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Do you find clubs the best way?

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By *evergiveup OP   Man
2 days ago

derbyshire

We have been going to a club recently and found it such a good way of meeting sexy like-minded people without the " no show, ghosting, can't meet etc"

Are you the same ?

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By *inetimecoupleCouple
2 days ago

close to Chester

100% we turn up at club at what ever time suits us, we talk to people if we click we play, if not we move on.

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By *aomilatteCouple
2 days ago

Midlands

For us clubs are the best way to meet swingers. Some people who go aren't even on Fab, there's more to swinging than Fab.

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By *allDarkTypeMan
2 days ago

Lancs/ Manc/ South East


"We have been going to a club recently and found it such a good way of meeting sexy like-minded people without the " no show, ghosting, can't meet etc"

Are you the same ?

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100%. I’ve always enjoyed the social side and the liberating feel to clubs, meeting likeminded people inperson just feels a lot more natural. If the night’s got a sexy atmosphere, a good crowd and some decent live music, I’m sold

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By *illySlutinOxfordshireTV/TS
2 days ago

North Oxfordshire

Yes, to the extent that I have been bothering less and less about trying to meet people on here, which wastes far more time than driving a couple of hours or so once or twice a month and avoids the irritation of the time wasters, picture hunters, profile illiterates, unclean weirdoes, online masturbators, and other less than ‘fabulous’ men that seem to considerably outnumber decent and attractive men who actually want sex on here.

I find a club much more relaxed, friendly, safer, and easier for someone like me who basically just wants to enjoy plenty of safe sex and make friends with a few people.

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By *heyorkiesCouple
2 days ago

townhouse


"We have been going to a club recently and found it such a good way of meeting sexy like-minded people without the " no show, ghosting, can't meet etc"

Are you the same ?

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Clubs are the way forward. You know the people are real and you don't have to worry about getting catfished.

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By *evergiveup OP   Man
2 days ago

derbyshire

I'm so glad that we aren't alone

We agree with all the comments made

Thank you

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By *KB2Couple
2 days ago

Coventry

We love clubs great way to be around like minded people even if you don’t play with them they are like minded and non judgmental x

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By *abulincsCouple
2 days ago

near a bridge

We go to clubs it definitely cuts down on the time waters but we seldom chat as guys just lurk around hoping without social skills and find it equally difficult finding couples we both like look of but still always a great night out

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By *oxycouple28Couple
2 days ago

bexley

We have always tradtionally done clubs.... MUCH better than here.

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By *w funwifeWoman
2 days ago

near taunton


"We have been going to a club recently and found it such a good way of meeting sexy like-minded people without the " no show, ghosting, can't meet etc"

Are you the same ?

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ckubs are not for everyone in fact a very small % of swingers use them just look at how few there are in the uk and then alot are never full with a few struggling ..

my own view is clubs are good i dont play in them often but i do get to meet new people whom i get to know oitside the club environment 99% of guys i meet come from meeting them at clubs first.. its also good for getting invites on the private house party scene plus getting to know other even if you dont wish to play..

for single guys i alway say that going to clubs can help get on the ladder of swinging

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By *WB85Man
2 days ago

Staffordshire

Clubs offer people lots of choice in a fast paced environment.

I often find them sleezy and they don't match my approach to swinging.

My partner on the other hand enjoys them....so we do go occasionally.

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By *andK78Couple
2 days ago

Newport

Definitely, every time we are available people we have been talking to suddenly goes quite.

Only been meeting people at clubs lately.

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By *evergiveup OP   Man
2 days ago

derbyshire


"We go to clubs it definitely cuts down on the time waters but we seldom chat as guys just lurk around hoping without social skills and find it equally difficult finding couples we both like look of but still always a great night out "

We've found it best to go to a " couples only" night as it stops the male overload

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By *heyorkiesCouple
2 days ago

townhouse


"We go to clubs it definitely cuts down on the time waters but we seldom chat as guys just lurk around hoping without social skills and find it equally difficult finding couples we both like look of but still always a great night out "

It's very difficult to find a 4 way connection xx

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By *evergiveup OP   Man
2 days ago

derbyshire


"We go to clubs it definitely cuts down on the time waters but we seldom chat as guys just lurk around hoping without social skills and find it equally difficult finding couples we both like look of but still always a great night out

It's very difficult to find a 4 way connection xx"

We find it easier to decide than - online x

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By *heyorkiesCouple
2 days ago

townhouse


"We go to clubs it definitely cuts down on the time waters but we seldom chat as guys just lurk around hoping without social skills and find it equally difficult finding couples we both like look of but still always a great night out

It's very difficult to find a 4 way connection xx

We find it easier to decide than - online x "

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By *issmorganWoman
2 days ago

Yorks

When my partner and I were more active, we found clubs and socials much easier.

For starters you can see both people of a couple, which often you can't here & you're all available at the same time.

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By *aandLoCouple
2 days ago

Southampton

We've never had any luck meeting couples to play with at clubs.

We're not very good 'on the spot.' Great at approaching people and saying hello, chatting a bit, but no confidence in taking the initiative to suggest play, We might have missed a few hints on occasions (see above, not very good on the spot) and no one has ever directly invited us to play.

It's easy meeting and playing with single guys at clubs though.

The build up of a connection via Fab has worked a few times to meet couples, but as has been said couples we've been chatting with are prone to disappear when we try to fix an actual meet.

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By *heyorkiesCouple
2 days ago

townhouse


"We've never had any luck meeting couples to play with at clubs.

We're not very good 'on the spot.' Great at approaching people and saying hello, chatting a bit, but no confidence in taking the initiative to suggest play, We might have missed a few hints on occasions (see above, not very good on the spot) and no one has ever directly invited us to play.

It's easy meeting and playing with single guys at clubs though.

The build up of a connection via Fab has worked a few times to meet couples, but as has been said couples we've been chatting with are prone to disappear when we try to fix an actual meet.

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We always wonder what the right time to ask the question is when at a club. You don't want tonspend ages chatting and then getting turned down. This doesn't leave any time to try and pull someone else.

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By *pongeFab-SwingPantsCouple
2 days ago

Upside down Pineapple under the sea

We only meet at clubs, only use Fab to find events and keep in touch with friends. So much easier when you're talking to real people face to face.

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By *ightDesiresCouple
2 days ago

Northamptonshire

We are fairly new and we've been to a club once but loved it , we have two more events booked already. We haven't met anyone through Fab and barely have any conversations , so for us clubs is going to be where we actually meet people.

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By *ubyRonCouple
2 days ago

Lancs

Would love to spend more time in clubs but feel like it can be slightly overwhelming. Ruby loves them though

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By *arkAdonis2026Man
1 day ago

Bury

Yes, it's probably fine if you're more appealing than I, but I do much better when we're already naked and sat in a jacuzzi. And if it's quiet or nobody is interested I'll just enjoy the water.

I'd probably get bored in the ones that don't have wet areas or have poor wet areas though. Or play the music too loud, club music does my head in, so there's no appeal in listening to it or dancing for me, and I'd rather be talking to people than yelling at them over the music.

I still need to try a few more, but they've been massively more successful than here so far.

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By *wistedTooCouple
1 day ago

Frimley, Surrey

We like meeting couples and single girls at clubs but we generally don’t play, we socialise, and if we like them, we take their details and follow up after.

Single guys tho? Fab. Easy lol.

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By *iamond couple twoCouple
1 day ago

Wakefield

We like the club for its convenience it’s only 10 minutes away and we can go spur of the moment and not have to plan ahead. No no shows and no cancellations. No nasty suprises and you get what you see

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By *inkflirtandlickMan
1 day ago

Alcudia

Never been to a club but it makes sense that it must be esiest way to meet people and know that they are genuine

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By *aandLoCouple
1 day ago

Southampton


"Yes, it's probably fine if you're more appealing than I, but I do much better when we're already naked and sat in a jacuzzi. And if it's quiet or nobody is interested I'll just enjoy the water.

I'd probably get bored in the ones that don't have wet areas or have poor wet areas though. Or play the music too loud, club music does my head in, so there's no appeal in listening to it or dancing for me, and I'd rather be talking to people than yelling at them over the music.

I still need to try a few more, but they've been massively more successful than here so far."

We prefer a spa club too. A jacuzzi, a chat and guaranteed sex with each other. It's always a good night even if no one wants to talk or play with us.

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By *xxMandLxxxCouple
23 hours ago

Southampton

We've also been club orientated because work is pretty demanding of our time and we're both often called away at short notice. We don't want to break arrangements with people so just go to clubs when we can.

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By *ystery2Couple
23 hours ago

Preston

Clubs 100%.. safer too, we us fab to chat. To try and meet people at clubs.

But everyone we talked to is always been at clubs

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By *aomilatteCouple
23 hours ago

Midlands


"Yes, it's probably fine if you're more appealing than I, but I do much better when we're already naked and sat in a jacuzzi. And if it's quiet or nobody is interested I'll just enjoy the water.

I'd probably get bored in the ones that don't have wet areas or have poor wet areas though. Or play the music too loud, club music does my head in, so there's no appeal in listening to it or dancing for me, and I'd rather be talking to people than yelling at them over the music.

I still need to try a few more, but they've been massively more successful than here so far."

If you have to yell over the music then the music is too loud, people should tell the club and the club should take it on board. Personally we have no interest in hot tubs/wet areas and love to dance. That's why it's good that there are clubs to suit all tastes.

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By *ussexbilad94Man
23 hours ago

Brighton

Clubs are the best, you can go there with no expectations, go to relax, have a drink and have a good time, and then get chatting to other like minded people and go from there, I've made so many friends throughout the years going to various clubs

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By *arlangeCouple
22 hours ago

newcastle upon tyne

Since discovering PDI and the clubs there that is now our preference. Plenty clubs ,loads of opportunities to meet,open play etc.We never play at home now preferring to go out there 2/3 times year with good weather and as much or as little fun as we want.

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