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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi i dont consider myself as gay or bi but im thinking id like to try having a lady use me with a strap on. would this be off putting to most women and is it straying too far towards gay sex ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there I have a fb on here eho loves to do me with the strapon I bought her. We had the most amazing session on Tuesday. She actually fucked me senseless. It was good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi - I think it would depend on the woman - she would likely need to be a little DOM. I would love the same experience, having bought a friend a pair of double dildo pants, but unfortunately we never got to try it as she is no longer a player!!

regards

Graham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi i dont consider myself as gay or bi but im thinking id like to try having a lady use me with a strap on. would this be off putting to most women and is it straying too far towards gay sex ? "

No of course it isn't anything like bi or gay sex! It is a man and a woman enjoying some fun...and it certainly doesn't put me off when I use my strap on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a go of this as well if you find someone to help you out I'd like to be used with a strap on

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By *he BendoversCouple
over a year ago

Carlisle


"hi i dont consider myself as gay or bi but im thinking id like to try having a lady use me with a strap on. would this be off putting to most women and is it straying too far towards gay sex ? "

Its not gay, its just prostate pleasure. Suzie does me regular and we both get a hell of a buzz from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you like it, you like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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No of course it isn't anything like bi or gay sex! It is a man and a woman enjoying some fun...and it certainly doesn't put me off when I use my strap on "

yep-my strap on is an equal opportunity player...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi - I think it would depend on the woman - she would likely need to be a little DOM. I would love the same experience, having bought a friend a pair of double dildo pants, but unfortunately we never got to try it as she is no longer a player!!

regards

Graham"

I'm not in the least bit dominant-it's all just another facet of pleasure to us...it feels good to him so that gives me pleasure both physically and mentally...no submissive implications at all...although I know it has those undertones for some...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ive got to say i ssurprized all replys are possitive. I was expecting some negative ones really. I think i may have to give it a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it "straying too far" in to gay sex? If you like it you like it, doesn't matter what it's called.

We like it As someone has said, it doesn't have to be a sub/dom thing, but (for us anyway) there is a subtle power swap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im well up for doing a guy with a double one... Fuck myself and a guy at the same time... MASSIVE turn on

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I've said before and I say it again....

Inserting things into your arse does not make you gay/bi.....

Having sex with other men, does!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it's got nothing to do with being gay if a man enjoys strap-on sex.! Just do it!

Look at it the other way around -

When my girlfriend fucks the hell out of me with a strap-on, there's nothing straight about it at all - it's a totally lesbian experience and I love every fibre of her feminine being while she's doing it...

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

I wouldn't count myself as gay but have got a double ended strap, plus other prostate massagers, that i love using.

The dominant woman thing definitely helps too but isn't a must.

The only thing that i'd say is make sure it's not all about you.

Fulfilling your fantasies is one thing, being so greedy/selfish you forget someone else is there is something different entirely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi i dont consider myself as gay or bi but im thinking id like to try having a lady use me with a strap on. would this be off putting to most women and is it straying too far towards gay sex ? "

Probably depends on what your fantasising about while she's doing it!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to give it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you like it, you like it."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love a woman to do me with a strapon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a fantasy of mine...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably one of the most common "taboo" fantasies that men have. As someone said. You like what you like.

Try it once and if you like it do it again. If not then don't. Take your time and use lots of lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to give it x "
hi how would you like you give it to me. Had it done before. But I want more. It feels amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love it when my f b takes me with her straop on....its amazing...dont knock it till you try it...

its fucking amazing and im not bi either ....

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By *idsbear68Man
over a year ago

Barnoldswick

Mindblowing. Has to be done properly though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not gay or bi but when ever a women slipped a finger or two in I loved it. moved on to toys. so start slow and get used to it.

I hope soon I will get the strapon treatment. just not quite there yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as the above poster said, you cant just use a strap on because you fancy trying it.....if you have no experience with anything to do with anal then you need to build up to it.

Otherwise, it will just be painful and put you off.

Start with fingers, move to toys, then slightly bigger toys, then a small dildo, and everything with lots of lube and patience.

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By *aynelintMan
over a year ago

Newport

i agree with the above poster, i love being straponed by a dominant women, if any female wants to try message me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi i dont consider myself as gay or bi but im thinking id like to try having a lady use me with a strap on. would this be off putting to most women and is it straying too far towards gay sex ? "

I never get this attitude

being bi or gay is not a sexual act, having a woman put a toy up your arse does not make you bi, having a guy put his cock up does

just go for it and enjoy and stop think so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now that's sorted I'm certainly not gay are there and naughty ladies who want to get their own back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need a competent confident woman who will quite literally ease you into it. Was one of our horniest ever experiences and gets better each time.

We have two harnesses and two different attachments guess its an integral part of our sex life now. Gives you such a range of feelings from nervousness to submission.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man + man = gay

man + woman + strap on = straight

Don't understand the logic behind if a woman plays with a guys arse he's gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Man + man = gay

man + woman + strap on = straight

Don't understand the logic behind if a woman plays with a guys arse he's gay "

Exactly although sucking on the strap on may raise a few questions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Exactly although sucking on the strap on may raise a few questions. "

thats one of the most enjoyable parts!! ;-P

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Don't try label what it is or what it isnt just enjoy is my mantra.

Id love to do this but sadly Mr will not under any circumstances let me touch him with a strap on and its one of my biggest fantasies! Hmmph .. Mrs x

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By *reasyontheeyesMan
over a year ago

out in the sticks

Gotta love the whole female dom thing....lying on the bed face buried in the pillow as she "prepares" to give you a good fucking. The feeling as she takes hold of your hips and the strap on brushes your body. God thats horny!!! Any Lady in Devon into that?

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Being well fucked by a woman with a strap-on is just incredible! Loved it the last time I had it. Hard, deep and fast, she really knew how to use it.

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By *onkersMan
over a year ago

livingston

me i just love a girl with a strapon simpels call me what you will lol

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By *unforfiCouple
over a year ago

CHELTENHAM

Bought one the other day for me and my man to try. He was quite turned on in the shop when looking at them, but after getting it home and in the cold light of day, hes not too keen. Not used it yet, but im hoping after a couple of glasses of wine tonight, he may be more.....open to suggestion!!

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Just remember plenty of lube!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to give it x "

Ohhh yes please im up for some strap on fun. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there I have a fb on here eho loves to do me with the strapon I bought her. We had the most amazing session on Tuesday. She actually fucked me senseless. It was good"

Get into the fantasies forum and tell us all about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What strap ons do you guys recommend?

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By *onestjohn1962Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Don't try label what it is or what it isnt just enjoy is my mantra.

Id love to do this but sadly Mr will not under any circumstances let me touch him with a strap on and its one of my biggest fantasies! Hmmph .. Mrs x "

Every other day this subject gets raised and there are hundreds of blokes desperately trying to get their cherries popped - you won't have any problem finding a willing volunteer to help you with your fantasy. . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What strap ons do you guys recommend?"

For a first?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally a woman using a strap on on a man is called pegging - have tried it a few times, plenty of lube! and in my experience, prepared to get a achy cock for staying hard for so long where it's so damn good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What strap ons do you guys recommend?

For a first? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What strap ons do you guys recommend?

For a first?

Yes "

I will PM you as have to look at my LH account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What strap ons do you guys recommend?

For a first?

Yes

I will PM you as have to look at my LH account "

Thank you.

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By *ethRyanCouple
over a year ago

Preston

For fem-fem fun the vixen creatons vixskin range with a good leather harness ... FOr a first f on m both tantus and sportsheets do great bendover beginners ones ..

Always buy medical grade silicon as you can sterilise by boiling or even by putting through the dishwasher!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would luv to try this out hmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strap on play when done correctly leading to a prostrate massage/orgasm is amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still not tried it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For fem-fem fun the vixen creatons vixskin range with a good leather harness ... FOr a first f on m both tantus and sportsheets do great bendover beginners ones ..

Always buy medical grade silicon as you can sterilise by boiling or even by putting through the dishwasher!"

I always use condoms on my toys. Toy cleaner too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What strap ons do you guys recommend?

For a first?

Yes

I will PM you as have to look at my LH account "

Always so helpful when it comes to strapons! Did you ever throw "that" party?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bought one the other day for me and my man to try. He was quite turned on in the shop when looking at them, but after getting it home and in the cold light of day, hes not too keen. Not used it yet, but im hoping after a couple of glasses of wine tonight, he may be more.....open to suggestion!!"

If he is still not open to the thought of trying it I'd be more than wiling to let you try it on me, I'd love to have a lady ride me with her strap on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im well up for doing a guy with a double one... Fuck myself and a guy at the same time... MASSIVE turn on "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An enhancement for us, which we hope to fulfil one day, is for an FFM involving strapon play (on him)

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


"Bought one the other day for me and my man to try. He was quite turned on in the shop when looking at them, but after getting it home and in the cold light of day, hes not too keen. Not used it yet, but im hoping after a couple of glasses of wine tonight, he may be more.....open to suggestion!!"

If you are not interested fella, there's plenty of us looking to try this with a tasty playmate. Cheltenham here I come!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"hi i dont consider myself as gay or bi but im thinking id like to try having a lady use me with a strap on. would this be off putting to most women and is it straying too far towards gay sex ? "

No it does not! Find a kind lady to experiment with and enjoy...who cares about labals, they are ugly things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi i dont consider myself as gay or bi but im thinking id like to try having a lady use me with a strap on. would this be off putting to most women and is it straying too far towards gay sex ?

No of course it isn't anything like bi or gay sex! It is a man and a woman enjoying some fun...and it certainly doesn't put me off when I use my strap on "

my point many men like havent bum play with a woman and if a man likes it cool :_

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By *kda 07Man
over a year ago

Aldershot

I loved being fucked by my ex. Actually found it better then a guy. Something about being fucked by a girl is just so sexy. I love it...

I have the rodeo strap on underwear. Looks very sexy

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By *pock123Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

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By *pock123Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I would try this. Had women finger me while sucking me off and really blew my load. So strap on while being wanked sounds good to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't try label what it is or what it isnt just enjoy is my mantra.

Id love to do this but sadly Mr will not under any circumstances let me touch him with a strap on and its one of my biggest fantasies! Hmmph .. Mrs x "

U can come do me anytime with one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to use mine on a guy under Sirs control...

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By *ilthy fun bareCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

its something we do often. makes us both really horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy anal play and would consider a lady with a strap on, its finding them that's the hard part.

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