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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

anyone had a night like me lol met a guy in a pub only for him to tell me he was a recovering alkie only just got his driving licence back that week his daughter bats for the other side and he smokes 40 plus a day ....turn on or turn off??????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"anyone had a night like me lol met a guy in a pub only for him to tell me he was a recovering alkie only just got his driving licence back that week his daughter bats for the other side and he smokes 40 plus a day ....turn on or turn off?????????? "

you have just entered the world of Shameless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"anyone had a night like me lol met a guy in a pub only for him to tell me he was a recovering alkie only just got his driving licence back that week his daughter bats for the other side and he smokes 40 plus a day ....turn on or turn off?????????? "

Is the guy on here? I do hope not!

Recovering alcoholic is better than an alcoholic and really don't understand what his daughters sexuality has to do with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say ....how brave for him to tell you. Even though he may not have been a match for you...takes some courage to be honest about your past with a stranger.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"anyone had a night like me lol met a guy in a pub only for him to tell me he was a recovering alkie only just got his driving licence back that week his daughter bats for the other side and he smokes 40 plus a day ....turn on or turn off?????????? "

I can't believe you made a recovering alcoholic meet in a pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, that was quite an ice breaker wasn't it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I say ....how brave for him to tell you. Even though he may not have been a match for you...takes some courage to be honest about your past with a stranger. "

This. None of that would put me off if I liked him and he was nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he wasn't good looking, 'dI run for the hills!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has happened to me with a first time meet, him telling me all sorts of personal problems, I am a nice caring sort but surely for a first meet this is not appropriate isn't that what friends are for not meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did you buy him a drink

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By *aula.ceciliaWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

LOL,, it already says on my profile that I am not a sex therapist,, maybe I should add to the list!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well cheers Carrie Anne

Now the whole of fab knows my business

I won't be getting many meets now

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"LOL,, it already says on my profile that I am not a sex therapist,, maybe I should add to the list!"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Maybe he misunderstood when you said "is your daughter near by?"

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire


"This has happened to me with a first time meet, him telling me all sorts of personal problems, I am a nice caring sort but surely for a first meet this is not appropriate isn't that what friends are for not meets. "

Lol why do people do this! The nature of site Fab is is that we're here for a good time and some fun, unburdoning your life's problems on a first meet on an unsuspecting person probably who had some sexy thoughts prior to the meet is just going to kill the mood!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"anyone had a night like me lol met a guy in a pub only for him to tell me he was a recovering alkie only just got his driving licence back that week his daughter bats for the other side and he smokes 40 plus a day ....turn on or turn off?????????? "

But did he have a nice cock?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

If he told you this, then you've got to wonder what he decided was best kept secret lol

Good luck to him, anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What has his daughter's sexuality got to do with him being a good or bad meet?

If he is a reformed alcoholic, it showed he had done something about getting himself out of the rut, which is a positive in my book.

I don't like to meet smokers, therefore, I would have declined him on his 40 a day habit alone.

However, I would have found that out BEFORE I would agree to meet him, even if it is just for a social meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"anyone had a night like me lol met a guy in a pub only for him to tell me he was a recovering alkie only just got his driving licence back that week his daughter bats for the other side and he smokes 40 plus a day ....turn on or turn off?????????? "

To b fair to the OP he obvs didnt tell her before the meet that he was a recovering alcoholic. And maybe he said he didnt smoke. That wld turn me off and id hv made my excuses and left lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometime you just need to offload problems to strangers to get off your chest as long he was not rude or aggressive it would not bother me.

Being a recovering alkie takes some doing in first place so he must have something in his favour. Fact he had licence taken off him in for i assume drink driving worries me ad i firmly believe drink driving should mean life ban as they could kill someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"anyone had a night like me lol met a guy in a pub only for him to tell me he was a recovering alkie only just got his driving licence back that week his daughter bats for the other side and he smokes 40 plus a day ....turn on or turn off??????????

you have just entered the world of Shameless "

that sounds awful

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm here for uncomplicated hedonistic fun with sane people.

If potential playmates see me as Dr Phil, AA, or a support worker from the LGBT Network then it's a no from me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He sounds nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What has his daughter's sexuality got to do with him being a good or bad meet?

If he is a reformed alcoholic, it showed he had done something about getting himself out of the rut, which is a positive in my book.

I don't like to meet smokers, therefore, I would have declined him on his 40 a day habit alone.

However, I would have found that out BEFORE I would agree to meet him, even if it is just for a social meet!

"
how about he fecking lies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"anyone had a night like me lol met a guy in a pub only for him to tell me he was a recovering alkie only just got his driving licence back that week his daughter bats for the other side and he smokes 40 plus a day ....turn on or turn off??????????

To b fair to the OP he obvs didnt tell her before the meet that he was a recovering alcoholic. And maybe he said he didnt smoke. That wld turn me off and id hv made my excuses and left lol "
you hit the nail right on the head

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"He sounds nice"

Come on here on a Thursday to meet a guy with a nice avatar called funky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"anyone had a night like me lol met a guy in a pub only for him to tell me he was a recovering alkie only just got his driving licence back that week his daughter bats for the other side and he smokes 40 plus a day ....turn on or turn off?????????? "

personally id respect him for the fact he was a recovering alcoholic, anyone can hit hard times but it takes a real man, or woman, to realise they have a problem and work on getting better

his daughter bats for the other side? seriously so what?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ermmm this was a first meet did i really wanna know all that .....NOPE....as for his daughter i dont care what she does i was just repeating what he said ....i wish people would read messages before jumping the gun .....i asked if youd find it a turn or or not to sit n listen to the downfalls of a complete stranger rather than sexy small talk and sneeky flashes of body parts

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By *ovebigwomenMan
over a year ago

ballymena

id have made my excuses and left sharpish. What a loser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ermmm this was a first meet did i really wanna know all that .....NOPE....as for his daughter i dont care what she does i was just repeating what he said ....i wish people would read messages before jumping the gun .....i asked if youd find it a turn or or not to sit n listen to the downfalls of a complete stranger rather than sexy small talk and sneeky flashes of body parts "

In all fairness it would depend on the context of the whole conversation. But being a recovering alcoholic in its self would not be a turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone too in a pub who is also a former alcoholic, 2 years later we are still friends

As to the daughter, that has no bearing on whether you want to meet him again or not unless you are homophobic.

And if he is on here, I hope he doesn't see this post

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