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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many men that like big women as well as slim or average would actualy prefer to meet slim or average if they had the choice i wonder.

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Some actually prefer the larger ladies! Imagine that!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Lol - the counter part to the big guy thread.

I really think it is such a personal matter and everybody on here (and in life) will have somebody who fancies them. There is no such thing as a general idea of what people do (or should) be fancying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some actually prefer the larger ladies! Imagine that! "

yes, thank goodness they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had the option of the two for me it would be the larger lady.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer curvy ladies myself

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I prefer curvy ladies myself "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the personality and the interesting conversation!! Rather she had a brain!! Everything else is bonus!!

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford


"I prefer the personality and the interesting conversation!! Rather she had a brain!! Everything else is bonus!!"

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By *atcockleedsMan
over a year ago

leeds

Curves are better in my opinion but slim women are sexy to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body shape more so than body size is important to me, as far as the initial visual attraction goes.

I like ladies to have a defined waist. I don't go for the Dawn French, "round" look.

But having said that, I've enjoyed the company of ladies from a variety of different shapes and sizes and as far as I can recall, my level of enjoyment has not focused on their body size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been at a greedy girls night where all the guys told me how they loved a real woman... That skinny women weren't sexy etc..

Funny how when 30mins In a stunning lady that was about a size 8/10 came to play.. the guys couldn't abandon me quick enough...

So I think that to be fair most say they like big women.. but I'm my experience very few would pick the fat girl if there was a slimmer girl there...

However I am lucky enough to know quite a few that actually don't like slimmer women..

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

This is going to end well....

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I love a woman with curves...something to hold onto...

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I've been at a greedy girls night where all the guys told me how they loved a real woman... That skinny women weren't sexy etc..

Funny how when 30mins In a stunning lady that was about a size 8/10 came to play.. the guys couldn't abandon me quick enough...

So I think that to be fair most say they like big women.. but I'm my experience very few would pick the fat girl if there was a slimmer girl there...

However I am lucky enough to know quite a few that actually don't like slimmer women.. "

Cali you are gorgeous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many men that like big women as well as slim or average would actualy prefer to meet slim or average if they had the choice i wonder. "
...oh hell fire ... ...pmsl xxxx love it. ..

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I love a woman with curves...something to hold onto... "
Too true. Also, do all men like blondes? Hell no. Do all women like men with beards? Hell no.

Vive la difference!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

God, I love these threads! Apparently us slim and petite women should be treated like the pariah!!

God I love diversity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will be honest and admit that I go though phases of a variety of women but have learnt from experience that the bigger lady gives the best blow jobs.... Strange but true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer curvy women, at least a size 14 and up. I just find the curves sexy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I will be honest and admit that I go though phases of a variety of women but have learnt from experience that the bigger lady gives the best blow jobs.... Strange but true "

yes i think it could be because a cock reminds them of food, like german sausage and cum is sort of like tapioca

well, to me it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love girls with a curvy body, tits that u can actually hold, a nice bum, and love handles u can hold onto when your spooning. Id like to pinch at least 2inches of fat on ther tummy. Lol. Thats my kinda girl

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I will be honest and admit that I go though phases of a variety of women but have learnt from experience that the bigger lady gives the best blow jobs.... Strange but true "

Love it! You have to be big to give a decent bj!!! I wonder what body part they leant that with! Oh shit....we all have a mouth!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I will be honest and admit that I go though phases of a variety of women but have learnt from experience that the bigger lady gives the best blow jobs.... Strange but true

yes i think it could be because a cock reminds them of food, like german sausage and cum is sort of like tapioca

well, to me it is."

Oh dear lord...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer the personality and the interesting conversation!! Rather she had a brain!! Everything else is bonus!!"

yes, having a brain always seems to make the sex much beter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will be honest and admit that I go though phases of a variety of women but have learnt from experience that the bigger lady gives the best blow jobs.... Strange but true

Love it! You have to be big to give a decent bj!!! I wonder what body part they leant that with! Oh shit....we all have a mouth!"

No you don't ' have ' to just from my experiences they have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love girls with a curvy body, tits that u can actually hold, a nice bum, and love handles u can hold onto when your spooning. Id like to pinch at least 2inches of fat on ther tummy. Lol. Thats my kinda girl"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"This is going to end well...."

You just know innit?!!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I will be honest and admit that I go though phases of a variety of women but have learnt from experience that the bigger lady gives the best blow jobs.... Strange but true

yes i think it could be because a cock reminds them of food, like german sausage and cum is sort of like tapioca

well, to me it is."

Hilarious

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Men like chubsters men like slim women men like both shapes....I don't complain I have a lot of attention and people aren't afraid to be seen with me...it's down to choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bigger ladies are my preference, just love them, meeting someone with a figure like mine would not be my ideal meet, probably still meet then though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Men like chubsters men like slim women men like both shapes....I don't complain I have a lot of attention and people aren't afraid to be seen with me...it's down to choice "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a strong preference for larger ladies - personality and sexuality seems to align with this, though I've had great times with slender ladies too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally size is not an issue for me but then Im hardly a bean pole so perhaps I would say that. More important is that people "click" but lets

face it we dont all have identical tastes and wouldnt life be boring if we did.

what is important that regardless of percieved atractiveness everyone treats each other with respect

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

size is not really an issue .. ive had wonderful sexy times with bbws and also slimmer ladies. curvy is good though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am going too be totally honest here . I have allways gone for slimmer ladies till i came on this site and my 1st meet was a larger lady and i found it a massive turn on . I must admit . All my life i thought i would never fancy a larger lady but i was wrong . All my meets now have been bigger ladies and i love the curves x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will be honest and admit that I go though phases of a variety of women but have learnt from experience that the bigger lady gives the best blow jobs.... Strange but true

yes i think it could be because a cock reminds them of food, like german sausage and cum is sort of like tapioca

well, to me it is."

Alol

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"Men like chubsters men like slim women men like both shapes....I don't complain I have a lot of attention and people aren't afraid to be seen with me...it's down to choice "

I just like you Cheeky...no reason really...I just like you as a human being!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really depends.

There is a cut of point for me, I don't want to have to fear for my life.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Men like chubsters men like slim women men like both shapes....I don't complain I have a lot of attention and people aren't afraid to be seen with me...it's down to choice

I just like you Cheeky...no reason really...I just like you as a human being! "

Thanks sweet cheeks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love food, and have the body to show for it, and I am comfortable with what I am, a Coke can rather than a Coke bottle.

Whether it is attractive or not is not for me to decide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many men that like big women as well as slim or average would actualy prefer to meet slim or average if they had the choice i wonder. "

in what way would you not have the choice of who you meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

YOU ARE WHAT YOU ARE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny as I don't like sausages at all but always get told I'm good at blow jobs go figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like women of all sizes i love boobs but if i get on with and im attracted to a smaller lady its something i can do without its about chemistry.

Im a fatty im a size 16 sometimes 18 on top and ive never had a problem with attention from men on here or in real life i think the way you carry yourself as a person has a lot to do with attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is everyone obsessed with putting people into specific categories on this site?

Thankfully we all have varied tastes and attractions otherwise this world would be a very dull place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is everyone obsessed with putting people into specific categories on this site?

Thankfully we all have varied tastes and attractions otherwise this world would be a very dull place "

well said, i was slim now im not, i was young now i am not, but am still ME xxxx

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By *fun.4.youMan
over a year ago

London


"How many men that like big women as well as slim or average would actualy prefer to meet slim or average if they had the choice i wonder. "

disgusting

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"How many men that like big women as well as slim or average would actualy prefer to meet slim or average if they had the choice i wonder.

disgusting"

What is disgusting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many men that like big women as well as slim or average would actualy prefer to meet slim or average if they had the choice i wonder.

disgusting"

don't hold back, just say what you think

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

While not put in very good terms there is a sliver of truth running through the original post around the truth that the requirements for a woman to get a "meet" and be inundated on this site are vastly different to that of the men.

Very little we can ever do about it though unless we even up the massive imbalance of male/female numbers on the site... and given that your average man and woman are driven "sexually" quite differently it will never happen.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"How many men that like big women as well as slim or average would actualy prefer to meet slim or average if they had the choice i wonder.

disgusting

don't hold back, just say what you think "

Well! he probably went back to bed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God, I love these threads! Apparently us slim and petite women should be treated like the pariah!!

God I love diversity! "

Amen to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bigger ladies are my preference, just love them, meeting someone with a figure like mine would not be my ideal meet, probably still meet then though "

You need to come down to Chams on a Monday... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God, I love these threads! Apparently us slim and petite women should be treated like the pariah!!

God I love diversity!

Amen to that "

personally I think Susan Boyle should have won

sorry i'll go now lol

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay


"God, I love these threads! Apparently us slim and petite women should be treated like the pariah!!

God I love diversity!

Amen to that

personally I think Susan Boyle should have won

sorry i'll go now lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care what size or shape a lady is, they are all size sexy to me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many men that like big women as well as slim or average would actualy prefer to meet slim or average if they had the choice i wonder.

disgusting

What is disgusting? "

.

Was thinking the same thing. Confused

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Did you know there was a study that showed the more hungry men are the larger the body size they found attractive. To be fair though they didn't suddenly think Fat Pat was more of a turn on than Megan Fox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will be honest and admit that I go though phases of a variety of women but have learnt from experience that the bigger lady gives the best blow jobs.... Strange but true "

Biggest load of bollocks I have read

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By *irty RascalMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

Love girls with curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will be honest and admit that I go though phases of a variety of women but have learnt from experience that the bigger lady gives the best blow jobs.... Strange but true

yes i think it could be because a cock reminds them of food, like german sausage and cum is sort of like tapioca

well, to me it is."

Fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Larger ladies are far more sexier than thin ladies, better in bed and have a gsoh too. Love to all the larger ladies out there xx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"God, I love these threads! Apparently us slim and petite women should be treated like the pariah!!

God I love diversity! "

Some people haven't learnt how to state their preferences without insulting others.

Sad really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think all women are sexy so dosnt matter to me what shape or size thay are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will be honest and admit that I go though phases of a variety of women but have learnt from experience that the bigger lady gives the best blow jobs.... Strange but true

Biggest load of bollocks I have read "

he did say in his experience, maybe all the bigger women he has played with have given better blow jobs than the slimmer ones, but he aint shagged everyone has he? so cant speak for them all just from his own experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many men that like big women as well as slim or average would actualy prefer to meet slim or average if they had the choice i wonder. "

I love bigger women. Size 14 minimum for me, preferably bigger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will be honest and admit that I go though phases of a variety of women but have learnt from experience that the bigger lady gives the best blow jobs.... Strange but true

Biggest load of bollocks I have read

he did say in his experience, maybe all the bigger women he has played with have given better blow jobs than the slimmer ones, but he aint shagged everyone has he? so cant speak for them all just from his own experiences

"

Yes indeed but generalisations as per are normally bollocks I bet you if he was blindfolded and 10 women sucked him of different sizes he would be none the wiser who was who size wise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bollocks not all women are sexy.if that's your preference,fine...but not every one. i like fat but not over 18 with pot-bellied.yuck!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I will be honest and admit that I go though phases of a variety of women but have learnt from experience that the bigger lady gives the best blow jobs.... Strange but true

Love it! You have to be big to give a decent bj!!! I wonder what body part they leant that with! Oh shit....we all have a mouth!"

Be fair, give us our props, we do have more experience of using our mouth!!!

It's an art form sucking jam out of a doughnut! Haven't you heard of transferable skills?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will be honest and admit that I go though phases of a variety of women but have learnt from experience that the bigger lady gives the best blow jobs.... Strange but true

Biggest load of bollocks I have read

he did say in his experience, maybe all the bigger women he has played with have given better blow jobs than the slimmer ones, but he aint shagged everyone has he? so cant speak for them all just from his own experiences

Yes indeed but generalisations as per are normally bollocks I bet you if he was blindfolded and 10 women sucked him of different sizes he would be none the wiser who was who size wise"

In the true faith of diversity, please make that nine women and one man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bollocks not all women are sexy.if that's your preference,fine...but not every one. i like fat but not over 18 with pot-bellied.yuck! "

seriously mate the yulks really uncalled for, you can state your preference without being insultive

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"YOU ARE WHAT YOU ARE "

Indeed, I y'am what I y'am...yam...food again...sigh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"YOU ARE WHAT YOU ARE

Indeed, I y'am what I y'am...yam...food again...sigh... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im over 18 with a potbelly. currently over 16 stone, trying to lose it, but its gone wrong since friday till today as been busy and not had time to sort out proper food.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will be honest and admit that I go though phases of a variety of women but have learnt from experience that the bigger lady gives the best blow jobs.... Strange but true

Biggest load of bollocks I have read

he did say in his experience, maybe all the bigger women he has played with have given better blow jobs than the slimmer ones, but he aint shagged everyone has he? so cant speak for them all just from his own experiences

Yes indeed but generalisations as per are normally bollocks I bet you if he was blindfolded and 10 women sucked him of different sizes he would be none the wiser who was who size wise

In the true faith of diversity, please make that nine women and one man "

I was so tempted to chuck a man in

and say he wouldn't notice the difference lol

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I was married to a size 24/26 lass for 12 years.... I've done my time with BBW :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be up for proving that theory

D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not too fussed I ain't shallow

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Larger ladies are far more sexier than thin ladies, better in bed and have a gsoh too. Love to all the larger ladies out there xx"

Yeah, yeah whatever!

Do you actually believe that bollocks?!!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"bollocks not all women are sexy.if that's your preference,fine...but not every one. i like fat but not over 18 with pot-bellied.yuck! "

Exhibit A: an individual without the required literacy skills to express a preference without being insulting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bollocks not all women are sexy.if that's your preference,fine...but not every one. i like fat but not over 18 with pot-bellied.yuck!

Exhibit A: an individual without the required literacy skills to express a preference without being insulting. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Larger ladies are far more sexier than thin ladies, better in bed and have a gsoh too. Love to all the larger ladies out there xx

Yeah, yeah whatever!

Do you actually believe that bollocks?!! "

I really think people do

I remember when I lost all my weight, I went from a size 24 to a size 10/12 (yes ive put some back on before anyone points out im not that size on my pics lol) anyway I was out one night and I saw a woman I knew and hadn't seen her since id lost weight and she was talking to me about how I lost it etc them she said.....are you the same person tho as I find big women seem to loose their personality when they loose weight

all fat womem are jolly and it stands to reason we give better bj's we're more used to having stuff in our gob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was married to a size 24/26 lass for 12 years.... I've done my time with BBW :p"

don't forget your parole, any BBW shagging within the next 2 years and your back with the wife

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Larger ladies are far more sexier than thin ladies, better in bed and have a gsoh too. Love to all the larger ladies out there xx

Yeah, yeah whatever!

Do you actually believe that bollocks?!!

I really think people do

I remember when I lost all my weight, I went from a size 24 to a size 10/12 (yes ive put some back on before anyone points out im not that size on my pics lol) anyway I was out one night and I saw a woman I knew and hadn't seen her since id lost weight and she was talking to me about how I lost it etc them she said.....are you the same person tho as I find big women seem to loose their personality when they loose weight

all fat womem are jolly and it stands to reason we give better bj's we're more used to having stuff in our gob "

Think that's why I confuse people: not one person on God's green earth would ever describe me as jolly. Grown men look nervous when I smile: can't think why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think size is irrelevant. My mind controls how sexy I am. x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

confident, sexy women do it for me; size and shape is not that important

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By *ondonpride69Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

I think I'll stick to being slim despite it meaning not being sexy, shit at blow jobs and no sense of humour.

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over a year ago


"How many men that like big women as well as slim or average would actualy prefer to meet slim or average if they had the choice i wonder. "

I truly don't think that there is any man stupid enough to admit on here that he meets bigger ladies but would really prefer slimmer. The play safe response is 'all women are beautiful regardless of size'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Larger ladies are far more sexier than thin ladies, better in bed and have a gsoh too. Love to all the larger ladies out there xx"

What a load of rubbish!

Anyone can be sexy and good in bed and have a GSOH no matter what size they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Huh?

Just cos I wobble as I walk doesn't mean I'm any better or worse at any sexual pokery than anyone else is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Larger ladies are far more sexier than thin ladies, better in bed and have a gsoh too. Love to all the larger ladies out there xx

What a load of rubbish!

Anyone can be sexy and good in bed and have a GSOH no matter what size they are "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last night at a club my wife who is curvy and her friend also curvy were playing with myself and three other guys .

After a while a slim girl and her hubby started playing close to us and one of the guys left us to play with her .

So is the answer one in four ?

Or 25%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many men that like big women as well as slim or average would actualy prefer to meet slim or average if they had the choice i wonder. "

You may get there fasters on a motorway, but a curvy B road is far more fun

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"I think I'll stick to being slim despite it meaning not being sexy, shit at blow jobs and no sense of humour. "

Don't worry. People say all manner of dumb things in the hopes of getting a chance at a shag.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I think I'll stick to being slim despite it meaning not being sexy, shit at blow jobs and no sense of humour.

Don't worry. People say all manner of dumb things in the hopes of getting a chance at a shag."

What?!! You mean I'm not a sexier ever so slightly older version of Beyonce?!!

*Sobs*

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By *ecor atorMan
over a year ago

York

It,

Yoo callin wor lass a fat cunt leek? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, larger ladies do nothing for me, I like slim but not skinny, size 10/12 for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

my hubby prefers slim women, he likes dawn french though, always has.

i prefer taller men with a good head of hair, he is little and bald, as my friend described him anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'll stick to being slim despite it meaning not being sexy, shit at blow jobs and no sense of humour. "

Us chubbsters have to have the oral skills and personality or we'd never get a shag, you gorgeous slim women just don't need to try as hard as us

I think there are fans of all shapes and sizes, some like slim, some like curves, some like supersize. Each to their own, but all the sweeping generalisations about fat girls been this and slim girls been that are very tedious.

I'm sure there are slim girls out there that are mind blowingly good at bjs and fat girls out there with really crap personalities.

Every one is special in their own right and these constant comparison threads are just boring now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last night at a club my wife who is curvy and her friend also curvy were playing with myself and three other guys .

After a while a slim girl and her hubby started playing close to us and one of the guys left us to play with her .

So is the answer one in four ?

Or 25%

"

no the answer is he went to the other couple because he only had to share her with one other fella not four

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality is key before size

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By *SwitchMan
over a year ago

Derby

There are some people who are vain and who judge purely on looks alone. Of course everyone has their own preferences, but in my experience, if there's a personal connection then body size is pretty much irrelevant

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

I'm happy to be a stand in whilst our slimmer sisters are busy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wonder, if people (mainly men) are honest one these kind of forums or whether they type what they think women want to hear?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I think I'll stick to being slim despite it meaning not being sexy, shit at blow jobs and no sense of humour.

Us chubbsters have to have the oral skills and personality or we'd never get a shag, you gorgeous slim women just don't need to try as hard as us

I think there are fans of all shapes and sizes, some like slim, some like curves, some like supersize. Each to their own, but all the sweeping generalisations about fat girls been this and slim girls been that are very tedious.

I'm sure there are slim girls out there that are mind blowingly good at bjs and fat girls out there with really crap personalities.

Every one is special in their own right and these constant comparison threads are just boring now."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Last night at a club my wife who is curvy and her friend also curvy were playing with myself and three other guys .

After a while a slim girl and her hubby started playing close to us and one of the guys left us to play with her .

So is the answer one in four ?

Or 25%

no the answer is he went to the other couple because he only had to share her with one other fella not four"

That was my thinking too actually!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I always wonder, if people (mainly men) are honest one these kind of forums or whether they type what they think women want to hear?"

They type what the women want to hear so earn brownie points brown nosing. Personally I find that kind of man off putting.

We will not appeal to everyone or fancy all and sundry. It's possible to have a preference without insulting those you're not attracted to.

I like intelligent men: a man without the basic literacy skills to express his penchant for larger ladies without offending slim women would not be for me.

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By *SwitchMan
over a year ago

Derby


"I always wonder, if people (mainly men) are honest one these kind of forums or whether they type what they think women want to hear?

They type what the women want to hear so earn brownie points brown nosing. Personally I find that kind of man off putting.

We will not appeal to everyone or fancy all and sundry. It's possible to have a preference without insulting those you're not attracted to.

I like intelligent men: a man without the basic literacy skills to express his penchant for larger ladies without offending slim women would not be for me."

Both fair points, but I honestly don't have a preference when it comes to size! Though nor will I just meet anyone either. There has to be a 'spark', though I do tend to play with women who are older than me.

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By *aisy2012Couple
over a year ago

everywhere

Women should be curvy & women-shaped

Don't really care if they are bbw & curvy or petite & curvy long as they have some shape.

If it's of interest, Sexy & I went to the Empire a while back There was already a perfectly presentable (& obviously perfectly adventurous) woman there entertaining the guys. Sexy isn't a small lady by any means & when we walked in the guys dropped the other woman like a hot rock & I nearly got killed in the rush. Would seem that curvy wins hands down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Huh?

Just cos I wobble as I walk doesn't mean I'm any better or worse at any sexual pokery than anyone else is "

This!

I do not appeal to everyone, just as my size 8 friend doesn't. It doesn't make either of us any less sexy or attractive either. These type of threads are inflammatory and always end up with someone (slim, fat, thin, chubby or anything in between) feeling shit about themselves and quite honestly there's enough things in the world to do that.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Do you know what I wonder....qu wonder why a forum regular would choose to start a very contentious thread that she knows will descend into bitching and name calling and bans. Things really that boring in your neck of the woods??? Or are you Just trip trapping around in some new heels?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple we are very different. I (Andy) love curvier ladies with a bit of padding, slim doesn't do it for me. Becky loves skinny ladies with pert boobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you know what I wonder....qu wonder why a forum regular would choose to start a very contentious thread that she knows will descend into bitching and name calling and bans. Things really that boring in your neck of the woods??? Or are you Just trip trapping around in some new heels? "

thank you for brightening up a very dull day for me lol x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Do you know what I wonder....qu wonder why a forum regular would choose to start a very contentious thread that she knows will descend into bitching and name calling and bans. Things really that boring in your neck of the woods??? Or are you Just trip trapping around in some new heels? "

I think it got started at an opposite to the chubby blokes thread that was running at the same time. But yeah it was inevitable what was going to happen really wasn't it??

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Do you know what I wonder....qu wonder why a forum regular would choose to start a very contentious thread that she knows will descend into bitching and name calling and bans. Things really that boring in your neck of the woods??? Or are you Just trip trapping around in some new heels?

thank you for brightening up a very dull day for me lol x"

Happy to help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many men that like big women as well as slim or average would actualy prefer to meet slim or average if they had the choice i wonder. "

Not many, I think it may be a case of get what they can, you don't getany women on here looking for lard arsed men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most guys onhere are looking for a shag regardless of what the fem looks like

you dont need to be a member very long to see that.

the guys know what they`re doing and the girls get all the male attention that has to be nice for them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you know what I wonder....qu wonder why a forum regular would choose to start a very contentious thread that she knows will descend into bitching and name calling and bans. Things really that boring in your neck of the woods??? Or are you Just trip trapping around in some new heels? "

Oh dear, silly old me for forgeting how sensitive some people can be.

i started this thread because a man was asking if women liked fat chubby men and as usual you get some men saying fat women shouldnt prefer men who arent fat themselves. nobody has to bitch and name call do they?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

[Removed by poster at 24/06/13 13:46:25]

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

They don't have to but you have contributed to enough threads to a) know the answer to your question and b) know that these threads never end well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They don't have to but you have contributed to enough threads to a) know the answer to your question and b) know that these threads never end well. "

maybe they shouldnt take it quite so seriously?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"They don't have to but you have contributed to enough threads to a) know the answer to your question and b) know that these threads never end well.

maybe they shouldnt take it quite so seriously?"

Maybe

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Do you know what I wonder....qu wonder why a forum regular would choose to start a very contentious thread that she knows will descend into bitching and name calling and bans. Things really that boring in your neck of the woods??? Or are you Just trip trapping around in some new heels? "

I love you (cough) in a non sexual big (tee hee) sisterly way!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Do you know what I wonder....qu wonder why a forum regular would choose to start a very contentious thread that she knows will descend into bitching and name calling and bans. Things really that boring in your neck of the woods??? Or are you Just trip trapping around in some new heels?

I love you (cough) in a non sexual big (tee hee) sisterly way! "

Oooohhhhh!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To look at the thinner lady every time ,,,, to play with size 16 to 22 gets my vote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To look at the thinner lady every time ,,,, to play with size 16 to 22 gets my vote "

lol so do you not look when you play with a 16 - 22?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"To look at the thinner lady every time ,,,, to play with size 16 to 22 gets my vote

lol so do you not look when you play with a 16 - 22? "

Difficult to see in an eclipse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To look at the thinner lady every time ,,,, to play with size 16 to 22 gets my vote

lol so do you not look when you play with a 16 - 22?

Difficult to see in an eclipse! "

Or if blindfolded!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To look at the thinner lady every time ,,,, to play with size 16 to 22 gets my vote

lol so do you not look when you play with a 16 - 22? "

eyes closed in play mode ...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"To look at the thinner lady every time ,,,, to play with size 16 to 22 gets my vote

lol so do you not look when you play with a 16 - 22?

Difficult to see in an eclipse!

Or if blindfolded! "

He doesn't need it, he closes his eyes...will check playmates eyes are open in future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To look at the thinner lady every time ,,,, to play with size 16 to 22 gets my vote

lol so do you not look when you play with a 16 - 22?

Difficult to see in an eclipse!

Or if blindfolded!

He doesn't need it, he closes his eyes...will check playmates eyes are open in future. "

Cocktail sticks to the eyes... or am I in a particularly sadistic mood!!??

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By *ondonpride69Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Mr Here.

For me size use to matter, but i think as i have got older I have changed my perception on women. For me now, size does not matter, its all about how someone makes me feel, yes there has to be an attraction but it's not down to size for me anymore. It's about the whole package and if she can make me smile in a non sexual way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always gone for older ladies and bbw's...never really gone for anything less than a size 12...if i was lucky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To look at the thinner lady every time ,,,, to play with size 16 to 22 gets my vote

lol so do you not look when you play with a 16 - 22? "

I get the good sense of humour and better blow job out votes good looks

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I just love women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a big lady and i dont have many meets so maybe guys do like the slimmer ladies. lol

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By *ondonpride69Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"I think I'll stick to being slim despite it meaning not being sexy, shit at blow jobs and no sense of humour.

Us chubbsters have to have the oral skills and personality or we'd never get a shag, you gorgeous slim women just don't need to try as hard as us

I think there are fans of all shapes and sizes, some like slim, some like curves, some like supersize. Each to their own, but all the sweeping generalisations about fat girls been this and slim girls been that are very tedious.

I'm sure there are slim girls out there that are mind blowingly good at bjs and fat girls out there with really crap personalities.

Every one is special in their own right and these constant comparison threads are just boring now."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"these constant comparison threads are just boring now"

amen to that

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Fuck me this thread still going...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Fuck me this thread still going... "

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By *lassic1Man
over a year ago

bellshill


"im a big lady and i dont have many meets so maybe guys do like the slimmer ladies. lol"

To close the thread maybe....I have taken slim and not so sl;im ladies to orgasm.......its awesome feeling the vibes of the "not so slim" the stick insect type just dont exude the same sensation ...in my opinion

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

not another bbw thread .. im not going to post on it again .... oh bollox i have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im a big lady and i dont have many meets so maybe guys do like the slimmer ladies. lol

To close the thread maybe....I have taken slim and not so sl;im ladies to orgasm.......its awesome feeling the vibes of the "not so slim" the stick insect type just dont exude the same sensation ...in my opinion "

You are so right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I was a slim girl only chap. My wife is slim. I helped out a shorter and curvier female friend move some boxes the other day and she was bending over sweeping up the remaining dust with a dust pan and brush and I was stood behind 'observing' her rather nice curvy bottom. I guess I am getting less fussy and getting to like the feminine form in different sizes and shapes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to there own but i had an experience recently where the meet described herself as curvy and looked almost petite in pics but was in fact fat ...i bailed after the lod todge wouldnt function ..i was apologetic and she was mortified ...but she should have adhered to the trade descriptions act

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By *1ckeyMan
over a year ago

Camberley

it's not a particularly nice title for the post!

Given the choice - I'd rather meet someone who's pleasant and doesn't judge others!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it's not a particularly nice title for the post!

Given the choice - I'd rather meet someone who's pleasant and doesn't judge others!

"

I like you!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis


"I just love women "

Can I just say this again....I just love women

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i just love women too

all sizes and shapes

ok size police ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"it's not a particularly nice title for the post!

Given the choice - I'd rather meet someone who's pleasant and doesn't judge others!

"

i was copying the other one about fat chubby men, dont think anyone complained about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to there own but i had an experience recently where the meet described herself as curvy and looked almost petite in pics but was in fact fat ...i bailed after the lod todge wouldnt function ..i was apologetic and she was mortified ...but she should have adhered to the trade descriptions act "

I don't understand why you would go onto play with someone who lied to you to get a meet

I don't like hurting peoples feelings but if they send me false pics they don't deserve people treading on eggs shells round them

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I prefer the personality and the interesting conversation!! Rather she had a brain!! Everything else is bonus!!"

Me too, bit of a nerd fan (if that's poss as I'm a nerd too) come over as super intelligent n I'm drooling!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to there own but i had an experience recently where the meet described herself as curvy and looked almost petite in pics but was in fact fat ...i bailed after the lod todge wouldnt function ..i was apologetic and she was mortified ...but she should have adhered to the trade descriptions act "

erm.....then how and why did you end up in that situation? If I met someone and they didn't look like their pics I'd end the meet! I certainly wouldn't hang about to find out that his 'todge wouldn't function' I'm not surprised the poor woman was mortified.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

What's wrong with being shallow?

If we are here to explore our fantasies then why shouldn't we be able to seek out our fantasy partner? For some people that is someone of a particular race, for others it's build or hair colour or age or boob or cock size.

I also think some guys have been embarrassed to admit to friends that they find chubby more arousing than slender - society tells women in all kinds of ways that size 6-10 is the ideal so perhaps it also tells men that that's what they should be attracted to.

I have no problem if a guy told me I was too big for his preference, my preference is for muscly men!

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By *hong loverMan
over a year ago

stoke-on-trent

the larger lady is more outgoing and fun than the size 8 look at me I'm stunning girls yes its each to there own but like Robbie said big girls you are beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a preference for big curvy girls, well thats obvious when you look at my wife. But I appreciate some are very put off by her. We are lucky in that most of the men we have met have been gentlemen, but thats the beauty of this site, it does cater for all, after all wouldn't be boring if we were all the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will be honest and admit that I go though phases of a variety of women but have learnt from experience that the bigger lady gives the best blow jobs.... Strange but true "

Oh how cliche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im about a size 14/16 and have been so since i was a teenager. I've had more than enough male attention and i dont really worry about if im someone's type really. If they're attracted great if not no hard feelings. We all have preferences and i dont hold it against those men who dont find me attractive just like i wouldn't expect them to hold that against me. I find that being comfortable and confidant with what you have is what really attracts men and women for that matter.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"im a big lady and i dont have many meets so maybe guys do like the slimmer ladies. lol

To close the thread maybe....I have taken slim and not so sl;im ladies to orgasm.......its awesome feeling the vibes of the "not so slim" the stick insect type just dont exude the same sensation ...in my opinion "

Sigh..."stick insect type" really?!!

The respect for "not so slim" women doesn't stretch to the slim women then?

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"the larger lady is more outgoing and fun than the size 8 look at me I'm stunning girls yes its each to there own but like Robbie said big girls you are beautiful "

I don't even know where to start with this one....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the larger lady is more outgoing and fun than the size 8 look at me I'm stunning girls yes its each to there own but like Robbie said big girls you are beautiful

I don't even know where to start with this one.... "

I'm disappointed, being a size 6 not even a mention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not size-ist, but I do love the curvier woman, love a good cuddle x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvaceous is good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not size-ist, but I do love the curvier woman, love a good cuddle x"

All women have curves, it's called boobs..bum and hips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God I love bigger women

But there seems to be a lack of them in my area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God I love bigger women

But there seems to be a lack of them in my area

"

How about sheep?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

Very good

Still its very hard to find a bbw woman in my area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many men that like big women as well as slim or average would actualy prefer to meet slim or average if they had the choice i wonder. "

If they had the choice??

Don't we all choose who we meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not size-ist, but I do love the curvier woman, love a good cuddle x

All women have curves, it's called boobs..bum and hips "

OK just a female cuddle then please. Lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"the larger lady is more outgoing and fun than the size 8 look at me I'm stunning girls yes its each to there own but like Robbie said big girls you are beautiful "

What a crock!

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By *oecurler69Man
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

They all need some loving as all us guys do.......So its all about having fun....Size is not everything right?

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By *iftygreyshadesMan
over a year ago

Aberaeron

Most important is personality - size isn't the number one consideration ever.

Not for me anyway

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