just saying I like the older, mature what ever you want call your selfs. All I was saying that looking through profiles I find the more mature ones a lot better and easier to read.

Yes I know you have more experience etc etc and would just like to chat and may be a meet when I'm in UK

So again I sorry if I upset anyone

Please forgive me "

This is a open forum and you can say what you like within the rules

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not read all the threads on here but i'm guessing the term "older woman" is causing a stink.

The thing that amuses me is I get messages from men in their late 30's asking to meet me because it's always been their fantasy to have an older woman!

Older yes...but just by the odd year or two??? Oh i'm 40 by the way!"

Mwahhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think women just get more touchy and paranoid about their age as they get older. My ex was 57 when i met her n has just turned 60...i used to treat her with respect and love...but just like some of the replies on here, she was just very touchy...i was proud to have her by my side...so why wasnt she proud of me? Hmmm one rule for them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To a 20 yr old im going to be seen as an older mature woman,to a 60 yr old im going to be seen as a youngster.......both are correct

Im an older mature youngster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get touchy, I am mature like a fine wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i want a older lady i would have to start looking in retirement homes

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