FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi do any of you ever look at a profile and think yes I would love to meet this person but when you see who has verified them it puts you right off?

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By *acciWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Short answer is YES i do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol Yes, quite often!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes far too often

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By *cottishrichMan
over a year ago

Here and there

Yes, it has been known to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not always a question of who has verified them - but who has verified the verifiers, and so on!

A little bit of back checking often produces a few surprises. And some shocks. And the occasional need for a google reverse check of some pics!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I thought I was the only one lol

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Aaargh!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I can't lie

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Aaargh!!"
are you ok? Lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for sure

But the thing is you only see the ones they want you to see anyway !!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Aaargh!!are you ok? Lol xxx"

It's ok. It's passed now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes for sure

But the thing is you only see the ones they want you to see anyway !!

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true dread to think of the people they have met that they don't want you to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And the occasional need for a google reverse check of some pics!!

Oh please tell me how I do that?

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By *orkscrew CurlsWoman
over a year ago

Loughborough Leics

Yes! One hot guy had a veri from a local couple. On looking at their profile they were advertising for a dogging meet. The wanted a 'clean' guy to fuck the male bareback.

It will stick in my mind, and if I see them on anyone elses I know it will colour my view towards them....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes for sure

But the thing is you only see the ones they want you to see anyway !!

true dread to think of the people they have met that they don't want you to see

Yes best not to think to much about that !!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yea clicked off a few profiles because of veri's. also a turned off by some pics when their bare back with a load of different men. Don't get me wrong some people prefer that and that's their choice and that's fine. But no, not for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Aaargh!!are you ok? Lol xxx

It's ok. It's passed now."
thourght it might of bin because of one of my verifications lol x

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Yes I am influenced by verifications..( or would be if I were ever to meet) the way they are written and the amount of them.

Not frightfully keen on graffic she did this he did that..

I also think it can be insensitive to write the person is the best ever sucker or licker !! that means any previous fuckees were not so good and any subsequent ones have alot to do to be better

..it can hurt peoples feelings.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Yes! One hot guy had a veri from a local couple. On looking at their profile they were advertising for a dogging meet. The wanted a 'clean' guy to fuck the male bareback.

It will stick in my mind, and if I see them on anyone elses I know it will colour my view towards them...."

I know what you mean. I only check verifications to see who they've met. One guy I would have met but I saw he'd played with someone who only does bareback.

He didn't have one picture wearing a condom: instant turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not always a question of who has verified them - but who has verified the verifiers, and so on!

A little bit of back checking often produces a few surprises. And some shocks. And the occasional need for a google reverse check of some pics!!

Definitely this...I've just blocked a guy I was considering meeting cos I saw his latest veri, instant turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I do and yes I have, shame really some of them were just my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say I personally have... But I have had people tell me others have said that people have refused to meet them because of me. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many times unfortunately. . But then I'm a fussy bitch. But cmon some of you guys need to have some standards. .

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

No. I have standards but why would who he's played with be a problem? If I turned down blokes for that in my area I wouldn't play at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"No. I have standards but why would who he's played with be a problem? If I turned down blokes for that in my area I wouldn't play at all."

I agree. Whilst I assume everyone indulges in activities I'm not into and act accordingly, seeing a man with his cock holding random women pussies open displaying his creampie is off putting.

I can't go there: silly I know, but there you are.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"No. I have standards but why would who he's played with be a problem? If I turned down blokes for that in my area I wouldn't play at all.

I agree. Whilst I assume everyone indulges in activities I'm not into and act accordingly, seeing a man with his cock holding random women pussies open displaying his creampie is off putting.

I can't go there: silly I know, but there you are."

Personal preference is fine, but having been on the receiving end of gossip and lies I feel that excluding people for who they've been with is a little bit 'playground'. However excluding people for unsafe playing and wanting to do unsavoury things is fine.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"No. I have standards but why would who he's played with be a problem? If I turned down blokes for that in my area I wouldn't play at all.

I agree. Whilst I assume everyone indulges in activities I'm not into and act accordingly, seeing a man with his cock holding random women pussies open displaying his creampie is off putting.

I can't go there: silly I know, but there you are.

This is a site where some won't answer a message unless verified by "friends" so I'm not surprised people tittle tattle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly yes I have, a number of times.

I use the profile and veri's to build a picture of a person and use all the info to make a decision.

I do know the gossip goes on and it always has, so called couples black lists and what not; however, I do not pay any attention to it

I make my own decisions me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have a problem meeting someones who's met someone i dont want to meet sexually.Why should it put me off who i was interested in?

besides I might end up meeting the people I didnt want to meet sexually in a party or social event...perhaps I wont play with them..perhaps i will

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I dont have a problem meeting someones who's met someone i dont want to meet sexually.Why should it put me off who i was interested in?

besides I might end up meeting the people I didnt want to meet sexually in a party or social event...perhaps I wont play with them..perhaps i will"

I've been blacklisted by the single male community for sleeping with you. Just letting you know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, definetly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont have a problem meeting someones who's met someone i dont want to meet sexually.Why should it put me off who i was interested in?

besides I might end up meeting the people I didnt want to meet sexually in a party or social event...perhaps I wont play with them..perhaps i will

I've been blacklisted by the single male community for sleeping with you. Just letting you know.

I dont remember sleeping lol winkwink xxxx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I dont have a problem meeting someones who's met someone i dont want to meet sexually.Why should it put me off who i was interested in?

besides I might end up meeting the people I didnt want to meet sexually in a party or social event...perhaps I wont play with them..perhaps i will

I've been blacklisted by the single male community for sleeping with you. Just letting you know.

I dont remember sleeping lol winkwink xxxx"

Hehehe

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Bit strange because people don't usually come with verifications. If you met someone at a club you would not start asking them who they have been with... Would you? I do read them on here if course but I let the chat and personality be the guiding factor for meeting.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Yes far too often

Thank god it's not just me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bit strange because people don't usually come with verifications. If you met someone at a club you would not start asking them who they have been with... Would you? I do read them on here if course but I let the chat and personality be the guiding factor for meeting. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't say I personally have... But I have had people tell me others have said that people have refused to meet them because of me. X"
why because of you? Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No people don't usually come with verifications attached...but if they did you'd read them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You all make good points xxx

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By *lle adie 2Woman
over a year ago

newcastle upon tyne

I read verifications and also look at people they've played with..

too many and I steer well clear

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Hi do any of you ever look at a profile and think yes I would love to meet this person but when you see who has verified them it puts you right off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't say I personally have... But I have had people tell me others have said that people have refused to meet them because of me. Xwhy because of you? Xxx

don't know.. must be my face or something.. lol. Think it's my number of sexual partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so....

we should all hide our veris in case it gets us less meets

the cyclic shite continues lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so....

we should all hide our veris in case it gets us less meets

the cyclic shite continues lol"

who would think having sex on a sex site would be a bad thing lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't say I personally have... But I have had people tell me others have said that people have refused to meet them because of me. Xwhy because of you? Xxx

don't know.. must be my face or something.. lol. Think it's my number of sexual partners. "
lol if I loved closer I would love to be number 120 xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't say I personally have... But I have had people tell me others have said that people have refused to meet them because of me. Xwhy because of you? Xxx

don't know.. must be my face or something.. lol. Think it's my number of sexual partners. lol if I loved closer I would love to be number 120 xxx

oh I must have lost one today lol as had 120 this morning xxx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"so....

we should all hide our veris in case it gets us less meets

the cyclic shite continues lol

who would think having sex on a sex site would be a bad thing lol "

You're all hussies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so....

we should all hide our veris in case it gets us less meets

the cyclic shite continues lol

who would think having sex on a sex site would be a bad thing lol

You're all hussies!

we are.. but prefer the world harlot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so....

we should all hide our veris in case it gets us less meets

the cyclic shite continues lol

who would think having sex on a sex site would be a bad thing lol "

down with that sort of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We was just having this conversation our self's it get's you thinking that's for sure, sometimes in a good way if they have made what you think are good choices.X

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I wouldn't attend a club: not for me. Verifications from strangers about another stranger is pointless to me, as why would I use what someone I don't know has to say in who I invite into my home?

When something puts you off, it puts you off rational or not!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can't say I personally have... But I have had people tell me others have said that people have refused to meet them because of me. Xwhy because of you? Xxx

don't know.. must be my face or something.. lol. Think it's my number of sexual partners. lol if I loved closer I would love to be number 120 xxx

oh I must have lost one today lol as had 120 this morning xxx"
i wouldn't mind being number 1000 ur sexy as lol xxx

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Next time I am in a club or at a party I must ask them who they have met prior to me

Seriously it's the person I am interested in not those they have met. I appreciate honesty and regard verifications as a good read.

When I first joined - yes they put me off. Now no not at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No the profile and the dialogue between us is more likely to put me off than verfications will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi do any of you ever look at a profile and think yes I would love to meet this person but when you see who has verified them it puts you right off?

To be honest, yes. I have been disappointed, when I've found out who a potential playmate has played with. So now, I resolutely DON'T read verifications. That way, I can be sure that I am making an impartial decision, based on my own views.

And my own verifications are all "social" verifications, so no-one can be influenced or judge me, based on who I have met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have, also been turned off by bareback pics too... not into bi males either. Sheesh, I'm just dam picky..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Short answer is YES i do"

Interesting ...what is it that puts you off usually?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time. I like to see where people have been, call it quality control of you like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All the time. I like to see where people have been, call it quality control of you like. "
lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi do any of you ever look at a profile and think yes I would love to meet this person but when you see who has verified them it puts you right off?

Without question! We wouldn't meet certain people for various reasons and some of those reasons would mean we wouldn't meet people who have met them and played with them.

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By *acciWoman
over a year ago

leeds

"Short answer is YES i do

Interesting ...what is it that puts you off usually?"

Certain people on here i wouldn't meet,so wouldn't meet people they have played with either.Just my preference,we all have them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Short answer is YES i do

Interesting ...what is it that puts you off usually?

Certain people on here i wouldn't meet,so wouldn't meet people they have played with either.Just my preference,we all have them lol"

will hide who iv met..any better????..

I just find the whole thing pretty judgemental..I'd basically tell whoever im meeting if they had a dislike to any of the people ive met(and liked) to fuck off...possibly even while im shagging

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

My goodness my mind boggles. If I was looking for someone to date. Absolutely would I care about ex's etc to see what kind of women they go for.

On here - absolutely not. I don't care who they have slept with. It's just sex. I am not going to spend the rest of my life with them. Just a night of sex sex and more sex. Reading too much into verifications leads to people just hiding them.

Verifications are a mystery. It's seems you can't get meets without them and now can't get meets for displaying them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My goodness my mind boggles. If I was looking for someone to date. Absolutely would I care about ex's etc to see what kind of women they go for.

Verifications are a mystery. It's seems you can't get meets without them and now can't get meets for displaying them. "
a night of _ohoho so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My goodness my mind boggles. If I was looking for someone to date. Absolutely would I care about ex's etc to see what kind of women they go for.

Verifications are a mystery. It's seems you can't get meets without them and now can't get meets for displaying them. "

fancy a shag?...tho dunno...uve been aroon the block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the absence of a lot of other information we do use verifies to build a picture of the person and whether they are for us or not. Rightly or wrongly .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the absence of a lot of other information we do use verifies to build a picture of the person and whether they are for us or not. Rightly or wrongly . "

repeating my last statement...er..fancy a shag!

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"My goodness my mind boggles. If I was looking for someone to date. Absolutely would I care about ex's etc to see what kind of women they go for.

Verifications are a mystery. It's seems you can't get meets without them and now can't get meets for displaying them.

fancy a shag?...tho dunno...uve been aroon the block

I was going to say yes. Then read your verifications. I will let you know. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the absence of a lot of other information we do use verifies to build a picture of the person and whether they are for us or not. Rightly or wrongly .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My goodness my mind boggles. If I was looking for someone to date. Absolutely would I care about ex's etc to see what kind of women they go for.

Verifications are a mystery. It's seems you can't get meets without them and now can't get meets for displaying them.

fancy a shag?...tho dunno...uve been aroon the block

I was going to say yes. Then read your verifications. I will let you know. Lol

stop playing with ur wet pussy and just say yes! x

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"My goodness my mind boggles. If I was looking for someone to date. Absolutely would I care about ex's etc to see what kind of women they go for.

Verifications are a mystery. It's seems you can't get meets without them and now can't get meets for displaying them.

fancy a shag?...tho dunno...uve been aroon the block

I was going to say yes. Then read your verifications. I will let you know. Lol

stop playing with ur wet pussy and just say yes! x"

Book your bus sweet talker - you've pulled!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I have standards but why would who he's played with be a problem? If I turned down blokes for that in my area I wouldn't play at all.

I agree. Whilst I assume everyone indulges in activities I'm not into and act accordingly, seeing a man with his cock holding random women pussies open displaying his creampie is off putting.

I can't go there: silly I know, but there you are."

not silly at all

I only show veries with no actual detail

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I can't say I personally have... But I have had people tell me others have said that people have refused to meet them because of me. Xwhy because of you? Xxx

don't know.. must be my face or something.. lol. Think it's my number of sexual partners. "

Aaah... of course.. Buy they'll go on and meet that other person with 3 veri's showing......and 200 hidden..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't say I personally have... But I have had people tell me others have said that people have refused to meet them because of me. Xwhy because of you? Xxx

don't know.. must be my face or something.. lol. Think it's my number of sexual partners.

Aaah... of course.. Buy they'll go on and meet that other person with 3 veri's showing......and 200 hidden..

200 hidden TV/TS verifies...on a straight profile lol

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