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By *ola1976 OP   Woman
over a year ago

mablethorpe

ive not been to a club befor so dont no what happens lol and very keen but hubby not can you go and do nothing just watch i mean xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

voyeurism...........sure so long as the people playing ok with being watched. tho i reckon you be joining in. as horny as it gets.....done that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive not been to a club befor so dont no what happens lol and very keen but hubby not can you go and do nothing just watch i mean xxxx"

we went to our first club in august,n to be honest we didnt play the first night,just watched,soaked up the atmosphere,found our feet so to speak,no we cant keep away lol.play things at your own pace,thats the beauty of clubs,no one is pressurised into anything.hope you both have a lot of fun if ever you do go to one

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By *ola1976 OP   Woman
over a year ago

mablethorpe

thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive been using clubs for about 10 years, they all different but basically the same, you dont have to do anything you dont want to, many people just go for a drink, chat and look round first time, lots of people only go for a drink and a chat and never play, even months later lol if you just wanted to use the place as a pub with like minded people you can, if you want to go and just play together you can, if you want to go and play with others you can, its totally upto you what you do, i go as a single woman and i never get any problems really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our circumstances are different to most, Sasha and I have been together for a year early next now and we are regulars at Chameleons but we have never played there.

We only live 30 seconds away from the club so we like to go there and chill out, meet our friends and meet new people.

When we do meet compatible people to play with we tend to come home and play here because we prefer it that way, that's no reflection on the club or it's facilities and if we lived further away we would happily play there but it does show that there is no expectancy to do anything nor is there any obligation to do so.

Quite often we pre-arrange meets here at home but all go to the club for the night then come home and play till breakfast and beyond, we have such a meet arranged with a couple of newbies this Saturday and did the same with a couple who have never been to the club last Saturday (they played at the club with others before we all came back here).

So our advice would be go, relax and do what you feel comfortable with.

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By *BCBlondeCouple
over a year ago

DURHAM

The choice is yours! nobody should put any pressure on you! we went to 3 clubs and soaked up the atmosphere and watched and chatted before we played fully but you soon get sucked in! pardon the pun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive not been to a club befor so dont no what happens lol and very keen but hubby not can you go and do nothing just watch i mean xxxx"

Its entirely up to you what you do when you get there.

Mind you not doing anything would be like going on a Cadburys tour and not eating a choccy!

XXXX

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By *ola1976 OP   Woman
over a year ago

mablethorpe

thankyou everybody for your time in explaing to me xxxxx

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