FabSwingers.com forum: Unsolicited Peer Reviews

By *rectic OP Woman
2 days ago

taunton

Any other single women on here periodically ( by periodically, I mean daily) get unsolicited profile advice from men ( they’re always older and their profile photo is already their arse supported by a close up of just their bellend) who were never remotely in the running?

They’re not messaging to meet or charm you into anything. They’ve simply taken it upon themselves to let you know that your profile is too picky, too opinionated, too full of itself, or otherwise insufficiently grateful for the existence of men whose own bio is usually just easy going, no drama man or just simply man seeking females ( thank you Martin)

Apparently mine is too full of itself. I’ll take that tbf but it’s always useful feedback from someone whose verifications look like they’ve thrown a paternity test across the stage at Wayne ( sorry Waynes)

I’m mostly asking because I’d love to know if this is a shared female experience on here, or whether I’ve just cornered the market in men who think I’d be more attractive if I lowered my standards and had less personality is somehow irresistible chat.

Karen moment over!

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By *iver78Man
2 days ago

barton upon humber

Never lower your standards , and no your profile isent harsh , it is to the point

Mines crap and im told that on a regular basis off random women iv never even contacted !!

People are weird and on here they are even weirder

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By *essTTWoman
2 days ago

Birmingham

Yeah and almost all of the time they are unverified as well 😂

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By *ustus5555Woman
2 days ago

Nottingham

I get it from ALL angles.

Just carry on being you. I do. Xx

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By *rectic OP Woman
2 days ago

taunton

I’ve no intention of changing 🤣 but I’m just checking it’s not just me enraging some of the menfolk.

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By *rectic OP Woman
2 days ago

taunton

"Never lower your standards , and no your profile isent harsh , it is to the point

Mines crap and im told that on a regular basis off random women iv never even contacted !!

People are weird and on here they are even weirder "
it’s an odd thing to do. I’m guessing the ones that contact me all have something I’ve listed as a dealbreaker if the arse photos haven’t ruled them out already

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 days ago

Herts/Leeds

Have you considered just telling them to fuck off?

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By *ookieMonsterMan
2 days ago

B’stoke

Each one to their own. It’s a thing these days called rage bait.

Like for e.g. if someone would have said your profile lacks any personality. Hoping you react in some way and that reaction whether it’s a block , abuse or giving in is their little bell sized attention seeking satisfaction.

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By *rectic OP Woman
2 days ago

taunton

"Have you considered just telling them to fuck off? "
i figure doing that just feeds it. I go for a big fat ignore usually. Occasionally I’ll respond and ask them if it made them feel better but they’ll usually tell me they were right and block me 🤣 although I’m not sure enough people do block me.

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By *parkle1974Woman
2 days ago

Leeds

I got one saying I should kill myself....

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By *iredhand2Man
2 days ago

Sale

"I got one saying I should kill myself...."

Hope you reported them

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By *issmorganWoman
2 days ago

Calderdale innit

Yes, I've had them before.

I've from a block taking offense that I don't talk to shadows, calling me thick as I have no pics myself. I must have imagined all the ones on my bio

I also had one from a man with just 2 dick pics saying he didn't like my vile underwear or want to see it.

I presume because my profile said I wasn't into profiles with just cock shots.

Some love to belittle others. There's loads of stuff I dislike here, I don't feel the need to message them all and say so though.

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By *issmorganWoman
2 days ago

Calderdale innit

"I got one saying I should kill myself...."
. Wow, that's disgusting sparkle.

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By *parkle1974Woman
2 days ago

Leeds

"I got one saying I should kill myself....

Hope you reported them "

Yes though didn't do much good

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By *issmorganWoman
2 days ago

Calderdale innit

The worst thing is, they most likely block you, so you can't even bollock them.

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By *parkle1974Woman
2 days ago

Leeds

"I got one saying I should kill myself..... Wow, that's disgusting sparkle. "

Had zero interaction with him....the joys of fab!

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
2 days ago

Herts/Leeds

"I got one saying I should kill myself....

Hope you reported them

Yes though didn't do much good"

Do you think nothing was done?

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By *ongandthick888Man
2 days ago

It’s called negging

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By *inkPomPomWoman
2 days ago

Isle of Man

I get a bit of it

I had a message the other day from some dude unprovoked saying I had however many verifications and no one stayed?

Like they were meant to or something? 😂😂 Most are cam chatting veris anyway

Such a div

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By *ichaelsmyMan
2 days ago

douglas

your profile says what you are looking and what you are not looking forward.

nothing wrong with that at all

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By *parkle1974Woman
2 days ago

Leeds

"I got one saying I should kill myself....

Hope you reported them

Yes though didn't do much good

Do you think nothing was done? "

No idea because they never give you feedback

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By *igBeardyDanMan
2 days ago

Bilston

Nothing wrong with your profile its funny, witty and explains exactly what you are looking for

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By *eroLondonMan
1 day ago

Mayfair

My favourite part of your profile, OP, is where you gleefully mention your penchant for Åfternoon Teå, that remark surreptitiously sequestered into the far flung corner of your profile narrative. It's like an easter

egg waiting to be unearthed and savoured.

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By * Bourne1Man
1 day ago

Southbourne

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By *naswingdressWoman
1 day ago

Manchester (she/her)

"It’s called negging "

Quite.

I think the perfect answer is

* Apologise

* Promise to amend your ways

* Tell them how grateful you are

* Say you want to meet them to show your gratitude

* Block them

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By * Bourne1Man
1 day ago

Southbourne

"I got one saying I should kill myself..... Wow, that's disgusting sparkle.

Had zero interaction with him....the joys of fab!"

That is a disgusting thing to say you or to anyone, what is wrong with some people nowadays!.

There should be a wrongun section or thread so all these motherfudgers can be outed

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By *parkle1974Woman
1 day ago

Leeds

"I got one saying I should kill myself..... Wow, that's disgusting sparkle.

Had zero interaction with him....the joys of fab!

That is a disgusting thing to say you or to anyone, what is wrong with some people nowadays!.

There should be a wrongun section or thread so all these motherfudgers can be outed "

Some people are just sad and pathetic....not worth the time of day.

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By *ric_twingeMan
1 day ago

Portrush

"I get it from ALL angles.

Just carry on being you. I do. Xx "

I volunteer to give it to you from all angles 😉

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By *iver78Man
15 hours ago

barton upon humber

Let's be honest, as we always should be , people are c#$ts to people because they are jealous,( on here its because they no they have no chance with you , or think they don't, the get jelouse because they see you must be chatting to people etc , in the real world people are the same , they get leary with people who have money or better looking parter ,or a nice house or car people just can't be nice

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By *iss DevilWoman
15 hours ago

Bedford

Very, very rarely (luckily). Maybe because I haven't got "looking for men" box ticked, or I just have been lucky. Have zero intentions of changing anything myself.

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By *tmostakiss1Man
15 hours ago

Well written profile OP, how they should be!

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By *DirtyGentMan
15 hours ago

Barnsley

I've been told the same about being too picky, by a guy, because I dont want to meet other men 1🤣

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By *erdyguy45Man
15 hours ago

Solihull/milton keynes & other

"Any other single women on here periodically ( by periodically, I mean daily) get unsolicited profile advice from men ( they’re always older and their profile photo is already their arse supported by a close up of just their bellend) who were never remotely in the running?

Karen moment over!"

I spoke with a guy quite a while ago who told me he does this to elicit a response and start a conversation.

Think he was using it like 'negging' and hoping it would make the person want to prove something to him.

Suffice to say I quickly walked away to talk to someone else.

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By *acAndCheeseCouple
15 hours ago

Shildon

And they always block before you can have your say back, pussies

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By *rectic OP Woman
6 hours ago

taunton

"And they always block before you can have your say back, pussies "
whenever I’ve responded, usually with “ thanks for advice, I’ll take that on board” they tell me “ I’ve proved their point” and then block me.

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By *aven RedWoman
2 hours ago

Liverpool x

Loads of times.

My profile is too long (I know)

I shouldn't be on here if I'm not meeting

I should meet anyone who asks because I have a lot of verifications

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By *ub_BDSM_GirlWoman
2 hours ago

Wirral

Ohhhh I get that all the time, mostly from the vast amount if 'Fab Doms' that were born from this sites rubbish vetting process.

Anyone who has handcuffed a woman in their lifetime is now a 'dom' lol

Always offering me advice and their opinion.

As Master says 'opinions are like arseholes everyone has got one....but like in prison, keep them to themselves!'

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