FabSwingers.com forum: Girls. Am I just weird?

By *hinredline OP Couple
5 hours ago

Dumbarton

I just need some outside opinions, because the only other person I can ask IRL is very biased on this subject, lol.

I don't find athletic or "ripped" dudes all that hot. Not saying it's a turn off or that I think a dad bod looks sooo much sexier or anything. (My preference is more slim and a little built, like brad pitt in fight club if anything). But the gym look doesn't really do anything for me one way or another.

My partner on the other hand (while he doesn't think other men are hot) definitely has that "dude respect" for the guys on here who are hitting the gym, and my best friend is downright obsessed. Like, full-on kink for forearm veins obsessed, and I'm just sitting over here in the corner by myself like. "Meh, it looks fine".

Horrible as it sounds, a guys build tells me nothing about about how fun he's going to be in the bedroom. I'll take a nice dick and compatible kinks over a gym bod any day of the week lol.

Sooo... Am I the weirdo?

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
4 hours ago

Nope not weird at all,

I’m more attracted to the dad bod/rugby type, not into ripped guys either.

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
4 hours ago

Around the Midlands

Definitely not weird, it's a personal choice/preference. Not really into ripped guys too

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By *he MinionMan
4 hours ago

Surrey

You like what you like.

Be proud of it

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By *ereFlix75Man
4 hours ago

Hitchin

"Nope not weird at all,

I’m more attracted to the dad bod/rugby type, not into ripped guys either. "

That'd we dad bods like to hear

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By *onnyJohnMan
4 hours ago

Doncaster

"I just need some outside opinions, because the only other person I can ask IRL is very biased on this subject, lol.

Horrible as it sounds, a guys build tells me nothing about about how fun he's going to be in the bedroom. I'll take a nice dick and compatible kinks over a gym bod any day of the week lol.

Sooo... Am I the weirdo?"

No, your normal, it's normal to like what you like and you know what you like.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
4 hours ago

East Sussex

No not weird. I like all types of body and can certainly see the attraction of a gym goers body but I also like the look of Joe Marler.

Mr N is very muscular due to years of physical work, that's very different to muscles built in the gym and very attractive .

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By *lym4realCouple
4 hours ago

plymouth

Nope not weird at all as Mrs4 does insist on a personality being attached to any and all males body's ! xx

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By *andb69Couple
4 hours ago

leeds

No, you're not at all weird. We all have our preferences when it comes to the fantasy sex that swinging affords us. I much prefer guys (and women) with slim or slimmish bodies but for me an overworked gym body can appear a little narcissistic.

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By *oul_Man-MedwayMan
4 hours ago

Kent

No, not weird at all 🙂

Putting more emphasis on personality is a sign of maturity if anything 👍

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By *WNMan
4 hours ago

Usually Dundee and around

Brad Pitt in Fight Club is pretty toned. Maybe lean is the phrase.

I tend to go for functional fitness rather than muscle bulk.

I guess we all like different things, and that's what makes life interesting!

Yoga anyone?

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By *oneyBee200Woman
4 hours ago

Kent

Not weird. These ripped bodies take time, effort and dedication which I applaud. I prefer a natural body but in saying that there are a few who regularly post in forums that have exquisite bodies who I definitely wouldn’t say no to

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By *dible_KinkCouple
4 hours ago

Aberdeen

No not weird, you just have a preference. I personally am not attracted to bulging muscles, that said if we clicked who knows. I tend to go more for the rugby built guys.

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By *he MinionMan
4 hours ago

Surrey

"Not weird. These ripped bodies take time, effort and dedication which I applaud. I prefer a natural body but in saying that there are a few who regularly post in forums that have exquisite bodies who I definitely wouldn’t say no to

Aww shucks, Thanks, good to know 🤭

🤣🤣

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
4 hours ago

London

Everyone has a preference. Mutual attraction is the challenge.

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By *issmorganWoman
2 hours ago

Calderdale innit

Not at all op.its good we don't all like the same.

I don't tend to go for really ripped men either.

I wouldn't be interested in someone who has pics of themselves just in the gym, or mentions how much they work out, with not much more to go on either.

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By *ndiiiMan
2 hours ago

Paisley Scotland

So glad we are all different as they say it takes all sorts,…. Thank goodness!!!!

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By *vonCalling2022Couple
2 hours ago

Whyteleafe

The problem with most ripped guys is that they think they’re god’s gift just because of it.

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By *tlanshiaWoman
2 hours ago

Chatham

Nope not weird at all.

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