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Why do people who don't want a "single male" look at my profile?

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By *hyllyphylly OP   Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Do I message them? Do I not? Do I call them out for being pervs?

Do I ask too many questions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No , Yes, No, Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you message someone just for looking at your profile ?

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

Curiousity. It happens.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I look at couples and female profiles but we don't want to meet any of them.

They could have been being nosey like I am...so no I wouldn't message them

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By *ea and SugarCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

You will get more looking now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you post in the forum...I don't want single males but will often check out the profiles of posters because it helps put some of their comments in context...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh, and I wouldn't want a message from that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do I message them? Do I not? Do I call them out for being pervs?

Do I ask too many questions?"

I get that - and I used to get even before posting on the forums.

Its frustrating when there is a number of different times they view as well

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By *hyllyphylly OP   Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"No , Yes, No, Yes "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they are thinking of having a dabble. Best to wait for them to contact you. Too much too soon and you may spook them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause there are some nosey buggers on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No , Yes, No, Yes "

Too funny;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at loads of profiles in not interested in, in just nosey

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset

Many profiles say no messages from single men, some say - we will find you.

If I get a number of views from local-ish people I check out their profile. If there's a reasonable match I sometimes message them to break the ice.

This may leads to adding a friend or eventually a meet.

Sometimes it's just deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many profiles say no messages from single men, some say - we will find you.

If I get a number of views from local-ish people I check out their profile. If there's a reasonable match I sometimes message them to break the ice.

This may leads to adding a friend or eventually a meet.

Sometimes it's just deleted. "

and this is why I do not show on looked at me.

If someone doesn't want to answer endless messages from single men, they set their filters and put on the profile not looking for single men.

It doesn't mean they dont want single men, they dont want single men contacting them.

Huge difference.

So if they've looked, they've possibly considered you; however if they didn't contact you, I wouldn't contact them.

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset


"Many profiles say no messages from single men, some say - we will find you.

If I get a number of views from local-ish people I check out their profile. If there's a reasonable match I sometimes message them to break the ice.

This may leads to adding a friend or eventually a meet.

Sometimes it's just deleted.

and this is why I do not show on looked at me.

If someone doesn't want to answer endless messages from single men, they set their filters and put on the profile not looking for single men.

It doesn't mean they dont want single men, they dont want single men contacting them.

Huge difference.

So if they've looked, they've possibly considered you; however if they didn't contact you, I wouldn't contact them. "

Would only message them after repeated looks over a fairly short period. (3 or 4)and not if I get the message that I'm outside their preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id wait till they message you mate, every girl ive fount attractive ive messaged first and have been blocked..

fab a few of there photos or view there profile more often so they know your interested, could take some time but if you get a meet it'll be worth it in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No , Yes, No, Yes "
because they can and you never know you may tempt them

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

To answer the question in the title of this thread, maybe they look because they're checking out the veris of people you've verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look cos I've found your posts pretty interesting and your kinda hot

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By *hyllyphylly OP   Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"I look cos I've found your posts pretty interesting and your kinda hot "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is full of nosey buggers

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London


"The site is full of nosey buggers "

Nosey bugger here

I look at all sorts of profiles just for a nosey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's the female half having a look around when the male ain't in

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By *1ckeyMan
over a year ago

Camberley


"you post in the forum...I don't want single males but will often check out the profiles of posters because it helps put some of their comments in context..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lucky get a message lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's the female half having a look around when the male ain't in"

Maybe its the male peeking while the female isnt around

For me I wouldnt appreciate a message off anyone single or a couple just because id looked at their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be they do meet single guys but have no single men on their profile to stop getting 50 + messages a day

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Who cares who looks at it, its my profile and its there to tell people who and what I am.

If anyone looks and is interested I hope they will instigate an exchange of messages to see if we click enough to go further.

Would be so nice to have a few messages from sexy people for a change, but i certainly wouldn't message someone who had just looked at my profile.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I look at couples and female profiles but we don't want to meet any of them.

They could have been being nosey like I am...so no I wouldn't message them "

^^^This!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"you post in the forum. I will often check out the profiles of posters because it helps put some of their comments in context..."

...and this!

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By *orn_To_PerformCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Our profiles says no single males because we don't want single straight males messaging us (they still do, frequently...) However, we will often take a look at guys' profiles in the hope of finding bi guys. When will Fab have sexual persuasion included on the search criteria?

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By *rben112Man
over a year ago

worcester

I get more men looking at my prfile than anything else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you get lots of single straight men look at your profile as if you have veris on women/couples profiles they click on the ppl who have meet them to she what they are like and if they are similar so they know if they will like you more or your nothing like the ppl they meet

does this make sense??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at single guys profiles but only if they post in the forum or linked through verifications, and only because I am nosey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No , Yes, No, Yes "

Awesome

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"I think you get lots of single straight men look at your profile as if you have veris on women/couples profiles they click on the ppl who have meet them to she what they are like and if they are similar so they know if they will like you more or your nothing like the ppl they meet

does this make sense?? "

Yes perfect sense !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We stealth perv for this reason, also just because they have not looking for single males doesn't mean they are not its just a way of helping stem the tide of messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

erm may have been said but its probably because its a buyers market and they wish to decide who they approach from profile content and perhaps forum input to decide if they are interested

as opposed to getting messaged by every swinging dick in here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they look because they can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You will get more looking now lol "

I think thats actually the real reason he posted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We aren't seeking single guys but sometimes look at profiles of those that Fab pics.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't message ppl that just look at me. They look out of curiousity that's all...

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