FabSwingers.com forum: People being funny about face pics red flag?

By *eautyandthebeast86 OP Couple
1 week ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

So we don’t have ours on our profile and we understand why others don’t too. What we don’t understand is people that expect a meet with out swapping pics privately first ? One person said well isn’t it more about body and performance, well no, yes we like a nice body but if we think you look like a bulldog chewing on a wasp or we don’t find you attractive we won’t want to touch you with a barge pole. Yes personality is very very important as is chemistry but if we would have swiped left on other dating sites we certainly not going to want to get down and dirty with you. Why is this such a wierd concept? This isn’t blind date ?

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By *aomilatteCouple
1 week ago

Midlands

It's likely they're not aesthetically pleasing!

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By *utterypopcornCouple
1 week ago

oxford

People run their profiles as they see fit. If that doesn’t work for someone else then that makes the decision easier.

Takes all sorts in this world

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By *andybitches1Couple
1 week ago

Aberdeenshire

Same here,wouldn't think of meeting unless face pics have been swapped.

Not that we are looks orientated but it is handy to make sure we are not talking to folk we know.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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1 week ago

East Sussex

Several people have met us without seeing our faces. I think a couple of them are still running, screaming for the hills.

If it's important to you to see a face picture (it is to us) and someone won't provide one then I think it's game over before it's begun

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By *WB85Man
1 week ago

Staffordshire

Chatting initially when someone won't share face pics.....I'm willing to accept, as long as they don't ask me for pictures.

But those accounts that suggest meeting without sharing pictures....its never going to happen.

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By *artorialMan
1 week ago

weymouth

"So we don’t have ours on our profile and we understand why others don’t too. What we don’t understand is people that expect a meet with out swapping pics privately first ? One person said well isn’t it more about body and performance, well no, yes we like a nice body but if we think you look like a bulldog chewing on a wasp or we don’t find you attractive we won’t want to touch you with a barge pole. Yes personality is very very important as is chemistry but if we would have swiped left on other dating sites we certainly not going to want to get down and dirty with you. Why is this such a wierd concept? This isn’t blind date ?"

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By *tarlightvoyager21Man
1 week ago

London (Shadwell)

I think they should make it mandatory to upload face pic

And if they wink at you their like a one time view pic of them

Atleast for me, I'm sick and tired of people asking face pic and them just ignoring me asking to see them like it's a blind date 🤷

And most couple accounts turns out to be just a guy for some odd reason

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By *issmorganWoman
1 week ago

Calderdale innit

It always makes me laugh when someone asks me to meet, without seeing my face or sending theirs.

I've had men ask me to pick them up as a first message or offering to do xyz, when we've never exchanged a hello.

When I was single, years ago, a man even told me I could see his face when I met him. Er no, not happening love.

There needs to be attraction or it's just a waste of time. I doubt many people would agree to meet someone with no idea what they look like.

After all, a nice body doesn't automatically mean an attractive face.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman
1 week ago

Carlisle usually

Some people don't care about face pics and that's their prerogative. Doesn't mean they get to define other people's standards or boundaries 💜

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By *tarlightvoyager21Man
1 week ago

London (Shadwell)

"It always makes me laugh when someone asks me to meet, without seeing my face or sending theirs.

I've had men ask me to pick them up as a first message or offering to do xyz, when we've never exchanged a hello.

When I was single, years ago, a man even told me I could see his face when I met him. Er no, not happening love.

There needs to be attraction or it's just a waste of time. I doubt many people would agree to meet someone with no idea what they look like.

After all, a nice body doesn't automatically mean an attractive face. "

Pretty face doesn't mean they have nice body either 🤷

It's all about attraction

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