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Why is meeting mid week so difficult

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hiya I want to meet mid week only , that rules our about 85% of meets . I'm

A single male but have a girlfriend that won't swing so weekends tied up with her

Am I a leper or weird or do couples and singles meet mid week?

Clubs or otherwise ?

N xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How the check can you be a single male if you have a girlfriend??????

Bet she doesn't know you are on here does she?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How the check can you be a single male if you have a girlfriend??????

Bet she doesn't know you are on here does she?"

*^ heck

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


" I'm A single male but have a girlfriend that won't swing"

Huh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'm A single male but have a girlfriend that won't swing

Huh? "

Single

A girlfriend who won't play and

A bi friend who will???

Greedy...I see fingers being burned, but as a woman was given the go ahead to cheat yesterday...

go you and fill your boots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some Singles, and couples have commitments, work, kids. I'm a shift worker and work evenings, nights. Finding meets mid week are a pain but Hayho. Perhaps mate you should become truely single, or be upfront with girl friend.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I work full time and am up very early, as many are, which rules out weekdays and evenings. I also do zumba a couple of times a week, work permitting though the number of guys who expect me to drop all that because they want to meet RIGHT NOW is untrue.

As if.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work weekends but would happily book a day off to suit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nee naw nee naw, here come the forum police

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people are busy with work and family stuff during the week i guess !

How can you class yourself as single when you have a girlfriend ?

You might find thats what puts people off rather than the mid week thing, plus you dont accomadate.

Does your girlfriend know you are here ?

lol

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I find that most who can't meet weekends are attached so I won't meet them anyway.

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Cant play at weekends because i have my daughter on friday night till sunday night far more important than swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work full time , work unsociable hours so I'm in bed early week nights and I also have a family that come first so meets during the week don't happen unless I'm on holiday x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant play at weekends because i have my daughter on friday night till sunday night far more important than swinging"

At least you have your priorities right to say having your daughter is far more important unlike the OP s comment regarding his girlfriend of 'weekends are tied up with her' making it sound such a hassle that he really can't be bothered with and would rather be anywhere else....

As has been said. We are busy in the week with work and family commitments making weekends play time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work, family and day to day stuff prevent us from meeting during the week, unless we are on annual leave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

work and kids make it hard in the week but sometimes its possible on a Thursday ( day off ) however I think we've played midweek twice in 2 years

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

maybe people just don't want to meet you mid week or otherwise due to the girlfriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Work, family and day to day stuff prevent us from meeting during the week, unless we are on annual leave"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe people just don't want to meet you mid week or otherwise due to the girlfriend "

not many ladies/couples meet cheaters

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Hiya I want to meet mid week only , that rules our about 85% of meets . I'm

A single male but have a girlfriend that won't swing so weekends tied up with her

Am I a leper or weird or do couples and singles meet mid week?

Clubs or otherwise ?

N xxx"

Listening to the news you'd be forgiven for thinking everyone is at home spending their benefits on Gala Bingo, but no, people work, have kids they unfortunately have to pick up from school etc.

Very inconsiderate of them to not facilitate your cheating!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hiya

Thanks for all the replies and taken on board. The BI friend has come off the site sadly so not playing as a pair now, ill update my profile

Also I agree with the GF situation I'm not a full swinger as can't involve her, wish she did swing and was BI but can't have everything in life I guess, I work weekends as we so weekends are a prob to meet so prefer week. Oh well ill see what happens and if nothing well ill be happy with the odd meet quality vs quantity I guess

Thanks again

N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work between the hours of 7am and 10pm so there's no way I could meet in the week, when would I sleep lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I prefer to meet midweek as weekends is for friends and family. I can't meet daytimes though, which is when most attached men prefer to meet.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I manage to meet dueing the weekdays (nights). Maybe because people have better offers during the weekends

I always find Fri n Sat nights terrible for meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I work between the hours of 7am and 10pm so there's no way I could meet in the week, when would I sleep lol"
Sleeps for wimps lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting midweek evenings works just fine for me, so some people do meet midweek. Funnily enough it's for the same sort of reasons many can't meet midweek. Family comes first and that is what weekends are for.....nothing like a good meet after a hard days work

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