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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's people's opinions on chatting about family on here in forums.

A lot chat about their kids etc. Seems an odd place for it? Better left for facebook maybe?

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

I don't see anything wrong with talking about family, after all they are a much bigger part of our lives than sex with strangers is.

I sometimes post things about work on here just to get it off my chest and make me feel better. If I posted on Facebook I could be sacked as we have a social networking policy that all staff must sign. It specifically names social network sites so fab is a safe place for me to post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our fbs have boys the same age as ours, nwe are nit just fbs we are friends so we chatcabout family when we get together.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People talk about absolutely anything on these forums,especially the lounge where its full of general chat,I don't see a problem with it unless the context is'nt suitable

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset

For many this is a lifestyle choice, not a part time grubby hobby to be segregated from the rest of their lives.

Many have real friends on here, so I don't think it odd at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For many this is a lifestyle choice, not a part time grubby hobby to be segregated from the rest of their lives.

Many have real friends on here, so I don't think it odd at all. "
Odd may have been the wrong word, I meant inappropriate.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"For many this is a lifestyle choice, not a part time grubby hobby to be segregated from the rest of their lives.

Many have real friends on here, so I don't think it odd at all. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For many this is a lifestyle choice, not a part time grubby hobby to be segregated from the rest of their lives.

Many have real friends on here, so I don't think it odd at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For many this is a lifestyle choice, not a part time grubby hobby to be segregated from the rest of their lives.

Many have real friends on here, so I don't think it odd at all. "

So if you do it as your 'lifestyle' it's ok but if it's just a hobby then it's grubby?

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset


"For many this is a lifestyle choice, not a part time grubby hobby to be segregated from the rest of their lives.

Many have real friends on here, so I don't think it odd at all.

So if you do it as your 'lifestyle' it's ok but if it's just a hobby then it's grubby?"

I think if it is totally compartmentalised, and you never share any personal information it could be because you're ashamed of this aspect of your life.

Apologies for any rash over-generalisation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once got chastised in here for admitting I had a child as part of a discussion on something or nothing.

Apparently I was laying myself open to perverts wanting to come meet me to get to them.....

I assumed after that you were all childless people

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset


"I once got chastised in here for admitting I had a child as part of a discussion on something or nothing.

Apparently I was laying myself open to perverts wanting to come meet me to get to them.....

I assumed after that you were all childless people "

I must have missed that one.

Swingers having kids - who'd have thought.

I can recall a number of postings on - never have a bloke back to mine because of kids, and profiles mentioning difficulty of arranging meets because of teenagers at home.

And Proud parents mentioning children's accomplishments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was about a bloke who suggested I meet for a social at a local cafe with my kids during school hols.

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset


"It was about a bloke who suggested I meet for a social at a local cafe with my kids during school hols. "

I see, some possible cause for concern I guess.

A difference between mentioning kids on FAB and taking them to socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As this is family talk after 17 years step-daughter breaks us up with yet again debts and dishonesty.

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset


"As this is family talk after 17 years step-daughter breaks us up with yet again debts and dishonesty."

Sad to hear that, can be a roller coaster with kids. Even more difficult with step children who may have an emotional axe to grind.

Hope you can work things out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For many this is a lifestyle choice, not a part time grubby hobby to be segregated from the rest of their lives.

Many have real friends on here, so I don't think it odd at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People tend to talk about things that have happened in their lives in very general terms. Sometimes a particular forum post will be about family, ie christmas time when there are threads about the holiday season.

It doesn't have to be about sex all the time, that would be incredibly boring.

I have seen many threads about forum members family but I've never seen anything inappropriate in relation to that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For many this is a lifestyle choice, not a part time grubby hobby to be segregated from the rest of their lives.

Many have real friends on here, so I don't think it odd at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine what a boaring place this would be if it was just about sex lol yeah it would be great for about 1 or 2 days then ot would go stale how many times can u stick a dick in a pussy or ass or any other combination of genitalia lmao and also the family thing shows we are human and not just sex machines lol xxxx or maybe we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quote "Sad to hear that, can be a roller coaster with kids. Even more difficult with step children who may have an emotional axe to grind.

Hope you can work things out."

Thank you, not just an axe to grind not emotional just a manipulating drama queen with no respect. Now second time around seperating, they are deep in debt and debt collector looking for them both again. had all the excuses but never the truth, had enough of the secret society of their family. Time to move on and get my life back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont think its inappropriate to chat about life outside of swinging. Ive mentioned funny things my kids/grandkids have said or done. Also had fantastic support from the forum when son was goung through cancer and needed to off load my feelings without upsetting the family,as they needed me to be strong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like you off loading, had skin cancer now stuck with complex coeliac disease and a formaldehyde allergy (diagnosed last week) so my life is very very restricting without the stress or the desertion that is taking place

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset


"Like you off loading, had skin cancer now stuck with complex coeliac disease and a formaldehyde allergy (diagnosed last week) so my life is very very restricting without the stress or the desertion that is taking place"

Hope you can manage the stress and get on an even keel, with the health problems you kinda didn't need the break-up but it does sound like you had had more than enough and in the long term are better off without?

Good Luck - gluten free bread is not wonderful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's people's opinions on chatting about family on here in forums.

A lot chat about their kids etc. Seems an odd place for it? Better left for facebook maybe?"

Could you explain why it is odd or inappropriate as you say in another post ?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I would say it is up to people if they want to talk about their private life on here....but....it isn't something we do.

It isn't anything to do with any of the suggestions thrown round, there are two reasons.

One is we are very private people not just on here but in real life and only the closest of friends know much about us.

The other is, this is us playing out a fantasy....I don't want to know the ins and outs of a cats arse of anyone we meet and we don't want them to know the same about us.

We meet, we have fun and thats it

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"People tend to talk about things that have happened in their lives in very general terms. Sometimes a particular forum post will be about family, ie christmas time when there are threads about the holiday season.

It doesn't have to be about sex all the time, that would be incredibly boring.

I have seen many threads about forum members family but I've never seen anything inappropriate in relation to that.

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Neither have I.

People share if their kids have passed exams, driving tests, got a job, had a baby, got married, come home early when they had meets etc. How is that inappropriate?

Some people only want to arrange meets and maybe put off the object of their desire is a parent and only want to see "would you fuck?" type threads.

Threads are easy to avoid. If Admin thought topics inappropriate they close them...too many people wanting to out admin Admin!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I saw profile with women showing numerous pregnant pics.

Then she announced she had the baby, does anyone agree that crosses a line?

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

what line .. didn't know there were lines on here ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There individual lines, different for everyone.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"I saw profile with women showing numerous pregnant pics.

Then she announced she had the baby, does anyone agree that crosses a line?"

Pretty sure if people saw photos of a pregnant lady they would assume the baby would come out eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say it is up to people if they want to talk about their private life on here....but....it isn't something we do.

It isn't anything to do with any of the suggestions thrown round, there are two reasons.

One is we are very private people not just on here but in real life and only the closest of friends know much about us.

The other is, this is us playing out a fantasy....I don't want to know the ins and outs of a cats arse of anyone we meet and we don't want them to know the same about us.

We meet, we have fun and thats it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I saw profile with women showing numerous pregnant pics.

Then she announced she had the baby, does anyone agree that crosses a line?"

Not if she wants a meet - mmmmm lactating ...lush !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I saw profile with women showing numerous pregnant pics.

Then she announced she had the baby, does anyone agree that crosses a line?"

Again what line are we talking about here. As far as we are concerned a pregnant woman should be proud of her body so showing pics on here good on her. Also we always see posts in the forums about people fantasising about this too.

As for announcing she's had a baby she may have wanted to let friends know on here. Again I don't see how this could be wrong in anyway

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