FabSwingers.com forum: Profile reading

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A little rant so do forgive me

My profile clearly states I am not looking to meet anyone else. Yesterday a guy asked me for a face pic which I duly sent. Then he came back with not for me, which is fine, I'm a big girl and can take it. So my question is, why bother asking really, and even if I'm not for him, am I too awful even to chat to?

Ahhh, unless he didn't read my profile. BINGO

Thank you for listening. Have a nice day

xxx

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By *ucy and CarlCouple
over a year ago

Broadstairs

It seems only about 5% of single guys actually bother to read the profile first. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have read your profile and cannot see what put him off .Unless he does not like shoes lol

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

Actually I think he should have kept quiet if he didn't like your face pic and just moved on. What was his point in giving his opinion? I think he is an asshole... Just my thoughts on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why did you send him a face pic if you are'nt looking to meet

Is'nt that just opening uneccessary lines of communication for you?

Are you sure you're not just miffed he rejected you and want to rant about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why did you send him a face pic if you are'nt looking to meet

Is'nt that just opening uneccessary lines of communication for you?

Are you sure you're not just miffed he rejected you and want to rant about it?"
That should make the lady feel a lot better lol x

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

"Why did you send him a face pic if you are'nt looking to meet

Is'nt that just opening uneccessary lines of communication for you?

Are you sure you're not just miffed he rejected you and want to rant about it?"
Really? Can't people be friendly on here at all? If you can't rant once in a while on the forums.. Where can you? People are just nasty sometimes and it helps when someone is on your side and agrees. Think that guy was a twat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why did you send him a face pic if you are'nt looking to meet

Is'nt that just opening uneccessary lines of communication for you?

Are you sure you're not just miffed he rejected you and want to rant about it?"

Not at all. I enjoy chatting and if you have a pic of who you're chatting to, it makes it better. Tbh I couldn't care less, because I really do have some very nice guys I meet and chat to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why did you send him a face pic if you are'nt looking to meet

Is'nt that just opening uneccessary lines of communication for you?

Are you sure you're not just miffed he rejected you and want to rant about it? That should make the lady feel a lot better lol x

Just saying it as I see it

Im sure they'll be an influx of ego boosting male slaying posts too that will make it all better

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

"Why did you send him a face pic if you are'nt looking to meet

Is'nt that just opening uneccessary lines of communication for you?

Are you sure you're not just miffed he rejected you and want to rant about it? That should make the lady feel a lot better lol x

Just saying it as I see it

Im sure they'll be an influx of ego boosting male slaying posts too that will make it all better

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calling one guy an asshole is hardly male slaying lol..... I love men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you are not meeting anyone but sent someone a face picture? If that was me, I wouldn't have sent him one so don't quite understand why you sent him one

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

I must be doing this all wrong... I reall thought it was perfectly acceptable to send pics and chat to people on here even though I won't be meeting anyone at the moment.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

"So you are not meeting anyone but sent someone a face picture? If that was me, I wouldn't have sent him one so don't quite understand why you sent him one

Unless it was someone I chatted to on the forums, I wouldnt have either....

Really dont see point in chatting to someone (outwith forums) im not going to meet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must be doing this all wrong... I reall thought it was perfectly acceptable to send pics and chat to people on here even though I won't be meeting anyone at the moment.

Ive got people all over the country that I talk to but wont necessarily meet, so nowt wrong with it

Just a point on your profile, it says wont meet single men, yet will meet men. Ive found this on a few profiles. So how does any man contact you or them

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By *eareenaCouple
over a year ago

Rockford

"I must be doing this all wrong... I reall thought it was perfectly acceptable to send pics and chat to people on here even though I won't be meeting anyone at the moment.

Ive got people all over the country that I talk to but wont necessarily meet, so nowt wrong with it

Just a point on your profile, it says wont meet single men, yet will meet men. Ive found this on a few profiles. So how does any man contact you or them

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valid point.. My profile is in flux.. Better check that.. I do meet men and I get messages regularly but ou have to be on my friends list. Thanks for pointing it out though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why did you send him a face pic if you are'nt looking to meet

Is'nt that just opening uneccessary lines of communication for you?

Are you sure you're not just miffed he rejected you and want to rant about it? Really? Can't people be friendly on here at all? If you can't rant once in a while on the forums.. Where can you? Peo

ple are just nasty sometimes and it helps when someone is on your side and agrees. Think that guy was a twat. "

Hardly nasty and unfriendly to recieve a face pic and then tell the sender you're not for me,regardless if it was for chatting only,you can bet your life that at some point he would have been thinking about a meet as thats predominantly what the site is about

Hardly nasty or unfriendly to give an opinion like I did either,unless the rules say I have to make every ranter on the forums feel better even if I disagree with them

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Does not seem like an ass to me

Although you do say not meeting you also use the word yet which of course for any patient man could easily mean a possibility in the future also the rest of your profile does continue with what you are looking for pm is a little muddled

I'd say it was reasonable for him to politely say not for him x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least he replied?? Says much about him than if he just blocked and deleted you!

We can't be everyones cup of tea...

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