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does everyong read the forums?

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By *uckscouple2007 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

posted elsewhere...


" if they are on this site with profile's it's a sure bet they can read these threads too "

it is a fact members can read the forums; but just because they can does that mean they venture in here?

it would be interesting to see the stats of how many members (a) only go in chat, (b) only come on forums, (c) do both, or (d) only peruse profiles

Guess is that (a) or (d) would rank higher than (b)

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i go on the forums and peruse profiles but have to admit to not using chat - confuses me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"posted elsewhere...

if they are on this site with profile's it's a sure bet they can read these threads too

it is a fact members can read the forums; but just because they can does that mean they venture in here?

it would be interesting to see the stats of how many members (a) only go in chat, (b) only come on forums, (c) do both, or (d) only peruse profiles

Guess is that (a) or (d) would rank higher than (b)"
well yes i read the forums its why i replying to your message so to speak

no i dont use chat for reasons as i already said else were no need to repeat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course not everyone reads the forms?!! It's a swinging site bet most just peruse the profiles and look at pictures for potential playmates.

There are parts of the site I never go on basically most of it.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

all the best people wander in the forums

well almost

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By *ddiddyMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

we read the forums sometimes post threads and check out the profiles who looked at us read recieved mail checkout who winked at us kinda use all the site except dont use chat dosent work for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont use chat or meet today personally xx

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

in another thread

admin stated that less than 1% of members use the forums

dont know about chat but would like to bet that its about 10% if you look at the numbers chatting to total members

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"dont use chat or meet today personally xx "

We use chat now and again, but don't use the meet today having noticed some people use the meet today function but have no intention of meeting today nor tomorrow, depending on their mood, they may meet the following day tho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i did try it once out of curiosity and was bombarded!!! i like the forums to be honest more slower and personal pace to chat i feel! xx

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By *uckscouple2007 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

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By *uckscouple2007 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bucks


"We use chat now and again, but don't use the meet today having noticed some people use the meet today function but have no intention of meeting today nor tomorrow, depending on their mood, they may meet the following day tho! "

yes would help if the site had a" meet in a few days time" area as tho we can be spontaneous at weekends - not all couples can be - though when we do post "for the coming weekend" = we mean it not
" depending on their mood "
not like those who may change on their mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im always in the forums not always contributing but do like to read the posts

always browsing through the profiles

have used chat once or twice but must admit it moves to quick for me

beccy xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we only ose the forums and browse profiles

the chat rooms. i think is rubbish to use, cant follow who is saying what and when you dont know anybody your basically going in there to say random things to random strangers, obviously there is fun to be had for the regulars in the chat room but for me its just nonsense

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"i like the forums to be honest more slower and personal pace to chat i feel! xx "

And we like having the time to read your posts! lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awwww how sweet are u!!!!!!!!!! xx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"awwww how sweet are u!!!!!!!!!! xx "

Cum and find out lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"posted elsewhere...

if they are on this site with profile's it's a sure bet they can read these threads too

it is a fact members can read the forums; but just because they can does that mean they venture in here?

it would be interesting to see the stats of how many members (a) only go in chat, (b) only come on forums, (c) do both, or (d) only peruse profiles

Guess is that (a) or (d) would rank higher than (b)"

pps the title is miss spelt wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"awwww how sweet are u!!!!!!!!!! xx

Cum and find out lol xx"

some day they will let me out of scotland and u may live to regret that comment lol!!!!! xxxx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"awwww how sweet are u!!!!!!!!!! xx

Cum and find out lol xx

some day they will let me out of scotland and u may live to regret that comment lol!!!!! xxxx "

Later on this year, we may take the plunge and venture to one of Scotland's social events

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bring your thermals lads lol!!!! xx

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"bring your thermals lads lol!!!! xx "

What just so you can rip them off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

god sake stop readin my mind u will end up corrupted!!! xx

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By *uckscouple2007 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Bucks


"pps the title is miss spelt wrong "

so very sorry; sure thats not the first or last that has had a typo error

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"god sake stop readin my mind u will end up corrupted!!! xx "

Errrrrrrrrrrr, we're very innocent I'll have you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pps the title is miss spelt wrong

so very sorry; sure thats not the first or last that has had a typo error

"
lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

No, I never read the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like to read what's been posted on the forums we found it handy when 1st joining the site as there can be a lot of useful advice & always someone can help if you have any questions your looking for the answer too. We also enjoy the funny threads that people start & all the bits that other people add on but most importantly its where you find out about the socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Based on the number of people I chat to at clubs who are also members of Fab, I would say the number who are genuine and use the site and also use the forums is very low. When I mention the forums to my friends most say they never use them.

I would imagine the number of non-genuine swingers using forums is even lower.

As I say this is my personal view based on the % of people I know and of course I only know genuine people since non-genuine people don't go to socials for clubs so the second part is an educated guess.

That said I don't think it matters, those who use them and enjoy them get what they want out of the site those that don't use them are using thier freedom of choice.

I think it is a shame though for those who have never tried them as there is a lot to be learnt here and friends to be made.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

was a bit wary of the forums to ebegin with - you lot are a tight bunch lol

but hopefully just sheer persistance will le me in lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do what I do - just leave your personal opinions, some will agree some will disagree, most who disagree will respect your right to have your own opinion and be polite about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the forums good giggle and informative and met some wicked people off them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep funny that Jed cause people i speak to at chams don't tend ta use the forums either

However when we attend the socials most of the posters seem to go to them

In fact a lot of people who frequent the clubs don't seem ta be on any sites either xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like chat, don't browse profiles, and spend a lot of my time in the forums!

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By *j_markCouple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Totteridge/Whetstone

Less than 1% of users who login each day post to the forums.

Admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep funny that Jed cause people i speak to at chams don't tend ta use the forums either

However when we attend the socials most of the posters seem to go to them

In fact a lot of people who frequent the clubs don't seem ta be on any sites either xx "

I can understand that with the socials since the only real way to find out about socials is in the forums, true they are in the EVENTS pages but they tend to get clogged up with people looking for meets and word of mouth in the chatroom and in person only goes so far.

True many people we know at clubs aren't on any sites at least not regularly. Then other nights at the club it's like a FAB reunion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Less than 1% of users who login each day post to the forums.

Admin"

Ill hide then and it will rise ta 60% lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow need to spread

the word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"was a bit wary of the forums to ebegin with - you lot are a tight bunch lol

but hopefully just sheer persistance will le me in lol"

that's my theory too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we was on last time we only really went on chat,having the odd look at the forum. But since coming back we have still done both but have started to comment more in the forums, we enjoy both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"was a bit wary of the forums to ebegin with - you lot are a tight bunch lol

but hopefully just sheer persistance will le me in lol

that's my theory too lol"

I think the biggest problem with the forums is the written word, many people say something harmless which, when said face to face comes over as a lighthearted comment, a smile, a wink and the statement takes on a whole different context to when it is said in typeprint.

How many times have you said to someone "your a tosser" or "your talking crap" in many conversations and in a light tone or with a smile it's taken for what it is, a little banter with no ill intent.

Write the same thing

Your a tosser

Your talking crap

Am I engaging in light hearted banter or am I being abusive, it is very difficult to distinguish between the two when it is written.

I believe people write things in the forums which are not meant to be abusive or offensive but all too often it comes over that way.

Perhaps emoticons can help because I think all the guys are tossers here

At least they can be when alone in the bedroom with a good magazine

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