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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Recently had a few single guys make first contact, a nice polite message to me. So I respond and show my interest by responding with a nice message. The message then gets deleted, so why on earth bother to make first contact?? dont understand it.

I do feel for the genuine single guys on here as some do make it harder for the genuine.

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By *ysteryboatMan
over a year ago

Brighton

Only a few ? You'll start getting an idea of what life as a single male is like when you hit 50% - just keep smiling and move on - there's always another guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but did you repy with something for him to go off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently had a few single guys make first contact, a nice polite message to me. So I respond and show my interest by responding with a nice message. The message then gets deleted, so why on earth bother to make first contact?? dont understand it.

I do feel for the genuine single guys on here as some do make it harder for the genuine. "

Perhaps only you think it was a nice message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only a few ? You'll start getting an idea of what life as a single male is like when you hit 50% - just keep smiling and move on - there's always another guy."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"but did you repy with something for him to go off?"

I messaged back:

hi thank you for your message. like the sound of your profile and you have some nice pictures. what are you into?

kirsty.

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By *arks38Man
over a year ago

barnsley

sounds ok to me

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"but did you repy with something for him to go off?

I messaged back:

hi thank you for your message. like the sound of your profile and you have some nice pictures. what are you into?

kirsty. "

probably shocked them

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"but did you repy with something for him to go off?

I messaged back:

hi thank you for your message. like the sound of your profile and you have some nice pictures. what are you into?

kirsty.

probably shocked them"

Hahahaha - agree with you there. It was probably his first ever reply !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're in a dead faint on the floor so can't respond right now

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It might be the bit where you say what are you into. Used to be instant delete for me in a first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they fainted as you wrote more than a " yes babes" "no Hun" and the good old classic "lol" us singles guys aren't used to non moronic replies and we get scared x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"but did you repy with something for him to go off?

I messaged back:

hi thank you for your message. like the sound of your profile and you have some nice pictures. what are you into?

kirsty.

probably shocked them"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think they fainted as you wrote more than a " yes babes" "no Hun" and the good old classic "lol" us singles guys aren't used to non moronic replies and we get scared x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It might be the bit where you say what are you into. Used to be instant delete for me in a first message"

makes a change its usually the men that ask me that

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Recently had a few single guys make first contact, a nice polite message to me. So I respond and show my interest by responding with a nice message. The message then gets deleted, so why on earth bother to make first contact?? dont understand it.

I do feel for the genuine single guys on here as some do make it harder for the genuine. "

if this thread had been started by a bloke, he would have had some choice words by now...

its doesn't make it any harder for genuine guys at all... and thats not to say that the people who decide to not to answer you back aren't genuine....

they make changed their minds.... if it is obvious someone hasn't read my profile, to be honest I don't answer back either

its sounds like a case of "butthurt"... and there is some souls that are a tad too sensitive for their own good....

there have been cases where i have made first contact, and when they have written back i have thought "oooh no.." and not got back... does that make me bad?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Recently had a few single guys make first contact, a nice polite message to me. So I respond and show my interest by responding with a nice message. The message then gets deleted, so why on earth bother to make first contact?? dont understand it.

I do feel for the genuine single guys on here as some do make it harder for the genuine.

if this thread had been started by a bloke, he would have had some choice words by now...

its doesn't make it any harder for genuine guys at all... and thats not to say that the people who decide to not to answer you back aren't genuine....

they make changed their minds.... if it is obvious someone hasn't read my profile, to be honest I don't answer back either

its sounds like a case of "butthurt"... and there is some souls that are a tad too sensitive for their own good....

there have been cases where i have made first contact, and when they have written back i have thought "oooh no.." and not got back... does that make me bad?"

no dont make u bad. but if a guy dont reply back to me because i have complinented them and been nice then its not the kind of guy i want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recently had a few single guys make first contact, a nice polite message to me. So I respond and show my interest by responding with a nice message. The message then gets deleted, so why on earth bother to make first contact?? dont understand it.

I do feel for the genuine single guys on here as some do make it harder for the genuine. "

maybe he changed his mind

ive mailed a few guys then because of something they have said I've been put off them so stopped chatting

That's the point of chatting surely

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


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no dont make u bad. but if a guy dont reply back to me because i have complinented them and been nice then its not the kind of guy i want to meet "

maybe they changed their mind.... maybe they want to take things slowly, maybe it is a million and one reasons, maybe real life got in the way....

you never know, but it doesn't not make them genuine...

sometimes I think the read/delete function on here is the worst thing and it was removed, because it makes some people ultra-paranoid about everything

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Recently had a few single guys make first contact, a nice polite message to me. So I respond and show my interest by responding with a nice message. The message then gets deleted, so why on earth bother to make first contact?? dont understand it.

I do feel for the genuine single guys on here as some do make it harder for the genuine.

maybe he changed his mind

ive mailed a few guys then because of something they have said I've been put off them so stopped chatting

That's the point of chatting surely"

yes.. better to find out from the onset rather than once u met

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