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No luck at all on here

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By *koda33 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Gravesend

Like seriously people, im not bad surely...just really having no luck on here.

Am I doing something wrong?

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By *harAndBryCouple
3 weeks ago

Downham Market

Not really doing anything wrong as such. Photos are okay, if a bit unpolished. Text is basic and needs a read through by someone to check the errors.

Main issue is that you're up against it with numbers so there's a lot of luck in hitting the right people at the right time. Also....we'd not be interested as it *seems* like you only want long term/regular FWB and we, like a lot of people, look for variety.

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By *acavityMan
3 weeks ago

Redditch

Not saying what you want is wrong or impossible to find.

But finding a longterm FWB is going to be a challenge. It’s probably a small percentage of a small number of people who you find attractive

Maybe try other websites where there might be more women looking for something similar

Good luck

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By *koda33 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Gravesend

Thank you all x

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By *koda33 OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Gravesend

So were should I change and work on

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By *hefoxesofpenCouple
3 weeks ago

chester

I’m not your target audience, but there is ZERO on there that stands out above 10000 other profiles.

The text is short and bland

Some of the pics are out of focus

There is very little sense of who you are, wht you want and what you offer.

You need to pick a few things that you want to say about yourself and do it well.

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By *uenevereWoman
3 weeks ago

Scunthorpe


"Like seriously people, im not bad surely...just really having no luck on here.

Am I doing something wrong?"

Ignoring the advice has certainly not helped things.

At least you look happy in your photos but your text now consists of just 3 words.

This really won't improve your chances.

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By *rownFireMan
3 weeks ago

london

Tough crowd OP.

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By *eroLondonMan
3 weeks ago

Mayfair


"Am I doing something wrong?"

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What do you feel that you're doing right? What stands out about you? What part of your profile is intriguing or enthralling? How do you think you stand out; what is unique about you?

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By *um n raisinWoman
3 weeks ago

taunton

for men its a matter of simple maths ie 100/200 or more men per woman/couple and thats before all the real jazz thats needed ie attraction of sort amd all the other stuff people need before a meet and then bare in mind no 2 women/couples are the same in what they are looking for and whom.... so another worhs men most men like 98% will get nowhere or get odd meets ... its a tough tough scene for men

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By *ookieMonsterMan
3 weeks ago

B’stoke

It’s all about being at the right at the right time and being ready 😇

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By *edheadRookieMan
3 weeks ago

London

Tbh being called Skoda should be enough to get meet.

Skoda Octavia

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By *ootyfruityCouple
3 weeks ago

andover

Honestly your profile could do with a tweak, your bio tells us nothing about what you are looking for or what you can offer, It’s nice to see you don’t have a multitude of cock pics, but I’d probably practise some clearer photos, perhaps try out different pics to stand out.

But we wouldn’t even look at the photos unless the bio catches our attention

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By *4fun xCouple
3 weeks ago

Download Festival

It's a good start putting yourself out and asking for input, and i agree with what a lot of people are saying about it being difficult to stand out. Try to fill out as much information as you can on your profile as a starting point. Get the critical info people are looking for at the top and the rest (that might be interesting) below.

The number one thing for many people is verifications. If you can set up for someone to verify you from a call or attend an event or club, where people are usually happy to verify via fab, that is a route that works for many.

Try not to be disheartened. Send out plenty of messages to anyone who fits your bill, dont be pushy, be open to hearing what people message back, and most importantly make the messages customised to the person you are sending to and well written. If you want to cheat a little (and i know this will be unpopular) use chatGPT to help you write well crafted messages.

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By *edheadRookieMan
3 weeks ago

London


"It's a good start putting yourself out and asking for input, and i agree with what a lot of people are saying about it being difficult to stand out. Try to fill out as much information as you can on your profile as a starting point. Get the critical info people are looking for at the top and the rest (that might be interesting) below.

The number one thing for many people is verifications. If you can set up for someone to verify you from a call or attend an event or club, where people are usually happy to verify via fab, that is a route that works for many.

Try not to be disheartened. Send out plenty of messages to anyone who fits your bill, dont be pushy, be open to hearing what people message back, and most importantly make the messages customised to the person you are sending to and well written. If you want to cheat a little (and i know this will be unpopular) use chatGPT to help you write well crafted messages."

If using chat-gpt remove the long dash otherwise it gives it away ahah.

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