FabSwingers.com forum: Is there too many purvey men on this site

By *andD2004 OP Couple
21 hours ago

croydon

Who agrees

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By *avexxMan
21 hours ago

cheshire

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By *andD2004 OP Couple
21 hours ago

croydon

We find we post something and just get inundated by men, just puts us off the site

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By *ightDesiresCouple
21 hours ago

Northampton

There are way more men than couples and single women and yes there are plenty that just think we are all going to have sex with anything that messages us and send some pretty vulgar stuff our way , but on the flip side their are some very lovely genuine guys on here that we have spoken to and even if we aren't interested they have been so respectful about us politely declining. We do get what you mean though can guarantee we post in a forum we will get the private replies most are harmless but there are the ones that are pretty pervy we just block and delete if it's a message like that or the repeat private messages from same people.

It does get a bit much some days but as we said there are some genuine decent guys on here as well.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
20 hours ago

East Sussex

Block single men from being able to message you and go looking for the ones who might suit you.

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
20 hours ago

IPSWICH

"Block single men from being able to message you and go looking for the ones who might suit you. "

This⬆️

There are tools for you to use and doing this will stop them from contacting you. 😉

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By *rchie300Man
20 hours ago

Hamworthy

There’s just not enough pervy men on here …. Definitely a shortage

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By *onnyJohnMan
20 hours ago

Doncaster

Yes, i wish they'd leave me alone..

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By *parkle1974Woman
19 hours ago

Leeds

Easy to sort the wheat from the chaff x

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By *xSirenaxxWoman
19 hours ago

Gloucestershire

Aren't we all prone to a bit of a perve on here at times?

There are more "single" men profiles on here than women and couples.If you use your filters well you can stop your inbox being inundated. And if you are clear about what you are looking for and stick to your boundaries it usually keeps the away those that give you the ick.

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By *issmorganWoman
19 hours ago

Calderdale innit

Yep. But I just delete them.

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By *aandLoCouple
19 hours ago

Southampton

Pervy is ok with us. Crass, unpleasant and those whose are frankly disturbing, are here in significant numbers too!

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By *avexxMan
19 hours ago

cheshire

"me

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only kidding of course

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By *peedyGMan
19 hours ago

Telford

"me

only kidding of course"

Lies... i see you on the weekend perve threads 🤫

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By *andL2026Couple
19 hours ago

moray/Inverness

Yeah there is a lot of pervy guys but some great ones as well!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
19 hours ago

Chichester

And couples

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By *each needs some creamWoman
18 hours ago

Ilfracombe

Set your settings up better than.

It's an easy delete and block.

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By *eroLondonMan
18 hours ago

Mayfair

"Who agrees "

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I disagree.

It's just that there are fewer women.

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By *emptme1993Man
17 hours ago

manchester

On a swingers site, you’re surprised people perv? Or have I misunderstood completely

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By *heekyCharmMan
17 hours ago

Colne

Too many pervy women if you ask me! Spreading their pussies and showing their bum holes. Outrageous.

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By *d2026!Couple
17 hours ago

Plymouth

I love a polite pervy man. I’m a perv, I appreciate being perved on

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By *uimquiveringqueenWoman
17 hours ago

the land of vagina

"Too many pervy women if you ask me! Spreading their pussies and showing their bum holes. Outrageous."

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👏👏

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By *rinceless PrincessWoman
17 hours ago

"There are way more men than couples and single women and yes there are plenty that just think we are all going to have sex with anything that messages us and send some pretty vulgar stuff our way , but on the flip side their are some very lovely genuine guys on here that we have spoken to and even if we aren't interested they have been so respectful about us politely declining. We do get what you mean though can guarantee we post in a forum we will get the private replies most are harmless but there are the ones that are pretty pervy we just block and delete if it's a message like that or the repeat private messages from same people.

It does get a bit much some days but as we said there are some genuine decent guys on here as well."

I wanted to say something like this but you said it so much better than I could have

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By *heekyCharmMan
17 hours ago

Colne

The best messages are:

“Suk dik”

“Hi”

“Do you want rimming and wanking off?”

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By *ickRoseBothBiCouple
6 hours ago

Canterbury

"Who agrees "

Define "pervey"

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By *arylRMan
4 hours ago

East

Absolutely too many

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By *avenwrexham75TV/TS
3 hours ago

Wrexham

Can I just ask for clarification?

So, if I blocked a certain bracket eg single men..

If I message first they then can reply etc without being blocked? And they can see my profile?

What about existing single men I'm already chatting with, would they only be able to see me if I sent a message first, or as we have been messaging, it doesn't matter?

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By *mandasteveCouple
3 hours ago

Enfield

I don’t care.

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By *he MinionMan
3 hours ago

Surrey

"Can I just ask for clarification?

So, if I blocked a certain bracket eg single men..

If I message first they then can reply etc without being blocked? And they can see my profile? "

If you have messages with people already it will bypass your filters.

If you blick someone. They cant see your profile. Nobody can, regardless of message history.

At least this is my understanding

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By *ilverfox for youMan
3 hours ago

Hull

I don’t know the ratio as to women . But I probably agree ! Also what do you mean by perv

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By *quirrel!Man
3 hours ago

The Wirrel

I agree OP - ooooh! Look at you - ding dong! 🤣

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By *avyBlueManMan
3 hours ago

St Trinian's Academy

Yes far too many.

Leave now and leave all the lovely ladies for me.

Because of course, I'm not pervy at all.

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By *asualConnectionsMan
3 hours ago

bristol

I mean obviously lol

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By *xposedInTheMaleMan
3 hours ago

Cambridgeshire

"Easy to sort the wheat from the chaff x"

They used to do that by means of a good thrashing. Does that still work?

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By *heekyCharmMan
2 hours ago

Colne

I think there’s a difference between pervy and creepy. I’m pervy sometimes, I love sniffing knickers or catching a glimpse of a woman’s underwear in the wind or spotting some tits in a window.

But I’d never impose that on someone unless they asked me to be pervy.

Pervy women are the most deplorable but I love it haha!!

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By *tlanshiaWoman
2 hours ago

Chatham

Yup.

The ones who harrass for access to friends only pics annoy me. Like if I wanted them public they would be

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By *ocktheboat1234Man
39 minutes ago

Cheddleton

Im a pervy postman

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