FabSwingers.com forum: Is It Just Me, or Does the Site Feel Very Different From the Expectations?

By *tarlightvoyager21 OP Man
6 weeks ago

London (Shadwell)

I'm finding it hard to believe there are that many genuinely single women under 30 on the site who are only looking for NSA encounters. The same goes for younger swinger couples they seem relatively rare, at least from what I've seen.

A lot of the younger couples I do come across appear to have specific preferences or kinks, which is completely fine, but it does make the pool feel even smaller.

I can also understand why many single men get a negative reputation on sites like this, although I'm not sure whether that's down to culture, user behaviour, or just the way these platforms evolve over time.

Another thing I've noticed is the number of fake profiles, sellers, and people promoting services. It seems odd that this is tolerated on a site that already has fairly limited functionality unless you're paying.

I'm not attacking anyone or judging anyone's preferences I have my own preferences and kinks too. I'm just curious whether others have had similar experiences, or if my perception is off.

What do you think?

just to maintain my peace of mind I'll hide my profile