FabSwingers.com forum: Meets you've been with meeting others

By *orderboyblue OP Man
2 days ago

Scottish Borders

Do you get jealous of a single or couple you've met and had a great time with meet someone else next day or within a couple of days?

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By *issmorganWoman
2 days ago

Yorks

No, I even happily encourage my other half to meet others alone.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 days ago

East Sussex

No, we probably wouldn't even know.

Jealousy comes from insecurity and o can't see anything to be insecure about with casual partners

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
2 days ago

My boudoir - S Wales

No, I think it’s hot. Providing everyone is safe.

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By *aughtydealcoupleCouple
2 days ago

Walmer, Deal

No thats the whole point of fab to meet like minded people so go for it we say

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By *luebell888Woman
2 days ago

Glasgowish

Not at all, but I do secretly hope that he enjoyed himself more with me.

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By *igBeardyDanMan
2 days ago

Bilston

I don't get jealous at all. We're all free to play with whoever we want, as long as everyone's safe and careful.

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By *inkyandthebrain2023Couple
2 days ago

Cheshire

This ain't the hobby to be a jealous type of person.

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By *iredhand2Man
2 days ago

Sale

The key to no strings attached meets is that there are no strings attached. To feel jealous would suggest an emotional attachment which means you’re better off in a normal relationship rather than swinging (or casual hook ups).

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
2 days ago

Chichester

"Do you get jealous of a single or couple you've met and had a great time with meet someone else next day or within a couple of days?

No I am very much fire and forget. Out of sight out of mind. My life is busy to think on what random fuck meets do after a meet

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By *hil most chillMan
2 days ago

London, South East & Europe

The fact that they managed to escape from my cellar would concern me most.

(JOKE)

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By *erry2020888Man
2 days ago

stockport

no my regular FWB would tell me of all her meets got us horny

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By *essTTWoman
2 days ago

Birmingham

No I prefer it

I don't meet very often cause of health issues and there's been a few times where I've had people who I've met before trying to get me to meet when I'm not upto it, at least if they're meeting others it takes the pressure off

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By *eekySweetheartWoman
2 days ago

Hampshire

Not even a little bit. Although I've had guys I've met get funny about it. It's why I only (mostly) do one off meets! Xx

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By *eroLondonMan
2 days ago

Mayfair

Not jealous but I feel 'devalued' and somewhat discombobulated, and perhaps a tiny bit regretful.

I'm not a swinger, I'm a slow burn and selective with whom I meet after weeks, month/s of chatting. I usually glow for days/weeks after I've met someone, and therefore I'm not 'sensually wired' to meet someone new so quickly because the person I just met mattered to me and the experience that we shared was unique, lingering and enduring.

I'm not ignorant of the lifestyle and I know that people meet people but if you're bonking someone the day after we've met then, in hindsight, you're not for me.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
2 days ago

Central

No. My only focus is on my meetings with people, as we all have lives away from each other, so time apart is healthy

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By *um n raisinWoman
2 days ago

taunton

theres no room for jealousy on this scene i play when i want with whom i want hubs plays when he want with whom he want and those we meet couldnt careless who they meet ..

but ive had some pretty jealous women/men/couples message me on here over the yrars because ive met someone they've met ..some people just dont get swinging and the concept of it..

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By *orderboyblue OP Man
23 hours ago

Scottish Borders

"theres no room for jealousy on this scene i play when i want with whom i want hubs plays when he want with whom he want and those we meet couldnt careless who they meet ..

but ive had some pretty jealous women/men/couples message me on here over the yrars because ive met someone they've met ..some people just dont get swinging and the concept of it.."

That's sad to hear.

I agree 100%

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By *sWyldWoman
23 hours ago

Edinburgh

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By *ormalfornorfolkMan
22 hours ago

Norwich

No, that’s what it’s all about isn’t it?

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By *sWyldWoman
22 hours ago

Edinburgh

This is quite a tricky question for me. I want to be the woman who is laid back and cool. I always want those I'm friends with to have the best time (even if that doesn't include me)

However, I'm also sometimes (usually when we have seen each other a lot) the woman who will torture herself over it because she's insecure.

Its therefore strange I find myself in this world sometimes.

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By *andb69Couple
21 hours ago

leeds

It all depends on whether people are able to differentiate between dating and swinging. We're here for the swinging.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
21 hours ago

Chichester

I met some one in day before socially then they got upset I had a meet in evening

. Did make me chuckle

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By *etwife8230Couple
21 hours ago

Newport

No not at all

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