FabSwingers.com forum: Dont be so hard on Single Guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have been on here a while now and have given advice to Single Guys and been Critical....

However, looking at some cpls profiles..and some Laydees its NOT only Single Guys who post crap pics, have one line profiles and send rude messages etc etc...Its Rude Lazy People....

Give em a break guys there are some good guys out there!

J XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aaaw cheers hun, thanks for speaking for the minority mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have been on here a while now and have given advice to Single Guys and been Critical....

However, looking at some cpls profiles..and some Laydees its NOT only Single Guys who post crap pics, have one line profiles and send rude messages etc etc...Its Rude Lazy People....

Give em a break guys there are some good guys out there!

J XXX

Oooohhhhhhhh what a lovely thread to start, Thank you so much from one single guy who just goes with the flow but does agree there are some terrible profiles from all sorts !!!!!

Rex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally we are never "hard on single guys"

We are however, hard on Idiots, disrespectfull people, timewasters, picture collectors, dreamers etc and they come in all forms, singles, couples, people pretending to be couples, people pretending to be singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not all guys are like them

just mind that

its why i paid for the site to let them no iam not one but its getting harder an harder every day 2 meet some one after 8 weeks

but i keep at it

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Well said that couple! Not only that but she's fookin gorgeous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said you lovely people.

And Up the Iron!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WE COULD DO WITH A FEW SINGLE GUYS COS OUR FENCE NEEDS FIXING AND ALTHOUGH WE GET LOADS OF SINGLE FEMALES THEY KNOW FUCK ALL ABOUT PUTTING FENCING UP LOL

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Swings and roundabouts

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By *ampy71Man
over a year ago

Waterloovile

I am me, i dont pretend to be something I am not. I read the profile and sometimes send a compliment. Manners dont cost anything and most people response to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The good ones are good, the bad ones are bad and the cut and paste ones are…………. Well make your own mind up but if someone sends a respectful one then you can only be the same back with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its true we have a bad rep dont know why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally we are never "hard on single guys"

Our spin on this is that we are simply not offended/bothered/upset/annoyed, in fact you pick the adjective, by any one or anything on this site, however please consider the following as an opinion only, no pop at you Jed just using your headers.

I know I will not be thanked for pointing this out but all those categories you list are virtually all exclusively owned by single guys.

Not for one moment saying that couples and single women are not also guilty but in the main it would seem, based on the many many threads started on here that the major "culprits of upset" are guys in one format or another.

Singles....what percentage of the site is single and how many of those are guys?

Couples....what percentage of the site are couples and how many of those are guys pretending to be couples?

People pretending to be single.....how many of them are on the site and how many of them are guys?

Picture collectors......how many of those do you think are women?

Dreamers......how many of those do you think are women?

Sorry but if you were to exclude single guys from this and every other site, AND I AM NOT SUGGESTING THAT IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM, then all you would have is a huge groundswell in the number of "single women" profiles and the "problem" would remain.

Like the OP I believe much more slack should be cut but there can be no doubt that the percentage of men involved in causing unrest in here is way higher than the percentage of women or couples doing the same and as long as that continues they will continue to be beaten with the shitty end of the stick

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

Judge not, that ye be not judged.

For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.

i think those few words should be the site's watch word's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think all judge but you do evaluate messages sent to you into different categories. It’s a fact many single men cut and paste the same message, often without reading a profile. Lets say impersonal messages are deemed a little irritating by some.

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

its not just single guys that are keen on cut and paste

had 5 messages from a verified cpl who have sent me, would like to meet you messages

when they wont meet smokers (i`m a smoker) and i`m out side there age range

when i reply it just gets deleated

now i just wait for the next one.

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By *oyston VaseyMan
over a year ago

Sheffield- Pothole City

As a single guy one of the worst things i find is the amount of people who cant be bothered to reply to messages, even if its a polite "No Thanks".

i make the effort to compose a detailed ,well thought out ,polite message ,send face pics ,and 99% of them are just ignored. it dos`nt take much effoert to reply ,even if you are not interested.

ok ,couples recieve lots of mail from single guys ,but i feel its just plain rude to just ignore the messages.

Rant Over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single guy one of the worst things i find is the amount of people who cant be bothered to reply to messages, even if its a polite "No Thanks".

i make the effort to compose a detailed ,well thought out ,polite message ,send face pics ,and 99% of them are just ignored. it dos`nt take much effoert to reply ,even if you are not interested.

ok ,couples recieve lots of mail from single guys ,but i feel its just plain rude to just ignore the messages.

Rant Over

Zzzzzzzz.... *clonk*

someone say something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im only hard on them when in bed or other strange places!!

but i still dont reply if im not interested and u can burn me at the stake if u want!!!

the single guys iv met have been mostly ok a few have been great and know exactly why im here and what i want and a few have been more concerned with the immediate gratification!!

in here is like life u get good uns bad uns and really fuckin irritatin ones!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single guy one of the worst things i find is the amount of people who cant be bothered to reply to messages, even if its a polite "No Thanks".

i make the effort to compose a detailed ,well thought out ,polite message ,send face pics ,and 99% of them are just ignored. it dos`nt take much effoert to reply ,even if you are not interested.

ok ,couples recieve lots of mail from single guys ,but i feel its just plain rude to just ignore the messages.

Rant Over

You know when the postman drops the latest menu for Domino's through your letter box, do you ring them up and say nothing for me this week thanks

Or when you open your local paper and there is a leaflet from a local double glazing firm, do you ring them up and tell that all your windows are OK so you wont be needing any?

Both companies know that there are people out there that want their product but also accept that many don't and those who don't will almost certainly tear up and throw away their leaflets.

Well thats exactly what happens to some of your PM's, people don't want them and they throw them away. Nothing rude in that, just expediency which most folk on here fully understand

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"As a single guy one of the worst things i find is the amount of people who cant be bothered to reply to messages, even if its a polite "No Thanks""

It really shouldn't be an issue, if they don't reply so what?

We've sent face pics to those who've contacted us, some don't have the same curtsey to reply, it's not an issue for those that don't reply, it only becomes an issue if one chooses to make it an issue.

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

how did a positive post end up with so much negativity in it, sod in hell the first time we single men recieve some good press the thread denigrates to slagging them.

i give up and i am begining to wonder if it's really worth being on this site as a single genuine guy, it's been my expirence on this site that the single female is as bad as any single male in many ways, yet she will always be in demand by couples, so is forgiven for indescreations not so for the male on here, one mistake and he's hung out to dry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a minefield out here.

I'd maybe just take no reply as a no thanks I guess.

Up the Iron!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"how did a positive post end up with so much negativity in it, sod in hell the first time we single men recieve some good press the thread denigrates to slagging them.

Was only really me. The rest of them gave him valid reasoning, I just couldn't be arsed to type it! Dunno how 2bonks does it, he must be down to his knuckles the amount of times he writes a piece largely similar to that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get over it!!! its shit when u in both the minority and the majority!! bad people ruin things for everythin such is life!!

remember even with couples there was a single guy once! everyone is entitled to their opinion!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swings and roundabouts

No. He just wants fencing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I MIGHT OF BEEN A SINGLE GUY ONCE .

BUT I HAVE NEVER BEEN ON THE DOLE.

I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN ON THE SICK LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol!!! love it!!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single guy one of the worst things i find is the amount of people who cant be bothered to reply to messages, even if its a polite "No Thanks".

i make the effort to compose a detailed ,well thought out ,polite message ,send face pics ,and 99% of them are just ignored. it dos`nt take much effoert to reply ,even if you are not interested.

ok ,couples recieve lots of mail from single guys ,but i feel its just plain rude to just ignore the messages.

Rant Over

It is NOT rude to ignore a message.

It WOULD be rude if they said to you ... please write to me and then they didn't thank you BUT they didn't want your mail ...

I do wish the bloody manners police here would get it right ...

If I send you a letter in the post and then insult you cos you don't reply you'd think I was raving......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"how did a positive post end up with so much negativity in it, sod in hell the first time we single men recieve some good press the thread denigrates to slagging them.

Why does ANYONE take any notice of what a teeny minority say ... ??

It is NOT so just because some nonentity whines about it in the forum.

Ffs.... NO one here knows ANY percentages about gender, bagging off rates , timewasters or anything else... you all go on n on n on n on about this stuff and it has NO sodding substance what so ever.

Im goin' the pub ! They serve coffee x

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"I do wish the bloody manners police here would get it right ...

Your appointed

sorted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do wish the bloody manners police here would get it right ...

Your appointed

sorted!

Well take your hand outta there for one minute n salute me !

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"I do wish the bloody manners police here would get it right ...

Your appointed

sorted!

Well take your hand outta there for one minute n salute me !"

We're stood to attention

can't you tell?

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I don't know if anyone has noticed but I LOVE single guys

And I am trying to get round them all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there r loads of lovely genuine single guys on here u need 2 give them a chance, however there are some idiots who claim 2 be single when theyre not.

some people dont know what theyve got until theyve lost it

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By *oyston VaseyMan
over a year ago

Sheffield- Pothole City

"I don't know if anyone has noticed but I LOVE single guys

And I am trying to get round them all

Over here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"there r loads of lovely genuine single guys on here u need 2 give them a chance, however there are some idiots who claim 2 be single when theyre not.

some people dont know what theyve got until theyve lost it"
that's is true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nice guys ...not so nice guys

nice fems ...not so nice fems

nice couples ...not so nice couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"nice guys ...not so nice guys

nice fems ...not so nice fems

nice couples ...not so nice couples

Sadly that sort of logical aproach is not going to catch on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"nice guys ...not so nice guys

nice fems ...not so nice fems

nice couples ...not so nice couples

You get that in real life, and the same applies to any forums/message boards, FAB included!

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

"I don't know if anyone has noticed but I LOVE single guys

And I am trying to get round them all

Over here

YOOHOO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't know if anyone has noticed but I LOVE single guys

And I am trying to get round them all

Over here

YOOHOO

"
we love you

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By *oyston VaseyMan
over a year ago

Sheffield- Pothole City

"I don't know if anyone has noticed but I LOVE single guys

And I am trying to get round them all

Over here

YOOHOO

you called

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FUCK EM

well..that`s what my wife does

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