FabSwingers.com forum: Do men get enough attention

By *aughtyNymphs OP Couple
6 days ago

Gosport

So do the couples on here feel that there men don’t get enough attention?, is it because the ladies are shy , or because normally the men message on here .im just curious as I think J has a amazing body and a fantastic cock , he certainly knows how to use it , I think he deserves much more attention and fabs on his pics

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By *avin77Man
6 days ago

camberley

I know I dont lol

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By *tandardIssueNerdMan
6 days ago

Telford

What is this attention you speak of?

I'm yet to experience it.

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By *igBeardyDanMan
6 days ago

Bilston

Answers on a postcard, but you know the type of replies you'll get

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By *rispy KremeMan
6 days ago

wolves

Definitely not on a larger scale but some do due to their presence in the scene with regular club visits and such.

Also guys don't help them self being a pig here in general haha

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By *andtnwCouple
6 days ago

Westhoughton

Let's see if male here gets any

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By *eyond PurityCouple
6 days ago

North East Lincolnshire

Women will always get more attention on here.

We get attention from other women. I’m not sure what the answer is but we try and have a range of pics of us both. We don’t have graphic pics like action shots or pussy/cock pics.

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By *aughtyNymphs OP Couple
6 days ago

Gosport

Thank you

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By *KTim61Man
6 days ago

Tipton

"So do the couples on here feel that there men don’t get enough attention?, is it because the ladies are shy , or because normally the men message on here .im just curious as I think J has a amazing body and a fantastic cock , he certainly knows how to use it , I think he deserves much more attention and fabs on his pics "

Well what I've read on here & in many couple/ single women Profiles they say No Cock Pictures!!!

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By *herrybakewellCouple
6 days ago

Staffordshire

As with most couples, its me who gets all the attention on here.

Jay often feels pretty invisible and irrelevant.

Getting messages making it very clear they're only interested in the female feels incredibly harsh.

Its just how it is though sadly.

Mrs.

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By *rFieryMan
5 days ago

Surrey

The thing is, on FS I get very little attention as a guy, but if I walk into a bar I get lots of attention. It's the (unfortunate) dynamic.

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By *heElvingtonTwoCouple
5 days ago

The Ramtops

Nope as soon as people find out I’m part of the deal all interest vanishes

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By *inglePringle101Man
5 days ago

Sible / Hedingham

Ok, as a previous couple on here I can honestly say 99.9% of the thousand messages were directed towards my partner.

30% ish of those would say "Hi Mr." So directed to me basically asking to fuck her,

10% worryingly enough from males wanting to fuck us both.

0.01% guys wanting to fuck me???

As a single guy now, i can honestly say my inbox is no where near as full. 96% baron, yes its myself that does tge first message, even with 2 veri's I still struggle endlessly to even meet.

I joined T.der for 1 week and met for sex, so, what is it about this site that makes it so difficult???

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By *KTim61Man
5 days ago

Tipton

"Ok, as a previous couple on here I can honestly say 99.9% of the thousand messages were directed towards my partner.

30% ish of those would say "Hi Mr." So directed to me basically asking to fuck her,

10% worryingly enough from males wanting to fuck us both.

0.01% guys wanting to fuck me???

As a single guy now, i can honestly say my inbox is no where near as full. 96% baron, yes its myself that does tge first message, even with 2 veri's I still struggle endlessly to even meet.

I joined T.der for 1 week and met for sex, so, what is it about this site that makes it so difficult??? "

So maybe T.der may the best way forward for single guys like myself then ?

But I did have a meet up with a cuckold couple, also away from this site, I've had a MFM

but didnt veri unfortunately!

as I would think that would help my situation ?

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By *etterdays2021Man
5 days ago

PETERBOROUGH

To be honest i think because some people all the genuine people pay for it... you sent a face picture no reply . You read profile no reply.. i dont know fabswingers wasn't like this a few years ago.. it is what is and i just think it will become worse before gets better

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By *eekyscotMan
5 days ago

Rhyl

I don't, there times where i miss the intimacy and companionship of being able to cuddle someone who genuinely likes me

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By *weetSmellingSamTV/TS
5 days ago

Consett

I think it’s down to the sheer volume on men on this site compared to women and TS/TV that makes men less seen. Let’s say 1 woman to every 9 men on here makes the woman have all the choice and men less options.

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By *eekyscotMan
5 days ago

Rhyl

"I think it’s down to the sheer volume on men on this site compared to women and TS/TV that makes men less seen. Let’s say 1 woman to every 9 men on here makes the woman have all the choice and men less options."

I agree with that but also I feel like this can be applied to a lot of dating and meeting apps/places

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By *rFieryMan
5 days ago

Surrey

I've decided that I'm done with FS once my silver membership runs out.

I'll just go to Wetherspoon and smile at someone.

Shame because I like the cuckold dynamic. But it's not the be all and end all.

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By *eekyscotMan
5 days ago

Rhyl

"I've decided that I'm done with FS once my silver membership runs out.

I'll just go to Wetherspoon and smile at someone.

Shame because I like the cuckold dynamic. But it's not the be all and end all. "

I'm probably going to do similar as I've not had any luck here for social meetings or potentially getting to know people.

Especially since i don't drink and a lot of the time when i do actually get a response it revolves around being invited to go out for a drink to help relax and break the tension but once they learn i don't drink i get ghosted

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By *edheadnBaldyCouple
5 days ago

Aberdeen

I'd be interested to know the actual stats but I think this is a very conservative guess. If I look at people near me there is one couple and one female in the top 60 closest people before I got bored checking x

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By *ack1186Man
5 days ago

Halifax

It’s 90% men so yeah I think it’s probably fair enough that women don’t reply it’s probably tiresome for women…. Just saying

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By *4bimMan
5 days ago

Farnborough Hampshire

I don't pay enough attention to care about it. Just how it is

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By *ecadentDeviantsCouple
5 days ago

North West

Do men get enough attention?

Well, I look at how many messages the Mrs gets on her single female profile compared to how many we get as a couple and even though I have permission to meet solo asa single male I just don’t bother because the sheer number of men probably means a colossal effort would be needed to gain female attention on here & when push comes to shove, I can’t be arsed putting in the time & effort. It’d probably start taking over my life & well, there are other things to do believe it or not…

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By *inglePringle101Man
4 days ago

Sible / Hedingham

Chatbt states,

Type Approximate share

Single men 50–70%

Couples 20–40%

Single women 10–20%

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By *aughty_guy12Man
4 days ago

Cambridgeshire

Men are cheap in this game. They don’t do themselves any favours generally, but you can see why it’s a numbers game for most.

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By *weetSmellingSamTV/TS
4 days ago

Consett

Chatbt states,

Type Approximate share

Single men 50–70%

Couples 20–40%

Single women 10–20%"

Single men? From my experiences they’re mostly taken or married so I would argue actual single men on here is much lower.

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By *ough TradeWoman
4 days ago

Croydon

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By *ookieMonsterMan
4 days ago

B’stoke

I do … but not the kind I want …

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