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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But everyone man I meet off here seem to be tied to time.. having to get back to work, only allocating an hour to meet, finding it difficult to me. Maybe its an excuse to get rid of me!

Does this happen to anyone else?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Married !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some do some dont. an hour or two is good for me. 30 mins hardly seems worthwhile, unless he is realy good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married ! "

Agreed

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

God men have lives too , can just be put on hold for every whim a lady may want . Don't forget this is no strings just sex other things are far far more important x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"God men have lives too , can just be put on hold for every whim a lady may want . Don't forget this is no strings just sex other things are far far more important x"

Far point!

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"But everyone man I meet off here seem to be tied to time.. having to get back to work, only allocating an hour to meet, finding it difficult to me. Maybe its an excuse to get rid of me!

Does this happen to anyone else? "

Maybe your selection process needs some work.

When i meet people, i don't have other pressing engagements, and leave when all parties involved are good and satisfied or i've had enough (sometimes it happens)

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Well actually no it isn't , I think sex and mutual respect for others is very important , truth is we can all find time if we want to xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stay as long as you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know men they cum and go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well actually no it isn't , I think sex and mutual respect for others is very important , truth is we can all find time if we want to xx

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No it is a fair point as it shows that some really do see it as sex is sex nothing more. Unfortunately this is the type of people I dont want to meet. When I posted I was actually referring to a first social meet not sex. But I guess a lot of people arent assed whether im a nice person or not.. as long as I have big boobs and three holes. I will be more vigil in looking out for these and give them a wide birth. Personally I couldnt meet/fuck someone I didnt have a connection with but clearly as your answer shows a lot would I must be nieve.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Yep I'd say married too. Some women like quickies, personally I prefer longer meets... Can't see how with all that anticipation you could walk out after half an hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But everyone man I meet off here seem to be tied to time.. having to get back to work, only allocating an hour to meet, finding it difficult to me. Maybe its an excuse to get rid of me!

Does this happen to anyone else? "

Everybody has other commitments; whether it's work, family or hobbies. For instance, I can only meet Monday eves and alternate weekends but (try to) leave things open ended when I arrange to meet.

... oh and I'm certainly not married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do quick meets, I have a very busy life and find finding time to fit meets in bloody hard, so when I do have a spare evening I want a good quality session not a quicky

To be honest if I met a guy who just wanted to fuck and go id feel more frustrated than if I didn't meet him so id sooner not bother

The key is to find a guy who has a evening free the same time as you, if he don't, that's fair enough, just look else where, whatever your looking for its out there if you look

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I take my time getting to know people before I meet, I know the type of meets I enjoy and if it doesn't suit them, then they are free to look elsewhere.

I'd rather go without than change my preferences, so there are no quickies for me either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have to say im not talking fuck n go... I was talking social meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say im not talking fuck n go... I was talking social meets. "

then a hours fine surely? i've met a few guys in my break from work for a quick drink and a chat, I don't want a who social event with them just to see if we like each other and you only need a hour for that

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I have to say im not talking fuck n go... I was talking social meets. "

In that case, I think an hour is a long enough length of time for a social drink etc rather than a whole afternoon/evening

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Perhaps when you arrange to meet someone, discuss any expectations then, you will then know theirs and see if you both differ?

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over a year ago

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