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I hear the ice cream truck music....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

...and I'm quite tempted to choose vanilla as a flavour.

I'm starting to miss flirts, dates,cuddles and all these "vanilla" stuff a little bit... Is it weird? And also, can it fit with a swinging lifestyle?

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

You can be sensual as well as deviant. In fact, make it your fetish. I do, I fall in love with people all the time. Also in play in groups I whisper "I love you" to the one I'm with - even tho I don't & they know I don't - I'm just known for it.

Be yourself, Hoss. Hang out with people who allow you to be yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The "I love you" can be a mood killer though.... except if I say it in French

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Not that again. Didn't we already establish that "tu parles le français comme une vache espagnole" doh! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh you can whisper it in French to me anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...and I'm quite tempted to choose vanilla as a flavour.

I'm starting to miss flirts, dates,cuddles and all these "vanilla" stuff a little bit... Is it weird? And also, can it fit with a swinging lifestyle? "

Of course it can fit in.. Well I'm my eyes it can. I flirt, go on lunch/dinner dates and get cuddles, so why shouldn't you xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"...and I'm quite tempted to choose vanilla as a flavour.

I'm starting to miss flirts, dates,cuddles and all these "vanilla" stuff a little bit... Is it weird? And also, can it fit with a swinging lifestyle? "

You can flirt with me at the Fab Forum social petal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

New question then: where can you find the cuddle/date/vanilla thing without falling into the relationship circle.... Some kind of non-sexual swinging, if you see what I mean?

And you know I'll flirt with you at the social It's getting closer now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was little my parents told me... The icecream van only played music when they had ran out

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"New question then: where can you find the cuddle/date/vanilla thing without falling into the relationship circle.... Some kind of non-sexual swinging, if you see what I mean? "

DIY. Do it yourself wherever you go be blithe, foot-loose, fancy free then DUMP 'EM!

Or if you MUST get more honey from the hive DUMP 'EM after 3 weeks MAX!

That's called doing a QUENTIN CRISP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I was little my parents told me... The icecream van only played music when they had ran out "

They told me the icecream van only played music when the icecream man was horny....

Needless to say, they saved me from becoming a teenage fattie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was little my parents told me... The icecream van only played music when they had ran out

They told me the icecream van only played music when the icecream man was horny....

Needless to say, they saved me from becoming a teenage fattie "

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"New question then: where can you find the cuddle/date/vanilla thing without falling into the relationship circle.... Some kind of non-sexual swinging, if you see what I mean?

And you know I'll flirt with you at the social It's getting closer now! "

I am sure there are 100s of women on here who would love a non sexual cuddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was little my parents told me... The icecream van only played music when they had ran out "

Haha, that's what we tell our daughter now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was little my parents told me... The icecream van only played music when they had ran out

Haha, that's what we tell our daughter now lol "

Shocking I've been badly scarred ever since.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And you know I'll flirt with you at the social It's getting closer now!

I am sure there are 100s of women on here who would love a non sexual cuddle."

Ok, so I'm calling to all the women on here who want a cuddle: I am free!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhh a cuddles good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The idea of hugs from strangers makes me feel uncomfortable.

I'd even go as far as to say they are probably more personal than sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was little my parents told me... The icecream van only played music when they had ran out

Haha, that's what we tell our daughter now lol

Shocking I've been badly scarred ever since..... "

My sister tells her kids the same thought she was unique xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"The idea of hugs from strangers makes me feel uncomfortable.

I'd even go as far as to say they are probably more personal than sex."

My ex is a huggist, and he's quite a large guy, so being hugged by him could be dangerous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd even go as far as to say they are probably more personal than sex.

My ex is a huggist, and he's quite a large guy, so being hugged by him could be dangerous. "

I'll try and avoid asking large men for hugs then... just incase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The idea of hugs from strangers makes me feel uncomfortable.

I'd even go as far as to say they are probably more personal than sex."

Really ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really ? "

Serious.

Not all sex of course, I just find hugging a very personal thing; a tender and loving embrace.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really ?

Serious.

Not all sex of course, I just find hugging a very personal thing; a tender and loving embrace."

Guessing it depends how much you read into a hug, and hopefully by the time you get to hugging someone they won't be classed as a stranger... I find hugs fall into many categories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess I'm just a mono-hugger.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Guess I'm just a mono-hugger."

A discerning hugger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really ?

Serious.

Not all sex of course, I just find hugging a very personal thing; a tender and loving embrace."

What about kissing? Do you think the same x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hug without thinking ... Although I don't like my personal space being invaded without the 'nod' so to speak can be a little Uncomfy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've jsut realised I've totally hijacked this thread... Sorry!


"What about kissing? Do you think the same x "

Not with kissing actually, I see it in the same category as sex.

Spooning goes with hugging however.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You find kissing not as personal as hugging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You find kissing not as personal as hugging? "

It can be personal, but it can also be carnal, fulfilling physical desires (same as sex), but hugging for me can't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've jsut realised I've totally hijacked this thread... Sorry!

What about kissing? Do you think the same x

Not with kissing actually, I see it in the same category as sex.

Spooning goes with hugging however."

No worries: at least this thread is surviving thanks to you!

Kissing, hugging, sex are on the same plan for me: you can put all sorts of feelings into them!! They can be as very personal as they can be meaningless....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it can, if you choose it to be.

Be yourself, like what you like, do what you like.

Set your own rules and break those rules as you wish.

Don't conform to any one way, be that swinging, vanilla or any other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've jsut realised I've totally hijacked this thread... Sorry!

What about kissing? Do you think the same x

Not with kissing actually, I see it in the same category as sex.

Spooning goes with hugging however.

No worries: at least this thread is surviving thanks to you!

Kissing, hugging, sex are on the same plan for me: you can put all sorts of feelings into them!! They can be as very personal as they can be meaningless...."

Bang on John kisses n no hugs to both of you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've jsut realised I've totally hijacked this thread... Sorry!

What about kissing? Do you think the same x

Not with kissing actually, I see it in the same category as sex.

Spooning goes with hugging however.

No worries: at least this thread is surviving thanks to you!

Kissing, hugging, sex are on the same plan for me: you can put all sorts of feelings into them!! They can be as very personal as they can be meaningless....

Bang on John kisses n no hugs to both of you x"

Can I actually do all of the above with mrs focker?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've jsut realised I've totally hijacked this thread... Sorry!

What about kissing? Do you think the same x

Not with kissing actually, I see it in the same category as sex.

Spooning goes with hugging however.

No worries: at least this thread is surviving thanks to you!

Kissing, hugging, sex are on the same plan for me: you can put all sorts of feelings into them!! They can be as very personal as they can be meaningless....

Bang on John kisses n no hugs to both of you x

Can I actually do all of the above with mrs focker? "

Naughty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The idea of hugs from strangers makes me feel uncomfortable.

I'd even go as far as to say they are probably more personal than sex."

I agree! Even my friends laugh at me because I run when they try to hug me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Bang on John kisses n no hugs to both of you x

Can I actually do all of the above with mrs focker?

Naughty! "

Always!

But it doesn't answer my question...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Bang on John kisses n no hugs to both of you x

Can I actually do all of the above with mrs focker?

Naughty!

Always!

But it doesn't answer my question... "

Perhaps

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