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Couples Who Meet Single Men - What Do You Look For In A Man

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By *oyston Vasey OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield- Pothole City

call it market research , but i was wondering what you couples who meet single guys look for in a platmate . ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usually what they ask for on their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

god loves a tryer .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"usually what they ask for on their profiles.

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yep,just as it says on our profile

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"god loves a tryer ......."

But does he really? or does he eventually get pissed off and strike them down with a bolt of lightening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys who can travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

got to agree with jed and sasha i would probably expect you to travel apart from that i think we all have prefrences eg age ,sexual prefrences ,all the usuals that are on profiles but got to be honest and say that the single men who we have met on a regular basis are the men we have met at clubs and got a feel of them so to speak lol

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By *oyston Vasey OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield- Pothole City


"god loves a tryer .......

But does he really? or does he eventually get pissed off and strike them down with a bolt of lightening "

Im sorry , i thought this was an open forum for any member to post on and start threads .

you have made it clear you dont like me ,which is your right ,but im entitled to start a thread looking for opinions .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hahaha ye right. 20 stone ginger bearded trucker guy. homeless, but can travel?

c'mon. surely they look for 'the element of physical attraction' its a defo cert lol

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"god loves a tryer .......

But does he really? or does he eventually get pissed off and strike them down with a bolt of lightening

Im sorry , i thought this was an open forum for any member to post on and start threads .

you have made it clear you dont like me ,which is your right ,but im entitled to start a thread looking for opinions ."

I don't not like you I just think you have had loads of advice yet still want more when the truth is you just want to sit in your house and let everyone come to you

Oh and just as you are entitled to start a thread im entitled to respond on it,even if its not what you want to hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hahaha ye right. 20 stone ginger bearded trucker guy. homeless, but can travel?

c'mon. surely they look for 'the element of physical attraction' its a defo cert lol"

all right its not just about the travel!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is one common denominator, it applies to couples looking for couples, couples looking for singles, singles looking for singles, singles looking for couples and people looking for group fun, or in other words:

One common denominator for everyone.

We all seek RESPECT.

It comes in many forms

Respect me

Respect my partner

Respect those who join us for fun

Respect peoples choices

Respect peoples profiles

Have respe ct

Show respect

Expect respect

Give respect

Get shagged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and single guys

A six pack helps

Good looks helps

A personality will get you laid

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By *oyston Vasey OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield- Pothole City


"Oh and single guys

A six pack helps

Good looks helps

A personality will get you laid "

Luckily ive always got a six pack in the fridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol.......

gotta say tho, some single guys are just too desperate......

we all got standards. me included...

here's to free will & individualism.

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon


"There is one common denominator, it applies to couples looking for couples, couples looking for singles, singles looking for singles, singles looking for couples and people looking for group fun, or in other words:

One common denominator for everyone.

We all seek RESPECT.

It comes in many forms

Respect me

Respect my partner

Respect those who join us for fun

Respect peoples choices

Respect peoples profiles

Have respe ct

Show respect

Expect respect

Give respect

Get shagged "

well said

as one of the older guys on here if i can get alot of fun

the younger guys must be doing some thing wrong

why is it that they all come on here thinking they are god gift to women

and winnge when it dont happen

answer.... sheer aragance,

so come on guys wake up and smell the coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like a guy with a bit of savy who can sent an interesting message. Also flexibility is good when you cant always meet at short notice or things change with family.

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By *oyston Vasey OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield- Pothole City

Jim , i for one have never thought im gods gift to women ,and see myself as just an average , down to earth man ,friendly and easy to get on with.

i think myself ,like a lot of males on here do all the right things , never abuse people , treat people with respect and never harrass people .

Granted , i speak my mind ,and say it how i see it , but hey , its an open forum .

I feel i must congratulate you on your amazing success on here and good luck to you .

Feel free to PM me the secret to your success.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"Jim , i for one have never thought im gods gift to women ,and see myself as just an average , down to earth man ,friendly and easy to get on with.

i think myself ,like a lot of males on here do all the right things , never abuse people , treat people with respect and never harrass people .

Granted , i speak my mind ,and say it how i see it , but hey , its an open forum .

I feel i must congratulate you on your amazing success on here and good luck to you .

Feel free to PM me the secret to your success. "

You look good to me

And I like it that your not like Jim

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By *oyston Vasey OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield- Pothole City

spread the word Lickme - i need a change of luck

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Jed and Sasha were so right in their advice, I would also add that when asking for advice it's best not to throw your dummy out of the pram in a public forum when it is given. There's no magic potion just humility and respect for others.

I would suggest you google desaderata and read and digest it.

Very very wise words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a single guy who puts more than 1 line into a message. argh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

since when did putting nice tits or im vwe wan2 fuck? get anyone laid?

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By *oyston Vasey OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield- Pothole City


"a single guy who puts more than 1 line into a message. argh!

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we dont all send one line messages - i have always spent time and effort composing a detailed message to whoever im contacting ,but have stopped mailing ,as they are just deleted

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By *oyston Vasey OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield- Pothole City


"since when did putting nice tits or im vwe wan2 fuck? get anyone laid?"

again ,those are things ive never ,and would never put in a message - some of us take the time to send a proper polite message -for all the good it do`s.

im always polite and respectful when contacting someone ,but it seems all us single men get tarred with the same brush .

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By *oyston Vasey OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield- Pothole City


"Jed and Sasha were so right in their advice, I would also add that when asking for advice it's best not to throw your dummy out of the pram in a public forum when it is given. There's no magic potion just humility and respect for others.

I would suggest you google desaderata and read and digest it.

Very very wise words."

after the advice ive been given , i have acted on it ,and changed things in my profile ,which were pointed out to me as being worth changing. im now happy with my profile ,thanks to the advice i was given .

as for respect , i have always been respectful when sending a message to a couple ,have never abused anyone and im always polite and honest ,and send a detailed and well set out message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

m8. just accept that people have a choice and also do pre judge sub consciously albeit. if someone dont like what they see, well they leave it there. you may well not be as rude or arrogant as other guys on here, but if you are not what they require then so be it.... no offence meant. your not on your own. whatever happens happens. dont force it is my approach to this site and others alike....just my opinion tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty is a start, other than the usual attraction, example, if a guy is bi then say so on his profile, don't hide the verification from another bi guy and claim to be straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty is a start, other than the usual attraction, example, if a guy is bi then say so on his profile, don't hide the verification from another bi guy and claim to be straight.

"

At least they have the "sense" to do that - it's the one's that say they're straight but when you look at their verifications all from tv/ts and bi men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty is a start, other than the usual attraction, example, if a guy is bi then say so on his profile, don't hide the verification from another bi guy and claim to be straight.

At least they have the "sense" to do that - it's the one's that say they're straight but when you look at their verifications all from tv/ts and bi men

"

you would think they would just join fabs sister site fabguys.com as thats more aimed for men and TV's

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By *oyston Vasey OP   Man
over a year ago

Sheffield- Pothole City


"Honesty is a start, other than the usual attraction, example, if a guy is bi then say so on his profile, don't hide the verification from another bi guy and claim to be straight.

"

If you check the post i made on another thread "rate my profile" - i said theres no point in showing the one verification i have ,as it was from a bloke i was chatting with in the chatroom one day who lives very close to me ,and as we were both bored we met up for a pint and a game of snooker in a local pub ,so its not relevent in terms of verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am i allowed to reply to this as im not a couple but i do meet single guys lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We read that post, it says in the opening sentence you had a great meet with a couple, and that your hoping to meet them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"am i allowed to reply to this as im not a couple but i do meet single guys lol"

We dont meet single men (we choose them from the club and invite them home) and we commented, I guess open forums and as you have been a couple before now I am sure your views are as valid and welcome as everyone else's perhaps moreso as I am sure many guys would like to hear a single womans perspective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

suppose good sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Mark, to be honest if I lived in your area your profile would put me off... to much going on should try and cut it down a bit, if you are bored of keep emailing peeps just type out one email and save it then you just copy and paste! you can add to it if you wish to. if you dont get a response then there has been next to no time wasted!

The next thing is pushy guys... that is the killer for single males, there is not a cat in hells chance of them getting anywhere near us... The thing with pushy guys is that they forget that we are real people with real lives and cant respond straight away just cause they decided to drop us an email...

And last of all I notice that you have only been on this site for six weeks, I know that you said that you are very experienced, then that experience should tell you that patience is a virtue

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