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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I usually call my women birds. But there are some who prefer to be called my slut, whore, slag or bitch etc. However, some on here have written they are a whore, but hate being called a slut.

What do you ladies find a turn on or off? Or what do you find to be degrading terms?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Anything that's not my name would be considered rude, but anything that denotes that I am a possession, 'my bird' for example, would really grind my gears.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anything that's not my name would be considered rude, but anything that denotes that I am a possession, 'my bird' for example, would really grind my gears."

So if you were called my girlfriend? Also is technically denoting a possession, as in the word MY.

I find it pretty common that some hate being called a bird, but happily title themselves a slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually call my women birds. But there are some who prefer to be called my slut, whore, slag or bitch etc. However, some on here have written they are a whore, but hate being called a slut.

What do you ladies find a turn on or off? Or what do you find to be degrading terms?"

i hate the word slag or scrubber

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Anything that's not my name would be considered rude, but anything that denotes that I am a possession, 'my bird' for example, would really grind my gears.

So if you were called my girlfriend? Also is technically denoting a possession, as in the word MY.

I find it pretty common that some hate being called a bird, but happily title themselves a slut"

If you called me YOUR girlfriend I would start worrying, as I don't have a boyfriend. As for the word 'my', it's fine when its like 'my dad', 'my mate', as they are mates of me. But calling someone 'your woman' sounds like you think you own her, and woe betide her if she thinks otherwise.

As for slut, slag, whore, harlot, jezebel, whatever, if a woman chooses to call herself that then fine, but if you do so then be prepared for what happens.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anything that's not my name would be considered rude, but anything that denotes that I am a possession, 'my bird' for example, would really grind my gears.

So if you were called my girlfriend? Also is technically denoting a possession, as in the word MY.

I find it pretty common that some hate being called a bird, but happily title themselves a slut

If you called me YOUR girlfriend I would start worrying, as I don't have a boyfriend. As for the word 'my', it's fine when its like 'my dad', 'my mate', as they are mates of me. But calling someone 'your woman' sounds like you think you own her, and woe betide her if she thinks otherwise.

As for slut, slag, whore, harlot, jezebel, whatever, if a woman chooses to call herself that then fine, but if you do so then be prepared for what happens."

I meant the term MY. Not literally lol.

Some fair points though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on context and whos saying it as to what I find derogatory

With some people I find certain terms acceptable and extremely horny and with others I find myself wanting to twist their balls 360 °

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask the lady you're with - she's the one who's opinion matters.... if you want a return visit that is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything that's not my name would be considered rude, but anything that denotes that I am a possession, 'my bird' for example, would really grind my gears."

yup until they get to know me, and I them. It is hard to gauge online if it is said in jest or not

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

White people saying "she's my biatch!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who is calling me what. I was once a prized possession.. and Being called his little slut I loved..

if a guy I wasn't very familiar with called me anything but Cali he would be in trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anything that's not my name would be considered rude, but anything that denotes that I am a possession, 'my bird' for example, would really grind my gears.

yup until they get to know me, and I them. It is hard to gauge online if it is said in jest or not "

I guess calling you my mount is questionable then? (I'm kidding!!!!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anything that's not my name would be considered rude, but anything that denotes that I am a possession, 'my bird' for example, would really grind my gears.

yup until they get to know me, and I them. It is hard to gauge online if it is said in jest or not

I guess calling you my mount is questionable then? (I'm kidding!!!!) "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been called babe in messages but face to face, actually dont recall being called anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually call my women birds. But there are some who prefer to be called my slut, whore, slag or bitch etc. However, some on here have written they are a whore, but hate being called a slut.

What do you ladies find a turn on or off? Or what do you find to be degrading terms?"

Anyone wanting to call me the above that you have named must want a hard kick someone in between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" slut, whore, slag or bitch, whore.

What do you ladies find a turn on or off? Or what do you find to be degrading terms?"

All of the above would turn me off!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cum dumpster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes before a meet I ask for dos and donts - including names that are acceptable ! Don't want my nuts fried with use of wrong name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (dave) have been called a slut and ya know what i quite liked it but i was tied up at the time getting spanked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't like them, and it can be a deal breaker for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest name calling dont offend me at all as thats all it is is talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate 'bird', 'my woman' etc!

Love slut, whore etc from Matt but anyone else would likely get a slap.

Sam x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate being called 'dear' in messages makes me feel old

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Anything that's not my name would be considered rude, but anything that denotes that I am a possession, 'my bird' for example, would really grind my gears."

^^^^Oh this!!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Anything that's not my name would be considered rude, but anything that denotes that I am a possession, 'my bird' for example, would really grind my gears.

So if you were called my girlfriend? Also is technically denoting a possession, as in the word MY.

I find it pretty common that some hate being called a bird, but happily title themselves a slut

If you called me YOUR girlfriend I would start worrying, as I don't have a boyfriend. As for the word 'my', it's fine when its like 'my dad', 'my mate', as they are mates of me. But calling someone 'your woman' sounds like you think you own her, and woe betide her if she thinks otherwise.

As for slut, slag, whore, harlot, jezebel, whatever, if a woman chooses to call herself that then fine, but if you do so then be prepared for what happens."

...and again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually call my women birds. But there are some who prefer to be called my slut, whore, slag or bitch etc. However, some on here have written they are a whore, but hate being called a slut.

What do you ladies find a turn on or off? Or what do you find to be degrading terms?

Anyone wanting to call me the above that you have named must want a hard kick someone in between "

Your username at one time did have the word 'slut' included so you must have wanted to be called and known as that.

If people chose to be called slut, whore, etc then it's up to them. I personally wouldn't as I don't like it. I don't allow any swinging guys to say it when we are playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love.....it boils my piss when someone calls me love. I have no idea why though....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually call my women birds. But there are some who prefer to be called my slut, whore, slag or bitch etc. However, some on here have written they are a whore, but hate being called a slut.

What do you ladies find a turn on or off? Or what do you find to be degrading terms?

Anyone wanting to call me the above that you have named must want a hard kick someone in between

Your username at one time did have the word 'slut' included so you must have wanted to be called and known as that.

If people chose to be called slut, whore, etc then it's up to them. I personally wouldn't as I don't like it. I don't allow any swinging guys to say it when we are playing. "

It certainly did as one person alone can call me that as I was his slut.. To save being viewed like that on this account I dropped it.

However like you, swinging guys I would not accept such terms being used,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually call my women birds. But there are some who prefer to be called my slut, whore, slag or bitch etc. However, some on here have written they are a whore, but hate being called a slut.

What do you ladies find a turn on or off? Or what do you find to be degrading terms?"
I call mine Boss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love.....it boils my piss when someone calls me love. I have no idea why though...."

was in a estate agents once and the hoity toity lady staff member was dealing with a phone client and he must of called her love as she drew breath sharply and rose in her chair and said rather loudly....... Dont you call me Love,that makes me feel like never saying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't know why I hate it so much!! Bird I find totally acceptable lol Xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I find being called a girl derogatory, I'm a woman. However I know it's widely accepted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually call my women birds. But there are some who prefer to be called my slut, whore, slag or bitch etc. However, some on here have written they are a whore, but hate being called a slut.

What do you ladies find a turn on or off? Or what do you find to be degrading terms?

Anyone wanting to call me the above that you have named must want a hard kick someone in between

Your username at one time did have the word 'slut' included so you must have wanted to be called and known as that.

If people chose to be called slut, whore, etc then it's up to them. I personally wouldn't as I don't like it. I don't allow any swinging guys to say it when we are playing.

It certainly did as one person alone can call me that as I was his slut.. To save being viewed like that on this account I dropped it.

However like you, swinging guys I would not accept such terms being used, "

People just assume they have the same rights as a partner. My OH calls me darling and one guy we had met addressed a message to me calling me darling. It really bothered me, I didn't want to upset the guy as he is a lovely polite guy, but I had to stop the darling thing off him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather be called by my name or alternatively honey/Hun , sweetie, darling, cutie, babe/baby... Anything that is not offensive or derogatory really...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate when guys refer to women as birds or burds as Scottish guys seem to like. I like all the nice ones Hun babe darlin etc. if in context of relationship I agree it's individual opinion. For example if I was a guys girlfriend and he or anyone referred to me as "his mrs" I'd like it bug if were to refer to me as his bird or women would quickly be told never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex of mine (Andrew) used to be very submissive.

I would have her restrained and bent over a hand full of hair teasing her swollen pussy with the head of my cock whilst calling her 'my little fuck toy' used to send her wild.

I quite like sub women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate 'bird', 'my woman' etc!

Love slut, whore etc from Matt but anyone else would likely get a slap.

Sam x"

Im the same love it when max calls me his slutt but anyone else who tries to cal me that it doesn't have the same effect xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being called a name doesn' t warrant kick in between. Perhaps woman should have a kick in between in return

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

My question is; are there equally 'acceptable' derogatory terms for men or is it just women who are 'honoured' by them?

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By *he BendoversCouple
over a year ago

Carlisle


"I usually call my women birds. But there are some who prefer to be called my slut, whore, slag or bitch etc. However, some on here have written they are a whore, but hate being called a slut.

What do you ladies find a turn on or off? Or what do you find to be degrading terms?"

Split Arse

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By *othingbetterthansexCouple
over a year ago

Accrington

A good derogatory term for a man would be "wanker"! Because if he called me anything nasty then that's what he'd end up being!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I usually call my women birds. But there are some who prefer to be called my slut, whore, slag or bitch etc. However, some on here have written they are a whore, but hate being called a slut.

What do you ladies find a turn on or off? Or what do you find to be degrading terms?

Split Arse "

Pmsl. Love chubby brown

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