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By *etitehotwife4u OP   Couple
3 days ago

Wirral

Have any couples managed to find this on here. We are now at the point where we are looking for quality over quantity and have found that when Mrs has a few meets with the same guy she’s more relaxed, the sex gets better etc. the ideal for us would be for a part time BF for her, someone local, single, able to accommodate who would like weekends away both with Mrs and both of us as a couple, someone who can go out for a pint with mr now and again also but also have Mrs over for a bottle of wine and some hot passionate sex. Someone who is happy to keep it discrete. Would love to hear other people’s experiences with this.

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By *ichaelsmyMan
3 days ago

douglas

perhaps a few more details on age etc that you are looking for.

i'm sure who ever it was would be very lucky indeed.

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By *hosfree21Man
3 days ago

Kettering


"Have any couples managed to find this on here. We are now at the point where we are looking for quality over quantity and have found that when Mrs has a few meets with the same guy she’s more relaxed, the sex gets better etc. the ideal for us would be for a part time BF for her, someone local, single, able to accommodate who would like weekends away both with Mrs and both of us as a couple, someone who can go out for a pint with mr now and again also but also have Mrs over for a bottle of wine and some hot passionate sex. Someone who is happy to keep it discrete. Would love to hear other people’s experiences with this. "

Love the idea of that

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By *etitehotwife4u OP   Couple
3 days ago

Wirral

So we have a bit in our profile (which we hope any potentials would take the time to read, but hey, this is fab!). Ideally around 40 or under x

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By *pringbok95Couple
3 days ago

Limavady


"Have any couples managed to find this on here. We are now at the point where we are looking for quality over quantity and have found that when Mrs has a few meets with the same guy she’s more relaxed, the sex gets better etc. the ideal for us would be for a part time BF for her, someone local, single, able to accommodate who would like weekends away both with Mrs and both of us as a couple, someone who can go out for a pint with mr now and again also but also have Mrs over for a bottle of wine and some hot passionate sex. Someone who is happy to keep it discrete. Would love to hear other people’s experiences with this. "

This is something we are actively seeking. It's proving very difficult.

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By *agicm696Man
3 days ago

High Wycombe

Would love to be the bf for a wife

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By *erPleasureHisRulesCouple
2 days ago

Sheffield

Working towards this with my wife and a guy we see. We all get on with a guy we met and have had a few meets with him now mfm. My Mrs really likes him which adds a task hot element to it so I am going to send her to spend a few hours on here own. I like to think of him as her boyfriend.

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By *adybonersirlongswordCouple
2 days ago

Sussex

We found a gf for Longsword twice in the past but not from fab he used the dating apps, they were both a little bit nuts though x

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By *etitehotwife4u OP   Couple
2 days ago

Wirral

This sounds encouraging x

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By *adybonersirlongswordCouple
2 days ago

Sussex


"This sounds encouraging x"

Ideally we'd love to find a couple like you so Longsword and the wife can be bf/gf that way everyone knows the score x

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By *etitehotwife4u OP   Couple
2 days ago

Wirral


"This sounds encouraging x

Ideally we'd love to find a couple like you so Longsword and the wife can be bf/gf that way everyone knows the score x"

Something like this would work for us but we need local unfortunately to work x

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By *adybonersirlongswordCouple
2 days ago

Sussex


"This sounds encouraging x

Ideally we'd love to find a couple like you so Longsword and the wife can be bf/gf that way everyone knows the score x

Something like this would work for us but we need local unfortunately to work x"

Yep that's the biggest obstacle, and that most couples who message, want me and not him lol x

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By *eyond PurityCouple
2 days ago

North East Lincolnshire

We had a FWB who lived further afield but every month or so we’d spend a weekend together at his or ours and we had this arrangement.

C had 2 boyfriends for the weekend and often we’d play together but sometimes it would be one on one.

It was fun for all.

K

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By *0scpl1Couple
2 days ago

leeds

We had something similar when we were located in London. The guy had his own place and we met both as a cpl and just myself on occasions. My hubby was comfortable with the arrangement. We moved up north last year and as it happens the guy moved with his job to Paris anyway. Great while it lasted.

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By *lwayswanking24Man
2 days ago

Preston

This would be sexy as x

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By *ellhungvweMan
2 days ago

Cheltenham

The use of the term BF is a big step for me but I do have a wife or two that I see regularly and I would say they were very good friends. Regularly go out with them on their own and the sex is always much better when you get to know someone over time.

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By *rankieiamMan
2 days ago

reading


"Have any couples managed to find this on here. We are now at the point where we are looking for quality over quantity and have found that when Mrs has a few meets with the same guy she’s more relaxed, the sex gets better etc. the ideal for us would be for a part time BF for her, someone local, single, able to accommodate who would like weekends away both with Mrs and both of us as a couple, someone who can go out for a pint with mr now and again also but also have Mrs over for a bottle of wine and some hot passionate sex. Someone who is happy to keep it discrete. Would love to hear other people’s experiences with this. "

Had this exact situation with my ex with a couple of guys. One for 10 months the other for over3 years. We found it great a lot more intimated, relaxed chilled fun. For us it was like I had a good friend to chill out with & she had a 2nd boyfriend. If you can find the right guy, I couldn’t recommend the situation anymore. Happy to chat if u want to know more x

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By *nvader2021Couple
2 days ago

Watford

Good luck guys, it’s a sexy scenario and you’re hot but as we know only too well finding the right person or people takes time sometimes - we’re fully sure you will enjoy the journey though xx

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By * and G CoupleCouple
2 days ago

London


"Have any couples managed to find this on here. We are now at the point where we are looking for quality over quantity and have found that when Mrs has a few meets with the same guy she’s more relaxed, the sex gets better etc. the ideal for us would be for a part time BF for her, someone local, single, able to accommodate who would like weekends away both with Mrs and both of us as a couple, someone who can go out for a pint with mr now and again also but also have Mrs over for a bottle of wine and some hot passionate sex. Someone who is happy to keep it discrete. Would love to hear other people’s experiences with this. "

This is the perfect scenario nut, as others have said, it is very difficult to find the right person.

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By *rankieiamMan
2 days ago

reading


"Have any couples managed to find this on here. We are now at the point where we are looking for quality over quantity and have found that when Mrs has a few meets with the same guy she’s more relaxed, the sex gets better etc. the ideal for us would be for a part time BF for her, someone local, single, able to accommodate who would like weekends away both with Mrs and both of us as a couple, someone who can go out for a pint with mr now and again also but also have Mrs over for a bottle of wine and some hot passionate sex. Someone who is happy to keep it discrete. Would love to hear other people’s experiences with this.

Had this exact situation with my ex with a couple of guys. One for 10 months the other for over3 years. We found it great a lot more intimated, relaxed chilled fun. For us it was like I had a good friend to chill out with & she had a 2nd boyfriend. If you can find the right guy, I couldn’t recommend the situation anymore. Happy to chat if u want to know more x"

To add to this hours happened organically it wasn’t something we were looking for. Kinda fell into it & loved it, Super lucky, great time in my life!

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By *aveJones76Man
2 days ago

Rotherham

Good luck. This a route I'd love my wife to try. Can but hope

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By *lack King DomMan
2 days ago

London


"Have any couples managed to find this on here. We are now at the point where we are looking for quality over quantity and have found that when Mrs has a few meets with the same guy she’s more relaxed, the sex gets better etc. the ideal for us would be for a part time BF for her, someone local, single, able to accommodate who would like weekends away both with Mrs and both of us as a couple, someone who can go out for a pint with mr now and again also but also have Mrs over for a bottle of wine and some hot passionate sex. Someone who is happy to keep it discrete. Would love to hear other people’s experiences with this. "

Love this idea

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By *Effy-Woman
2 days ago

Scotland

I think these things need to develop naturally.

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By *rankieiamMan
2 days ago

reading


"I think these things need to develop naturally. "

100% agree

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By *hinstrapMan
2 days ago

sheffield

Sounds Ideal where do I sign up

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By *arco_pMan
2 days ago

Hednesford


"Have any couples managed to find this on here. We are now at the point where we are looking for quality over quantity and have found that when Mrs has a few meets with the same guy she’s more relaxed, the sex gets better etc. the ideal for us would be for a part time BF for her, someone local, single, able to accommodate who would like weekends away both with Mrs and both of us as a couple, someone who can go out for a pint with mr now and again also but also have Mrs over for a bottle of wine and some hot passionate sex. Someone who is happy to keep it discrete. Would love to hear other people’s experiences with this. "

Love the vision and Mrs is one sexy lady, your a lucky mr

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By *ineapple_turnoverCouple
2 days ago

London

We have found this in the past and I have also played this role in the past, but it's difficult for sure.

Still open to it both ways for the right people!

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By *nsatiableFunCoupleCouple
2 days ago

Worcestershire


"Have any couples managed to find this on here. We are now at the point where we are looking for quality over quantity and have found that when Mrs has a few meets with the same guy she’s more relaxed, the sex gets better etc. the ideal for us would be for a part time BF for her, someone local, single, able to accommodate who would like weekends away both with Mrs and both of us as a couple, someone who can go out for a pint with mr now and again also but also have Mrs over for a bottle of wine and some hot passionate sex. Someone who is happy to keep it discrete. Would love to hear other people’s experiences with this. "

This is the dream! More of a FWB than BF for me (mrs) who's also comfortable and friends with Mr would be ideal. When you find it its incredible but in 3 years we've only had it to the level you describe once and similar fwb only another twice but nothing really long term.

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By *trmkinksMan
2 days ago

London(Shadwell)


"We had a FWB who lived further afield but every month or so we’d spend a weekend together at his or ours and we had this arrangement.

C had 2 boyfriends for the weekend and often we’d play together but sometimes it would be one on one.

It was fun for all.

K "

Sounds so hot ngl

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By *trmkinksMan
2 days ago

London(Shadwell)


"I think these things need to develop naturally.

100% agree"

Spot on. A random meet turning into a regular FWB/boyfriend is super fun. It's great to meet new people, but it also feels good to stick with a small group you already know and trust

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By *penminded7Man
2 days ago

Ebbw Vale

Luv to be someone's wife's bf

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By *ougntinaCouple
2 days ago

chigwell

we were lucky to find this a few years bac. it takes time to develop from a n idea, to a single meet and then to somethign more. it needs understanding and communication.

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By *aughtystaffs60Couple
2 days ago

Staffordshire

Our go to meet of late is with Mrs N's black boyfriend. It's great fun. Any other cucks like to drop me a line to discuss.

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By *outherngent74Man
2 days ago

Hampshire

OP, I'm not keen to stick my head above the parapet, but am happy to chat about our experiences, but off the public forum.

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By *etitehotwife4u OP   Couple
2 days ago

Wirral

Sounds encouraging, we have been looking for a round a year. Best we have had is a a couple of more regular meets but we would love something a little bit more now. As said, would love the idea of Mrs having weekends away of holidays etc too

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By *ammy38Man
2 days ago

Hartley Wintney

I was a BF fir a wife some years ago, we would go out on dates and I’d stay over and the sex was amazing., was great fun, only ended as they moved away due to work.

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By *ctionman11Man
2 days ago

colchester

Would love to be the boyfriend to some of the ladies on this thread for sure

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By *rankie bricksMan
2 days ago

Wolverhampton

Hub interested, wife mature 52

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By *osh bitch n hornyCouple
2 days ago

Warrington

We would like this too, but even better if we found a couple that we could swap or meet separately or better still altogether

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By *rMrs8790Couple
2 days ago

Runcorn

Something we've considered. As post above says, be great to meet another couple we could then eventually meet separately x

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By *AYENCouple
2 days ago

Lincolnshire

We've never managed to find one on here, but did find a boyfriend for N in real life - about two and a half years now, so it is certainly possible. Good luck, K.

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By *ricoupleCouple
2 days ago

Groningen NL

As the two posts above, we did it once before with a Dutch couple we know. Fran met Henk in the U.K. and Zeb with Josien in the Netherlands, a super hot experience and would definitely do again.

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By *um n raisinWoman
2 days ago

taunton

i have a few sexual boyfriend that iuv e known a very long time i have zero interest in anything but sexual friendship had to stop some as some guys just cant control the emotions..

just make sure your relationship can handle the extra as ive seen so many go wrong over ther years more so than those that go right... but of course we never see the bad stuff on these forums just the good stuff ...harder to find than you will think ie ive been on this scene sice 1988 regulars are far and few between alot of guys want but reality sets in and they then dont want or they keep regulars as back ups if all else fails ...best of luck

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By *erICorknowCouple
2 days ago

cork

How far along after the cuck stage does the BF stage kick in?

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By *ebauchayMan
2 days ago

swindon


"How far along after the cuck stage does the BF stage kick in? "

Perhaps it’s completely separate? Depends on what you all want

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By *lknhungMan
2 days ago

Luton

I think it’s harder finding people in your local area to make this happen, obviously there’s some trial and error with finding the suitable person for your partner but from my experience it’s more location that makes things difficult.

This is the ideal scenario though

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By *inkyjoshxMan
2 days ago

Bucks/Herts/London

I had a 2 year relationship with a couple that developed into me being her discrete boyfriend ....social as well as sexual. It was great fun while it lasted and would love to find a similar dynamic again with the right couple

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By *idden gemMan
18 hours ago

sale

I am up for that is any couple want it

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By *otfunx1Man
18 hours ago

Edinburgh

We would love her to have regular man to give her what she needs

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By *d4funtimesMan
18 hours ago

Cambridge

Hey! Are there any couple interested in chatting and connecting? Ed

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By *omRachCouple
18 hours ago

Wirral

I think Rach would love something like this - someone she can 'bond' with and not just for sex. Yes, she has me for all intimate non sexual issues but I think the occasional weekend away relaxing (not needing to look over her shoulder) socialising AND fucking with someone she has a strong connection with would be great for her personally.

Rach already meets one particular guy regularly to fuck, it would be great to add a little unwinding to it too.

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By *evilinDavina1Man
18 hours ago

Bristol

It's definitely a tough ask, location and work schedules seem to be the biggest obstacles. I'm actively looking to become the b.f of a wife from a couple, something semi regular with to build trust and a connection, not just one off sex. fingers crossed, and good luck to you all searching for the same x

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By *ngelLordCouple
18 hours ago

Newport

Sure would be great shame quite hard to make it happen

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By *exywoman77Couple
18 hours ago

Barnsley

Would love this to happen I love watching her being fucked

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By *wodoswingCouple
17 hours ago

swindon

Have been trying to make this happen for along time, but it is very hard to find someone who can commit to the regularity that this scenario requires.

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By *ngietimeTV/TS
17 hours ago

Cambridge

Would be pleased for J to have a BF with who she can enjoy what i know she thinks about and wishes for.

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By *icurious_RomanceCouple
17 hours ago

West Midlands

Just be wary with this kind of scenario, make sure you lay your cards out on the table at the very beginning. It could be easy for the single guy to catch feelings (have had personal experience with this despite doing this).

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By *uigi77Man
17 hours ago

Nottingham

Most likely this can happen in a real life not on here…

this site doesn’t fit to it’s purpose unfortunately….

it’s always a distance or not will to hear people actually.

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By *omRachCouple
17 hours ago

Wirral


"Just be wary with this kind of scenario, make sure you lay your cards out on the table at the very beginning. It could be easy for the single guy to catch feelings (have had personal experience with this despite doing this)."

That is something I have given a lot of thought to also

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By *rankieiamMan
15 hours ago

reading


"How far along after the cuck stage does the BF stage kick in? "

It depends really, for us he would come over and visit regularly then stay over, come for the weekend. Before we knew it, we were doing things as a three enjoying each other’s time it was wonderful. Sex ended up being amazing, we were able to explore and push the boundaries as a three.

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By *m3232Man
14 hours ago

maidenhead

Definitely the dream set up. Very hard to find though.

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By *andycd20000TV/TS
14 hours ago

limerick side of ennis.

We did this when I was married

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By *hunkymonkey81Man
14 hours ago

Sheffield

Perfect situation

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By *etsbenaughty69Couple
14 hours ago

Essex

Mrs A as well as Mr P have FWB’s..

Everyone knows what the rules are..

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By *yeSureMan
12 hours ago

Glasgow

Interesting idea for Mrs A

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By *samyhotwifeWoman
12 hours ago

Dublin

I'd love a boyfriend

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By *eon7Man
10 hours ago

Swadlincote

Wife has a few already

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By *ovelifecoupleCouple
10 hours ago

York(ish)

This does make sense, if you can find the right guy!

Good single guys are very hard to come by on here.

xxxx

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By *orthernMan1991Man
10 hours ago

Sunderland

Just need to keep looking we are out their :D

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By *hocolateRodMan
3 hours ago

London and over UK


"Have any couples managed to find this on here. We are now at the point where we are looking for quality over quantity and have found that when Mrs has a few meets with the same guy she’s more relaxed, the sex gets better etc. the ideal for us would be for a part time BF for her, someone local, single, able to accommodate who would like weekends away both with Mrs and both of us as a couple, someone who can go out for a pint with mr now and again also but also have Mrs over for a bottle of wine and some hot passionate sex. Someone who is happy to keep it discrete. Would love to hear other people’s experiences with this. "

this would be a dream scenario for me!

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By *unandcuriousCouple
2 hours ago

Antrim

Wud be great

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By *lack King DomMan
2 hours ago

London

Available for chat regarding this 😀

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By *hocolateRodMan
1 hour ago

London and over UK


"Have any couples managed to find this on here. We are now at the point where we are looking for quality over quantity and have found that when Mrs has a few meets with the same guy she’s more relaxed, the sex gets better etc. the ideal for us would be for a part time BF for her, someone local, single, able to accommodate who would like weekends away both with Mrs and both of us as a couple, someone who can go out for a pint with mr now and again also but also have Mrs over for a bottle of wine and some hot passionate sex. Someone who is happy to keep it discrete. Would love to hear other people’s experiences with this.

this would be a dream scenario for me!

often logistics/and real life make this hard to achieve in real life "

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