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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There seems to be a number of threads kicking about this afternoon on various bi themes however I havent noticed one dealing with this.

I am a straight guy who loves sharing his wife with other guys but would never consider inviting a bi guy to join us.

I know we could agree in advance limits so there would be no fear of him pouncing on my cock but frankly neither of us would feel comfortable.

Me for the obvious & Mrs J as the thrill of a mmf is that she knows she is the centre of attention.

So is this something that other couples feel?

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By *corcherMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

At least your honest about not feeling comfortable. Ultimately it's about having fun & if 1 person isn't then you shouldn't be doing it.

Having said that, it's for this reason many guys but straight on their profile. I don't think you should do that, but to be controversial for a moment, maybe they did you a favour? You all had fun after all. And once more this is not to excuse bi guys lying on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never understand this.

A bi guy by definition is someone who enjoys both sexes he's not going to jump on the male just because he is bi also most straight guys on sites like this swing both ways just not openly so chances are you will have played with one or two bi guys.

Again as we always say each to their own and this is your preference. We just don't get it

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By * Jay69Man
over a year ago

Bridgwater - Somerset


"I never understand this.

A bi guy by definition is someone who enjoys both sexes he's not going to jump on the male just because he is bi also most straight guys on sites like this swing both ways just not openly so chances are you will have played with one or two bi guys.

Again as we always say each to their own and this is your preference. We just don't get it "

I could not have put this better myself.

Many many guys will not mention Bi or Bi oral on profile for this very reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would also like to ask the op would you meet a straight fem couple ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we were meeting we wouldn't meet bi guys either.

Not from the fear of being jumped, which is about as likely as Trace jumping a straight woman it just wouldn't happen.

Our reason is that just the thought of the guy we were playing with having sex with other guys would be a total turn off for both of us.

And, like earlier posts have touched on, the amount of bi guys lying on sites such as this one is the reason we don't meet now.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never understand this.

A bi guy by definition is someone who enjoys both sexes he's not going to jump on the male just because he is bi also most straight guys on sites like this swing both ways just not openly so chances are you will have played with one or two bi guys.

Again as we always say each to their own and this is your preference. We just don't get it "

We're both bi but we understand- and respect!- why straight people might not want to meet us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the end it's up to everyone who they want to meet and if even the thought of the guy you meet being with another guy turns you off, well you can't help that so fair enough, similar to people putting minimum age or height or ethnicity.

However, what if you met a straight girl, on her own or in a couple do you still worry? What about the guys she's been with, does that bother you too?

I can only speak for myself as a submissive bi guy, I don't fancy men and if there was a 3sum with a couple then the woman would always be the centre of attention, whether the other guy was bi or not, in my experience the same has always gone for the other bi men I've met so wouldn't worry about that issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't see what difference it makes who people play with when away from you

Im sure there are many couples on here with bi women who would play straight when meeting a couple with a straight woman and wouldn't dream of crossing the line, so why cant they show the same respect to bi men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you check our profile it states that we're not interested in meeting couples with a straight fem.

Trace is genuinely bi, really enjoys playing with other bi women, so we've no interest in meeting straight women.

She'd never lie about not being bi, just to fuck a straight woman's husband that she fancied, if their profile said they didn't meet bi women.

What is it with some bi guys that they can't play by the same rules?

XXXX

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