FabSwingers.com forum: Help a brother out...

By *onny Bones OP Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

Hi all I been here a while. I love the forums as you can have a heated debate with someone whose opinion you may not agree with. The forums are a great place to find like minded people also. The forums are also a place newbies come to say hi, introduce themselves and sometimes ask for the opinion or assistance of more experienced members. I tend to find a fair few get shot down in flames also!

I wanted to write about some of the things I have learned in the hope it helps at least one person. This is from my point if view and may not be shared by all.

1. Don't moan about lack of meets if you are not putting in effort. If you solely rely on the web as your only source of sexual pleasure then we have trouble.

2. Decide on what you have to offer. What makes you unique and stick to it.

3. One size does not fit all. My opinion on what to do for the best will be different from another's. what has worked for another may not for you. Try your own approaches.

4. Respect people's boundaries and understand that their profile does not always reflect their finer points or their bad ones. Read between the lines and you can usually work out if you would be compatible.

5. Live out your fantasies. Find like minded people who enjoy similar to you. Leave vanilla world behind, there really are women who enjoy doing those things. By being patient you will find a good time.

Any other pearls of wisdom, please add...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good advice, im new here and this is my first time trying anything like this, it seems straight away I got alienated, it don't bother me but like I said it seems people on here make judgments and alienate based on assumptions, rather then chatting and getting to know the person.

I understand these things take time and it requires patience to find someone likeminded, if you can give advice blklad it would be appreciated.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Patience & perseverance predominately prevail

Oh, and a sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Patience & perseverance predominately prevail

Oh, and a sense of humour

Well least you got 2 out of 3

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By *onny Bones OP Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

Personally I would advise to focus on who you get the best vibe from. You will know who will welcome your advances by spending a bit of time reading profiles. Socialize, where possible meet other people who enjoy the lifestyle. Attend a club or organized event when possible.

Try something new!

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Completely agree about the socialising part.

There are always socials in the meets sections being advertised. It's a great way to get into the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I should start with social meets, great advice and be observant, thanks for the advice ill let you guys know how I get on.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Sometimes when I log on in the evening there are 20,000 fabbers. Only about 2% of those use the forum, a percentage of those won't be suitable so it leaves very few people to meet for sex if you rely on the forums. Socials and clubs are a good way to actually physically meet likeminded people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use all the avaliable features of the site and see what brings the best results. Pics, Chat' Forums etc.

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