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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is it wrong to expect cples to have face pics in there private pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean friends only pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it wrong to expect cples to have face pics in there private pics?"

more upsetting is that I'm not in the pics with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes "

No right or wrong, for any type of account. People may choose to have them set to private and not friends and send then when they want to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you mean friends only pics?

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is it wrong to expect cples to have face pics in there private pics?

more upsetting is that I'm not in the pics with them "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

by the way i am the male half and have never posted before!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"by the way i am the male half and have never posted before! "

Well like I said above, people may choose to have their face pics set to private and really it is up to the individual how they run their profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yes

No right or wrong, for any type of account. People may choose to have them set to private and not friends and send then when they want to."

so whats the point of having private and friends? i find it easyer and quicker to swop friends invites,if then you dont like what you see you delete but sending private they get to keep your pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"by the way i am the male half and have never posted before! "

congratulations on losing your forum virginity

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"yes

No right or wrong, for any type of account. People may choose to have them set to private and not friends and send then when they want to.

so whats the point of having private and friends? i find it easyer and quicker to swop friends invites,if then you dont like what you see you delete but sending private they get to keep your pics? "

And theres nothing to stop them saving a copy of your friend only pics before you remove them as a friend..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes

No right or wrong, for any type of account. People may choose to have them set to private and not friends and send then when they want to.

so whats the point of having private and friends? i find it easyer and quicker to swop friends invites,if then you dont like what you see you delete but sending private they get to keep your pics?

And theres nothing to stop them saving a copy of your friend only pics before you remove them as a friend.. "

good point. If laugh if anyone would genuinely wanna keep a copy of mine

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By *ancpl05Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend

Not at all. If accept as friend then surely some interest in chatting or meeting. Therefore need to know who you are. Maybe we are wrong ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think what he meant is we add people as friends only if they have private photos ( wrongly assuming they are face photos) to find they are a duplicate of the photos in public.

*Her*

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there


"I think what he meant is we add people as friends only if they have private photos ( wrongly assuming they are face photos) to find they are a duplicate of the photos in public.

*Her*

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I never accept random friend requests. At least not while they're still online. I wait till they log off, accept the request, peek at their friend only pics then delete them as friends. If someone can't be bothered to speak to me first and ask for a pic, they're not going to get one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think what he meant is we add people as friends only if they have private photos ( wrongly assuming they are face photos) to find they are a duplicate of the photos in public.

*Her*

I never accept random friend requests. At least not while they're still online. I wait till they log off, accept the request, peek at their friend only pics then delete them as friends. If someone can't be bothered to speak to me first and ask for a pic, they're not going to get one. "

Its not the random requests im talking about as we dont these, its the ones where we have exchanged emails!

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

If you've already chatted why can't you just ask for one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think what he meant is we add people as friends only if they have private photos ( wrongly assuming they are face photos) to find they are a duplicate of the photos in public.

*Her*

I never accept random friend requests. At least not while they're still online. I wait till they log off, accept the request, peek at their friend only pics then delete them as friends. If someone can't be bothered to speak to me first and ask for a pic, they're not going to get one.

Its not the random requests im talking about as we dont these, its the ones where we have exchanged emails!"

I (and 'we' on the couples profile) won't add as friends just to swap face pics - much easier just to attach to a message. I think the debates about accepting/declining/deleting/sending friends requests stem largely from the belief that it's the easiest way to exchange face pics - when in fact it isn't.

If you have them in there and they don't - what do you do? Delete the 'friendship' and mail them asking for some? Why not just exchange by message in the first place? And - yes - there's the possibility that they won't reciprocate, but if they've got them in private rather than friends you won't see them by accepting them as friends anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I (and 'we' on the couples profile) won't add as friends just to swap face pics - much easier just to attach to a message. I think the debates about accepting/declining/deleting/sending friends requests stem largely from the belief that it's the easiest way to exchange face pics - when in fact it isn't.

If you have them in there and they don't - what do you do? Delete the 'friendship' and mail them asking for some? Why not just exchange by message in the first place? And - yes - there's the possibility that they won't reciprocate, but if they've got them in private rather than friends you won't see them by accepting them as friends anyway! "

I do the same. My face pics are for friends only. I'll only add if we've chatted, exchanged face pics AND agreed to a meet. If he's local and a meet is not arranged within a couple of weeks or if they don't chat after adding then I delete! I'm strict like that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I add someone as a friend its likely we've exchanged face pics by then anyway,if we had'nt then id expect to see them on their friends gallery as thats all I have in mine,if they hav'nt then I delete them and tell them I want to see a face pic

I don't think its too much to ask to see what people look like if you may be planning to meet them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think what he meant is we add people as friends only if they have private photos ( wrongly assuming they are face photos) to find they are a duplicate of the photos in public.

*Her*

I never accept random friend requests. At least not while they're still online. I wait till they log off, accept the request, peek at their friend only pics then delete them as friends. If someone can't be bothered to speak to me first and ask for a pic, they're not going to get one.

Its not the random requests im talking about as we dont these, its the ones where we have exchanged emails!

I (and 'we' on the couples profile) won't add as friends just to swap face pics - much easier just to attach to a message. I think the debates about accepting/declining/deleting/sending friends requests stem largely from the belief that it's the easiest way to exchange face pics - when in fact it isn't.

If you have them in there and they don't - what do you do? Delete the 'friendship' and mail them asking for some? Why not just exchange by message in the first place? And - yes - there's the possibility that they won't reciprocate, but if they've got them in private rather than friends you won't see them by accepting them as friends anyway! "

We use the friends list for people we would like to meet and yes its probably not the easiest way of exchanging face photos but its how we have always done it. We dont have any problems sending face photos 1st or 2nd but it anoys us when after chatting ( and seeing they have private photos.. assume face ) they send is an invite but dont have any.... our profile is pretty clear

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


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I (and 'we' on the couples profile) won't add as friends just to swap face pics - much easier just to attach to a message. I think the debates about accepting/declining/deleting/sending friends requests stem largely from the belief that it's the easiest way to exchange face pics - when in fact it isn't.

If you have them in there and they don't - what do you do? Delete the 'friendship' and mail them asking for some? Why not just exchange by message in the first place? And - yes - there's the possibility that they won't reciprocate, but if they've got them in private rather than friends you won't see them by accepting them as friends anyway! "

Us too, they are set to private so can attach if required but not automatically given to anyone.

Each to their own way of managing their profile.

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By *ach3Man
over a year ago

Watford

I agree with you, and yr profile is clear enough. I"m very careful of giving to much away, building up the rapport - if there is uncertainty about what other person looks like. Going into detail about what you would like to do if you meet only to find they are not yr type at all - is a waste of everyones time and no doubt upsetting for some.

The public photos should at minimum be clear body shots, clothed or not to at least give a general idea, of both parties if a couple! Why some couples only show the female, must be frustrating for other couples, its a swinging site how can you be shy!

If people don't have face pics in private then I will message them and if non forthcoming - will politely de-link them but keep them on my hotlist. No need to be offensive.

I would however expect a face photo if arranging a meet!

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

I've had a friend request today, followed by a series of messages requesting a meeting with a couple. They have refused to provide face pics as they say there are some on here who misuse them. They have offered clothed body shots but without faces. They want me to go to a hotel and have sex with the female half before actually seeing their faces. Should I go or should I stay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a friend request today, followed by a series of messages requesting a meeting with a couple. They have refused to provide face pics as they say there are some on here who misuse them. They have offered clothed body shots but without faces. They want me to go to a hotel and have sex with the female half before actually seeing their faces. Should I go or should I stay?"

So they're worried you might be one of those that may 'missuses' their pics but quite happy for you to meet them at a hotel to have sex with the wife? I'd stay well clear!

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"I've had a friend request today, followed by a series of messages requesting a meeting with a couple. They have refused to provide face pics as they say there are some on here who misuse them. They have offered clothed body shots but without faces. They want me to go to a hotel and have sex with the female half before actually seeing their faces. Should I go or should I stay?

So they're worried you might be one of those that may 'missuses' their pics but quite happy for you to meet them at a hotel to have sex with the wife? I'd stay well clear!"

I am keeping the dialogue open at the moment but steering it towards an insistence of face pics.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I've had a friend request today, followed by a series of messages requesting a meeting with a couple. They have refused to provide face pics as they say there are some on here who misuse them. They have offered clothed body shots but without faces. They want me to go to a hotel and have sex with the female half before actually seeing their faces. Should I go or should I stay?

So they're worried you might be one of those that may 'missuses' their pics but quite happy for you to meet them at a hotel to have sex with the wife? I'd stay well clear!

I am keeping the dialogue open at the moment but steering it towards an insistence of face pics."

I wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a face pic first and I am sure they wouldn't either. So ask them why you should.

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By *ach3Man
over a year ago

Watford


" i wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a face pic first and I am sure they wouldn't either. So ask them why you should."

I agree, blind dates are fine for a social -but also a waste of yr time if you find you don't like either of them depending on yr sexual interest. Body shots are fine but unless your looking ti meet in the dark or all wear face masks - if they have hit every branch falling out the ugly tree (yes I appreciate peoples views differ) then your not going to want to play!

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


" i wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a face pic first and I am sure they wouldn't either. So ask them why you should.

I agree, blind dates are fine for a social -but also a waste of yr time if you find you don't like either of them depending on yr sexual interest. Body shots are fine but unless your looking ti meet in the dark or all wear face masks - if they have hit every branch falling out the ugly tree (yes I appreciate peoples views differ) then your not going to want to play!"

Thanks. My mind is made up. In fact, I think it was even before I posted on here. No face pic, no meet.

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