FabSwingers.com forum: Is kissing a big part of your meets

By *ature Spice OP Couple
3 days ago

Bolton

Just love seeing J kissed when we meet. Just wondering if others feel the same or ate you against it.

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By *educerMan
3 days ago

Brentwood

has to be a big part of it, I love it

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By *uperSalopian7Man
3 days ago

Parts Unknown

It's essential

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
3 days ago

London

Yes. Kissing is vital.

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By *ermanentlyHorny8082Couple
3 days ago

North West

A million, million percent YES!!!

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By *edHeelsCplCouple
3 days ago

wolverhampton

Always. Before during and after 💋 We’ll never meet a couple or single fem who won’t kiss. wEiRd!

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By *irthy02Man
3 days ago

Glasgow

Love kissing. You can tell so much from how someone kisses.

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By *aughtyman45Man
3 days ago

lincoln

Kissing is so important.

I wouldn’t meet if not !

I don’t really understand how people won’t kiss but will happily have sex !

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By *eordiePTFellaMan
3 days ago

Newcastle - Scotland

Absolutely love kissing....cannot get enough!

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By *WB85Man
3 days ago

Staffordshire

Absolutely it is.....its how it all begins.

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By *uicyboobiesWoman
3 days ago

Newtownbutler

No kissing no meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
3 days ago

Ideally, yeah.

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By *asterfulcockMan
3 days ago

Newcastle

The biggest part. Shit kissing leads to no more

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By *d4funtimesMan
3 days ago

Cambridge

I am much the same, if there is no kiss, the chemistry just is not there. 💋

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By *aked beachMan
3 days ago

Just A Stranger In A Strange Land.

If I ever manage to meet, I would hope so, yes.

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By *udandBryanCouple
3 days ago

Boston

Not fussed either way - with ladies/couples.

Definite no with single men.

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By *inkerbell_and_silverfoxCouple
3 days ago

London

Absolutely yes - we both love kissing and it’s such a sensual way to share

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By *urious_BeanMan
3 days ago

South Manchester

Absolutely essential

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By *oneyBee200Woman
3 days ago

Kent

Absolutely. Nothing is happening until we’ve had a really good kissing session 👄😜

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
3 days ago

East Sussex

No it isn't

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By *orny4youCouple
3 days ago

Huddersfield

Definitely

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By *andb69Couple
3 days ago

leeds

"No it isn't "

I don't think so either. We have been in the scene for over ten years I never kiss men (though occasionally my husband does, and I kiss women): no one has ever complained or thought it strange, and most have come back for, or wanted more. I have never had anyone turn me down because of it.

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By *avexxMan
3 days ago

cheshire

depends wether your a good kisser

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By *enrietteandSamCouple
3 days ago

Brum

Huge part of our meets, it’s all part of the connection.

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By *ilkey69Man
3 days ago

Barnsley

Yes kissing is amazing it turns me on so much always gets me hard

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By *ifewantstoplayCouple
3 days ago

somewhere

Yes 😘

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By *riel13Woman
3 days ago

Northampton

Yes

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By *ertcoupleCouple
3 days ago

Welwyn Garden City

Sure is

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By *Ci LutherMan
3 days ago

Cumalot

No kidding No point in meeting

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By *irthy02Man
3 days ago

Glasgow

Huge part. Love kissing x

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By *sm265Woman
3 days ago

Perthshire

Not particularly fussed, generally i associate kissing with more of an emotional/romantic connection.

Have had some great sex with no kissing involved whatsoever. Have also had meets where everything was going great until he kissed me and it was thoroughly unpleasant and totally turned me off.

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By *eaSlutsCouple
3 days ago

Glasgow

Oh absolutely! Whats a bit of play without kissing first?

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By *annyC73Man
3 days ago

North West

"Just love seeing J kissed when we meet. Just wondering if others feel the same or ate you against it. "

One hundred percent, only if it’s ok with the other party of course

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By *xSirenaxxWoman
2 days ago

Gloucestershire

Essential start and also throughout any sexy fun

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By *eordiePTFellaMan
2 days ago

Newcastle - Scotland

I could use my mouth for hours.....

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By *ootyfruityCouple
2 days ago

andover

Definitely kissing! We’ve had a meet before where they wouldn’t kiss, just seemed a bit flat tbh

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
2 days ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

Love a good kisser

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By *hunkymonkey81Man
2 days ago

Sheffield

Kissing is a real turn on

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By *ichaelsmyMan
2 days ago

douglas

i feel that kissing forms a connection

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By *hellebelleWoman
2 days ago

ashford

Absolutely…. No way could anything happen if they don’t want to kiss… a great kisser brings out the feral side of me

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By *rystalsswingCouple
2 days ago

Galway /West / Dublin

Yup!

A huge part

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By *agicm696Man
2 days ago

High Wycombe

Yep love to kiss

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By *agicm696Man
2 days ago

High Wycombe

"Yup!

A huge part"

Can’t msg u unfortunately

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By *etsbenaughty69Couple
2 days ago

Essex

Definitely..

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
2 days ago

Bolton

Yes!

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By *ot_spicedCouple
2 days ago

Queenstown

Sex without kissing is just weird

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By *arzanandJane2016Couple
2 days ago

the big city

We started off as non kissing and had maybe 3-4 meets like that and then our first solo meet with a female where she laid between us and alternated kissing was so hot we soon threw that rule in the recycling bin.

The only rule now we have is good kissing as some still think good kissing is trying to reach your breakfast 😂😂

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By *ihimbiherCouple
2 days ago

lightwater

Of course. Both male and female

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By *treettripleriderMan
2 days ago

Warminster

Kissing is a huge part of playing for me, love the added sensual connection it creates and naughty when the husband gets to watch 😈

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By *hinstrapMan
2 days ago

sheffield

Oh yes for me it is. Love a good snog to get the juices flowing

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By *MandMMCouple
2 days ago

Welwyn

We enjoy kissing, but wouldn't say it's essential.

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By *hoenix_1Man
2 days ago

richmond

Yes a big part, not sure I would want to meet if there was a kissing ban

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By *lpine12Couple
2 days ago

BARMOUTH

Yes it is

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By *vonCalling2022Couple
2 days ago

Whyteleafe

Of course. No kissing is just weird and makes it feels like more of just a meat market.

Love my neck kissed and hand running up my dress or over my bust as I look at my husband.

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By *eal tradieMan
2 days ago

Bournemouth

Depends on who you meet

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By *otfunx1Man
2 days ago

Edinburgh

Cant wait to see her kiss another man as there hands explore each other knowing how much she will be gagging for him

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By *treettripleriderMan
2 days ago

Warminster

"Of course. No kissing is just weird and makes it feels like more of just a meat market.

Love my neck kissed and hand running up my dress or over my bust as I look at my husband. "

Perfect x

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By *ealslut4sexymenTV/TS
2 days ago

bognor regis

Most definitely, a good kisser is a real turn on, male or female

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By *aldaVelvetTV/TS
2 days ago

London

It is. But if I'm wearing a crazy amount of lipstick, like I normally do, it looks like we've been eating raw meat.

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By *adybonersirlongswordCouple
2 days ago

Sussex

Absolutely, we both enjoy kissing

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By *he BackagainsCouple
2 days ago

perthshire

100% . No kissing = No Meet .

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By *omRachCouple
2 days ago

Wirral

Most definitely

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By *igBeardyDanMan
2 days ago

Bilston

💯 ive met couples with a no kissing rule and it just isn't the same, i like to build uo slowly then passionate until the climax

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By *k62023Man
2 days ago

Hertford

I think I have gotten to the point that I wouldn't arrange a meet if they didn't kiss. Such an internal and sexy part of the meet. To be greeted with a kiss and to leave with a kiss is the perfect way to bookend a meet x

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By *forfuntimesCouple
2 days ago

Sheffield

Definitely a preference for us…helps build the tension of what’s to come

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By *eliWoman
2 days ago

Yes. I've met people and not had sex with them before. We have spent hours kissing and dryhumping (the awfulness of that term).

I couldn't have sex with someone if the kissing didn't give me that want them inside me feeling.

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By *woamigosCouple
2 days ago

harrow

we are looking for a couple where the guy wants a little man/man action but surprisingly although they are happy to suck and be sucked many wont kiss x

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By *k62023Man
2 days ago

Hertford

"we are looking for a couple where the guy wants a little man/man action but surprisingly although they are happy to suck and be sucked many wont kiss x"

I have found this surprisingly common in mmf 3somes. The husband is happy to do cock play etc but doesn't want to kiss, which is always a shame but gets off on watching me kiss their wife

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By *andcruiser50Man
2 days ago

Kendal

Love to kiss and cuddle , it's the initial part of a meet and it sets the tone for success, if a person male or female can't be bothered to make the effort to kiss properly, passionately then they're probably not going to bother having good sex

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By *eordiePTFellaMan
2 days ago

Newcastle - Scotland

My lips are so sensitive.....I get so turned on by kissing

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By *ohn8210tCouple
2 days ago

Warwick

Fiona loves kissing- it makes me jealous but turned on too.

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By *k62023Man
2 days ago

Hertford

"Fiona loves kissing- it makes me jealous but turned on too."

Id absolutely love to kiss her, she looks very sexy

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By *utualfunMan
2 days ago

M4/M5

Essential. Takes the connection to a higher level.

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By *elboy1978Man
2 days ago

Jarrow

I like kissing it’s part of the experience and a turn on

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By *aandLoCouple
2 days ago

Southampton

Passionate kissing is so hot for us. Kissing while caressing or fucking someone heightens the eroticism of sex.

We couldn't meet someone whose preference was no kissing.

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By *s2walesCouple
2 days ago

Gwent...

Kissing is a huge part of our meets, f/m and f/f

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By *SexiiMan
2 days ago

derby

Absolutely, it's gotta be one the most passionate and sensual parts... and one of my favourites

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By *andb69Couple
2 days ago

leeds

"Not particularly fussed, generally i associate kissing with more of an emotional/romantic connection.

Have had some great sex with no kissing involved whatsoever. Have also had meets where everything was going great until he kissed me and it was thoroughly unpleasant and totally turned me off. "

My feelings exactly!

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By *ouple2playCouple
2 days ago

Solihull

Can definitely have fun without it…but hubby loves me to make it part of the meet and it can feel the naughtiest part (especially if in public). And I enjoy it too! x

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By *aandLoCouple
2 days ago

Southampton

"Not particularly fussed, generally i associate kissing with more of an emotional/romantic connection.

Have had some great sex with no kissing involved whatsoever. Have also had meets where everything was going great until he kissed me and it was thoroughly unpleasant and totally turned me off.

My feelings exactly!"

Oh god, I agree. Bad breath is an instant turn off. Fortunately I've only experienced that once. Not sure how they don't notice it themselves?

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By *hromakeyDreamcoatMan
2 days ago

Carlisle

It’s essential. I know there are people who want to save that for their partner etc. but sex isn’t sex without kissing, as far as I’m concerned.

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By *tefe-MartyCouple
2 days ago

Cambs

Part of the flirting getting to know you stage.

Even better if it's in public starting with a gentle kiss then as you turn each other on, more

Passionate.

Builds the excitement

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By *artorialMan
2 days ago

weymouth

Yes, a must for me

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By *orders-cplCouple
2 days ago

middx cpl

its a must even in public no kiss no meet xx

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By *done777Man
2 days ago

Northwest(Derry/Donegal)

Had a mfmf meet a while back & the other couple insisted on no kissing, definitely made the whole meet seem guarded & awkward

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
2 days ago

South Wales

It’s all part of the build up for me….. I absolutely love kissing xx 😘

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By *espectfulSilverFoxMan
2 days ago

hampton

"has to be a big part of it, I love it "

Exactly this....important to have that physical connection

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By *ouple2playCouple
2 days ago

Solihull

"its a must even in public no kiss no meet xx"

More so in public - adds an extra thrill for us x

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
2 days ago

someplace

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By *reachersdaughterWoman
2 days ago

someplace

If it's casual than no. I only kiss people i really really like

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By *ornyguy666Man
2 days ago

Nottingham

I love kissing 💋 it really helps with the intimacy and sex

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By *tamanMan
2 days ago

around the corner

"If it's casual than no. I only kiss people i really really like"

This👆

And also teeth play an important part. I personally like nice smiles and dislike turkish ceramic ones! 😁

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By *uliette500Woman
2 days ago

Hull

Absolutely essential for me. I met one man and there was no kissing before or after. It wasn't something I'd thought to discuss beforehand and it felt really odd.

I won't say I need feelings to be involved but I need a little intimacy and build up.

We went straight to the sex and then after he'd finished he jumped up, went to the bathroom, clothes on and left.

He thought it was great and kept asking for another meet but I won't be doing that again.

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By *iss DevilWoman
2 days ago

Bedford

Kissing is very important to me, sex without it feels very clinical.

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By *istockportguyTV/TS
2 days ago

Stockport

Most important

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By *andb69Couple
2 days ago

leeds

"Kissing is very important to me, sex without it feels very clinical. "

Really? I have never had sex that feels clinical -erotic, sensual yes, but never clinical. Several people here say that kissing is essential for intimacy, but I just want sex with strangers not intimacy. I have all the intimacy I need with my husband.

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By *iss DevilWoman
2 days ago

Bedford

"Kissing is very important to me, sex without it feels very clinical.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
2 days ago

Staffordshire

I respect its a boundary for so many that they cant kiss.

But this is my journey, we want the kissing and the amazing feeling it gives.

Each to their own.

Mr.

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By *aandLoCouple
2 days ago

Southampton

"I respect its a boundary for so many that they cant kiss.

But this is my journey, we want the kissing and the amazing feeling it gives.

Each to their own.

Mr.

Love that idea. It is each our own journey, and we should respect each others.

On thinking about it there have been men in clubs who've fucked me, or I've given them oral, and there was no kissing. But that has always been in a multiple men and me scenario, following lots of chat and giggles in a jacuzzi. 😁

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By *ustcallMan
2 days ago

Glasgow

If there’s no kissing involved, I’d politely decline the invitation, sorry I’m washing hair tonight

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By *omsarah73Couple
2 days ago

Suffolk

Only do this if we meet a couple and kissing all around is agreed.

Never mmf meets.

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By *arry69SallyCouple
2 days ago

Yorkshire & Hampshire

I love it

Give me a passionate kisser anyday 😍

Sal x

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By *parkle1974Woman
2 days ago

Leeds

Kisses definitely have to play a part for me x

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By *IG G77Man
2 days ago

GATLEY

"I love it

Give me a passionate kisser anyday 😍

Sal x "

I'm here Sal x😘

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By *ouple2playCouple
2 days ago

Solihull

"I love it

Give me a passionate kisser anyday 😍

Sal x "

Asking for a friend - is that both males and females you kiss..?

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By *om4TodayMan
2 days ago

Cheshire

Essential for arousal...yes?

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By *opinovMan
2 days ago

Cumbria and Galloway

Yes. I love to kiss from head to toe... everywhere.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
2 days ago

East Sussex

What I've experienced with interest during the time we've been swinging is that a lot of men say that intimacy and connection often in the form of kissing, is vital for them but after we've had sex they can barely look me in the eye or give me a hug and a kiss on the cheek goodbye.

That feels really off to me, if you want intimacy surely it carries on after sex.

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By *hoenix_1Man
1 day ago

richmond

"What I've experienced with interest during the time we've been swinging is that a lot of men say that intimacy and connection often in the form of kissing, is vital for them but after we've had sex they can barely look me in the eye or give me a hug and a kiss on the cheek goodbye.

That feels really off to me, if you want intimacy surely it carries on after sex. "

I need the hugs and kisses after sex. The connection should never end

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By *arry69SallyCouple
24 hours ago

Yorkshire & Hampshire

"I love it

Give me a passionate kisser anyday 😍

Sal x

Asking for a friend - is that both males and females you kiss..?

It certainly is

Sal x

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By *arry69SallyCouple
24 hours ago

Yorkshire & Hampshire

"I love it

Give me a passionate kisser anyday 😍

Sal x

I'm here Sal x😘"

Oh! 🫦

Sal x

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By *evonrobMan
24 hours ago

Kingsbridge

whatever sex kissing is a massive turn on for me! Just saying….

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By *lectrictouchMan
24 hours ago

inverarary

Absolutely

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By *ilts-warm-cplCouple
22 hours ago

WARMINSTER

Definitely

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