FabSwingers.com forum: Sad Farewell

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi everyone that knows us, sadly we are leaving this site as we are permanently banned from the chatroom.

The ban was just, an error on my part but rules are rules and we respect them, whilst we didn't intend to break them we fully understand the sites need to have rules and have them respected, and to take appropriate action when they are broken.

So we leave the site with no animosty towards it or anyone connected with it.

We have thoroughly enjoyed our time here and met some fantastic people and made some fantastic friends whom we are sure will stay in contact via MSN and on whatever site we end up chatting on (we are already members of a number of other sites)

Our best to everyone

byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Sasha and Jed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

soz 2 hear that hun tc xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bye

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

bye Kitty bye Stunna

SimplySasha account is now deleted this account will remain open for a little while longer while we inform friends where we will be found

anyone who wants to keep in touch and isnt on our msn can mail us for our addy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what did u do to get banned? or u aint saying lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awwww cant believe u going, its not going to be the same without u guys in the chatroom

love u guys xxxxxx

see u soon xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So why did you get banned??

Just tip others the wink incase they suffer the same fate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why leave the site? the chat rooms are crap anyway, they're like a POW camp, it's just a pitty all these rules weren't applied accross the whole site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why leave the site? the chat rooms are crap anyway, they're like a POW camp, it's just a pitty all these rules weren't applied accross the whole site."

always one lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why leave the site? the chat rooms are crap anyway, they're like a POW camp, it's just a pitty all these rules weren't applied accross the whole site."

was going 2 say that

the forums are much better than chat

why leave if you enjoy it

an u have got friends on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" just a pitty all these rules weren't applied accross the whole site."

Thet are .... believe me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if u wanna go dont let the others try to stop u. its your choice fully remember that lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I dont think its important, I broke the rules and deserve the ban but since loads of people are going to ask me this in msn on other sites and at the clubs it might be easier for me to explain it here.

I organised a Naturist Night at Chameleons, I am not a Naturist and recieve no incentive from the club to organise them but many of the friends I know have mentioned that they would like to attend such an event and previous Naturist nights have been popular.

I advertised it in the Meets/parties section of the forums and on the events board.

Having done this I thought it was acceptable to advertise the event in the chatroom and did so.

Having seen other such adverts like Devs Parties I thought this would be acceptable especially as it is ok to advertise it in the parties section here and the events board

I was wrong and it has been explained to me why I was wrong, Dev organises FREE parties and advertising FREE events is quite acceptable, I can understand this.

I have been on this site long enough to have read the rules and am old enough and daft enough to see that I was wrong to pressume.

Hopefully this explanation will help others not to make the same mistake

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Personal choice on the chatrooms, yes we like the forums but the chatrooms to us are the place to be, we spend way too much time in there but always enjoy ourselves, the site would not be the same for us without being able to use them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" just a pitty all these rules weren't applied accross the whole site.

Thet are .... believe me !"

are they? never seem members banned for writing in caps on the forum, and it seems ok to put phone numbers and email addresses on your profile, these will be seen by more people than if they were posted in chat.

anyway you two both take care whatever you decide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" just a pitty all these rules weren't applied accross the whole site.

Thet are .... believe me !

anyway you two both take care whatever you decide."

the rules are stated for the chatroom. the rule is not there for the foums or for profiles for now. so for u to say the rule is not followed through out the site is wrong seeing as it clearly states CHATROOM RULES.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" just a pitty all these rules weren't applied accross the whole site.

Thet are .... believe me !

anyway you two both take care whatever you decide."

People are warned if they use caps, or break any rule for that matter in chat, if they do the same again then they are banned.

It IS NOT against the rules to put MSN or Phone numbers in your profile .. strange I agree, but it is the site rules wether we like it or not.

If you dont beleive what I say about rules and chatrooms - pop in one night when I am moderating .... I'll show ya

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

dont panic Kitty its not a case of being talked into staying or not, like we said the site doesn't appeal to us without the ability to use the chatroom, no point in staying with friends if you cant talk to them and I am sure we will be equally happy on another site and make lots of new friends (and enemies lol) whilst still keeping in touch via msn with those we are already friends with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" just a pitty all these rules weren't applied accross the whole site.

Thet are .... believe me !

anyway you two both take care whatever you decide.

kitty that was the whole point we made, different rules for different parts of the site, so whay are we wrong?

lets leave it at that anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yes please folks please dont turn this thread into a debate on rules - we broke em we pay the price - the way it should be for everyone

Of course anyone can start a new thread on Fabswingers rules

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all we can say is jed and sasha are going to be missed in the chatroom jed himself as been a friend of ours for a long time now and they dont come more respectfull than him on these grounds we are now going to leave the chatroom side of the site too after all if our friends aint in there whats the point we was mods on other sites and we never banned people with out atleast giving them one warning first this site seems to just ban for the slightest little thing

really sorry to see you go jed sasha we are with you xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok Jed, I think we have the picture ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well it's nice to see somebody that can accept his mistakes and wants to leaves without the need for an emotional fanfare which is commendable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"all we can say is jed and sasha are going to be missed in the chatroom jed himself as been a friend of ours for a long time now and they dont come more respectfull than him on these grounds we are now going to leave the chatroom side of the site too after all if our friends aint in there whats the point we was mods on other sites and we never banned people with out atleast giving them one warning first this site seems to just ban for the slightest little thing

really sorry to see you go jed sasha we are with you xxxxx"

FFs sake pass the razor blades around ....

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I am sure anyone who wants to get in touch can do so reading this thread.

All that they wanted to say has been said, so thread closed .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi jed and sasha will miss you both on here but we got msn and phone numbers to keep in touch xxxx we wish you all the best xxxx

jen and markxxxx

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"yes please folks please dont turn this thread into a debate on rules - we broke em we pay the price - the way it should be for everyone

Of course anyone can start a new thread on Fabswingers rules

xxx"

A life ban for one error seems harsh for what seems a misunderstanding ...even murderer doesnt truly get life .

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