FabSwingers.com forum: meets!!!!

By *anderer46 OP Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Hi all have been on site since last year & as yet been unable to make a contact. J know it is hard for single males but, can anyone give me some tips on how to break my virginity on the site.

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

"Hi all have been on site since last year & as yet been unable to make a contact. J know it is hard for single males but, can anyone give me some tips on how to break my virginity on the site.

pick people who match what you are looking for

make your message personal to them

try sociles

if i can do it at my age lol so

can any one else

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

just re=read your profile

cant accom ..... cant travel

where you going to meet them in a bus shelter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most people who cant travel mean large distances but are happy to meet relatively local ie 20 miles

many people cant accommodate but would be willing to arrange a hotel.

Bus shelters are not recommended so not really helpfull advice

Try being more explicit in your profile about that, say what radius you can travel or if you would arrange a hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

also explain why u cant accomadate, i always tend to think the guy is married if he cant accomadate and specially as u cant tavel far....makes me wonder why???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see the op is taking our advice and has adjusted his profile based on it.

It always helps to have more a variety of photos to let others know what you look like.

I there are quite a few socials going on if you fancy meeting other members, i do remember seeing a thread by the pussy possy on the introduction thread that might be of interest to the op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much whats been said take ur time with ur profile and put in as much info as poss, also i know if i was single guy i would try and get to as many socials as u can and get ur face known to ppl.Go into chat rooms and go on cam with ur face on of course and butt into convo(not nice but it can work lol)....basically get urself known on the site that ur not just another guy that sits there directing and that u can hold a converstation with ppl and not just all sex . Good luck

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By *oyston VaseyMan
over a year ago

Sheffield- Pothole City

"also explain why u cant accomadate, i always tend to think the guy is married if he cant accomadate and specially as u cant tavel far....makes me wonder why???"

I personally DO accomodate , but that seems to have made no difference in my case . so a single guy being able to accomodate ,dos`nt make any difference in my opinion .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see if you were closer i would meet you just to stop your whingin lol!!!

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By *unkytigersCouple (FF)
over a year ago

southend

As said before make your messages personal. We can always tell a cut and paste job. Read the person profile fully...you will be surprised at how many now put a 'code word' in their profile to make sure that people do fully read the what has been written.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally DO accomodate , but that seems to have made no difference in my case . so a single guy being able to accomodate ,dos`nt make any difference in my opinion ."

You would have had to have had "can't accomodate, can travel" at some stage for you to really know if that statement is true.

You just need to understand, being able to accomodate is a good thing as it comes across less suspicious... but it isn't likely that people will go to yours on a first meet.

Try and take a different perspective. If you had a partner or a wife and were approached by a guy who couldn't accomodate. Would you wonder why?

...and if you had a partner or a wife, would you want to travel to a guys house the first time you met him. Or would you prefer to meet him at a neutral location near to where you live and then take him back to yours if you liked him? and then after getting to know him, maybe consider going to his the second time around?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally DO accomodate , but that seems to have made no difference in my case . so a single guy being able to accomodate ,dos`nt make any difference in my opinion .

You would have had to have had "can't accomodate, can travel" at some stage for you to really know if that statement is true.

You just need to understand, being able to accomodate is a good thing as it comes across less suspicious... but it isn't likely that people will go to yours on a first meet.

Try and take a different perspective. If you had a partner or a wife and were approached by a guy who couldn't accomodate. Would you wonder why?

That is what he has been told on another thread,but he isnt willing to travel..

There is a club in Sheffield La Chambre,they will do greedy girl nights,maybe that will be best way to get a meet... That would meet leaving your appartment and getting on a bus.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I just think that one weekend away at one of the big socials has got to be worth making loads of new friends,having a great time and if they mean that much,a massive bunch of verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That is what he has been told on another thread,but he isnt willing to travel.."

I know I read that one too. Was just seeing if I could make it all make sense for him.

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By *oyston VaseyMan
over a year ago

Sheffield- Pothole City

"I just think that one weekend away at one of the big socials has got to be worth making loads of new friends,having a great time and if they mean that much,a massive bunch of verifications "

having loads of verifications dosn`t really matter to me ,but obviously untilyou have at least one saying they have met you,it makes meeting anyone very difficult indeed.

The point i was making was people wont meet you without a verification ,but you cant get a verification without a meet- vicious circle .

i will keep trying and hoping

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

OP, I would remove

"preying for someone to meet!!!!!!!

From your profile, whether you are or not, it sounds desperate (no offence)

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