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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi forumites,

I am a big fan of quick meets, after all we are all on here for similar things! I seem to find that either people are fakes and very rarely meet or people like to "get to know you" first! Now I understand that getting to know people is fun but is there anyone else who just wants to have some fun quickly?!

Thoughts?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a ten minute meet. I dont count the 90 minute drive he took trying to find us somewhere private. that quick enough for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let you know tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I meant all the messaging on here beforehand! Lol 10 minutes is a very quick meet! Was it good?

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Hi forumites,

I am a big fan of quick meets, after all we are all on here for similar things! I seem to find that either people are fakes and very rarely meet or people like to "get to know you" first! Now I understand that getting to know people is fun but is there anyone else who just wants to have some fun quickly?!

Thoughts?!"

i only do quickys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never do 'quick' meets but each to their own x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant all the messaging on here beforehand! Lol 10 minutes is a very quick meet! Was it good? "
oh sorry i misunderstood. Re the quickie well does that smiley answer? I dont want to elaborate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi forumites,

I am a big fan of quick meets, after all we are all on here for similar things! I seem to find that either people are fakes and very rarely meet or people like to "get to know you" first! Now I understand that getting to know people is fun but is there anyone else who just wants to have some fun quickly?!

Thoughts?!"

Would like to get a meet; quick, fast or slow and sensual ..it matters not lol

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I never do 'quick' meets but each to their own x "
trust me it would be quick if we ever met lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I meant all the messaging on here beforehand! Lol 10 minutes is a very quick meet! Was it good? oh sorry i misunderstood. Re the quickie well does that smiley answer? I dont want to elaborate "

Ha ha! Say no more!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will answer properly now. I like a bit of messaging before a possible meet and a cam chat on skype if they are willing and able to. But have had quick meets after only a couple of messages.

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By *atcockleedsMan
over a year ago

leeds

Have had a quick meet on another site was fun I enjoy both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my meets. cooked for 2 an half hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get anything out of quick meets it takes me an hour to warm up. poppyx

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

they have their place, mainly when you are very horny and its late and you dont have time to play email tennis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a warmup too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"they have their place, mainly when you are very horny and its late and you dont have time to play email tennis "
40 love x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Quick meets are not my thing but each to their own

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

Quick meets not for me. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had meets after a couple of messages when I 1st joined, now I don't do it now. I like to get to know the person I'm meeting and also have a social meet at a starting point. I will play on a 1st meet but not with everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate quick meets, much rather take my time,, find out what the lady likes x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I never have and never will do quick meets!

Without even going down the line about safety first etc etc, I am a fussy biatch and need to want to enjoy someone's company!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do quick meets unless it's someone I've met before. As a single woman I need to get to know someone first and like to exchange quite a few messages before I agree to a social meet. Every quick meet I've had in the past have always ended up badly so don't do them now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done quick meets, they can be fun, the only down side to them is because I havnt gotten to know them there's a higher chance we may not play, if they are willing to take that risk fine

Sometimes they work better for me, because of my job and the hours I work its hard to plan meets, I have on many occasions planned meets and had to cancel because i've been called in last min so now I try not top plan meets so as not to let people down

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Hi forumites,

I am a big fan of quick meets, after all we are all on here for similar things! I seem to find that either people are fakes and very rarely meet or people like to "get to know you" first! Now I understand that getting to know people is fun but is there anyone else who just wants to have some fun quickly?!

Thoughts?!"

Many people simply cannot do that - they need to make arrangements re; babysitting, etc. Some like to get a feel for the person they will meet first - especially a lot of single women who may feel vulnerable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hate quick meets, much rather take my time,, find out what the lady likes x"

just to clarify when we say quick meets do we mean, meet someone the same day of chatting or turn up, quick fuck and go? I do meet guys the same day as first chatting but I still expect to meet for a drink and a chat and if we get alone have a long quality session with them

im not into blow jobs in the back of the car

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

we like to move in for the weekend .. quick is not for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hate quick meets, much rather take my time,, find out what the lady likes x

just to clarify when we say quick meets do we mean, meet someone the same day of chatting or turn up, quick fuck and go? I do meet guys the same day as first chatting but I still expect to meet for a drink and a chat and if we get alone have a long quality session with them

im not into blow jobs in the back of the car "

Its meeting the same day as first chatting! Happy for social meet first and then possible play!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I never do 'quick' meets but each to their own x "

Nor I!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to be honest if a guy sends me a pic and I think ....pwahhhhh id much sooner arrange to meet him for a drink and get to know him face to face rather then ping pong messaging on here

we do what works best for us

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By *livia_KWoman
over a year ago

South London

Define "quick".

Do you mean get in the door, bang bang, put your pants back on then out the door?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to line up socials first, but because it caused a back log (god that sounds bad lol) I have now adopted a different attitude and now have a social and if we click then find somewhere suitable and have lots of fun...

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I used to line up socials first, but because it caused a back log (god that sounds bad lol) I have now adopted a different attitude and now have a social and if we click then find somewhere suitable and have lots of fun... "

I've got it down quicker than that - coffee and a chat at mine. That way if we click then we already have somewhere suitable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quick meets can be great when being used by a couple as an extra. Hopefully the partner has done the warming up first. Had a couple like this and it can be fun especially if the lady is in blindfold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Predominantly I prefer to message, cam etc, before meeting and usually for a social first..

Spontaneous quick meets without any planning, couple of brief messages, meet, click & play are exciting but I find these days are rare to come by...

When they do come off and the resulting play and fucking is amazing.. It does leave you feeling that WOW factor!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to spend weeks playing email tennis,texting and making sure they have copies of my birth certificate and driving licence before I play. Not forgetting my complete medical history.

I'm not bitter honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a couple after 10 mins email very local to me one night - went on to see them on 3 further occasions -

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By *lassic1Man
over a year ago

bellshill

Joined site at 10.00am...had great BJ at 2.00pm

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

As a single woman I feel it's just not safe to run off and quickly shag random strangers... Get to know part is imperative.

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Quick meets.?.. .....An hour or two does us...... Lovely...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually spend a bit of time getting to know someone a bit, think it helps break the ice when we finally meet.

And as for fun, I much prefer long, slow, sensual!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...................phew..........did we meet then

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"As a single woman I feel it's just not safe to run off and quickly shag random strangers... Get to know part is imperative. "

This!

I'm also the type of person that looks at worst case scenarios. Whilst I *might* be cavilier with my own safety, my two youngest daughters live at home.

Suppose I make an error in judgement and invite some nut into our home who over powers me and lays in wait for my daughters.

That's not a chance I'm willing to take for a fuck!

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