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"We have some but Mrs I does have more x"I’ve had a peep..lol and very nice they are too x | |||
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But we know what you mean, even though kez is only looking to play with the female half, we still like to get an idea of the couple. | |||
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"Agree!! In our experience it's often because attraction is wholly on the woman, as the men are much older and/or aren't as happy with their physique... We have both of us on our profiles but been told that's intimidating too 🫣" Intimidating! There is nothing more sexy than a man’s full length naked picture.. my FWB is younger than me … but your right the men tend to be older | |||
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"For us my pics get very little interest, don’t think many look at the so doesn’t seem a need to add many more. Or maybe they do get noticed and compared to kez I put people off
But we know what you mean, even though kez is only looking to play with the female half, we still like to get an idea of the couple."yes your right there x | |||
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"Women sell unfortunately " maybe but if your a woman in a couple I would like to see the male in the other couple … | |||
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"Women sell unfortunately maybe but if your a woman in a couple I would like to see the male in the other couple … " Yeah same does k’s head in as you get talking to a couple to find that she’s not into mr, and we only play straight | |||
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"That! And I'd like to add something else that annoys me from couples: I hate when they message you but they don't say who it's from. I like to know who I'm talking to!" We would agree, it's better when you know who's messaging from a couple although 8 or 9 times out of 10 you can tell if it's the Mr or the Mrs. As regarasa the balance of pictures, surely it relates to what the target audience - if you are a couple mainly meeting other couples then the balance of m and f pics needs to reflect this. If you are a hotwife couple and you mainly look for other men as we do, it makes sense for the overwhelming majority of pics to be of the mrs | |||
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"I don't get it. Especially when he's looking to play... Well we need to see what you both look like Also be nice to sign off on the message with who's replying But 9.9/10 you can bet it's the man you're chatting to. " we will say who is chatting and always say who we are .. | |||
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"I don't get it. Especially when he's looking to play... Well we need to see what you both look like Also be nice to sign off on the message with who's replying But 9.9/10 you can bet it's the man you're chatting to. " we will say who is chatting and always say who we are .. | |||
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"We have a couple of him but as we don't (yet) share nudes, he feels girls have the advantage of wearing clothes and still being sexual (tight dresses etc) whereas dressed guys are a bit more regular " You can’t beat a picture of a man in tight white boxers with a hard on mmmm 😋 | |||
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"We have a couple of him but as we don't (yet) share nudes, he feels girls have the advantage of wearing clothes and still being sexual (tight dresses etc) whereas dressed guys are a bit more regular You can’t beat a picture of a man in tight white boxers with a hard on mmmm 😋 " his would probably be a murky grey as Ive messed up the washing again  | |||
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"I don't get it. Especially when he's looking to play... Well we need to see what you both look like Also be nice to sign off on the message with who's replying But 9.9/10 you can bet it's the man you're chatting to. we will say who is chatting and always say who we are .. " I try to sign off when I remember but I do forget a lot of the time | |||
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"Ours are mainly fem with one or two of male. Our focus is to meet couples or females for the fem’s enjoyment, hence the majority of our profile is focused on her. Male is just the wingman in this profile." This is what I tend to conclude when the profile is full of pics of the woman only, that it'd all be focused on her and he's not going to be as involved much. I'm not going to be for them and vice versa,so I'd avoid those profiles. As we are full straight swap only, we have plenty of pics of my other half on our joint profile. | |||
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"Can anyone tell me why on the couple profiles that there is only women’s pictures. As a woman I would love to see the men’s pictures have the same airing as us ladies …" We are bad for this mainly because I hate being photographed (I have zero self esteem and despise what I look like) I have resolved to try and get better at it in the coming months though | |||
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"Tbf. Following on from my previous reply mind. Historically I’ve never seen women even a little interested in photos of any kind" Oh we are interested..... especially of men in a couples profile.....maybe someone will start a thread about it | |||
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"That! And I'd like to add something else that annoys me from couples: I hate when they message you but they don't say who it's from. I like to know who I'm talking to!" • Whilst couples aren't my target audience (unless the woman plays alone) I've had similar subterfuge and deceit from couples in the distant past; not knowing who on earth I'm chatting to because they purposely leave it unclear. | |||
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"Tbf. Following on from my previous reply mind. Historically I’ve never seen women even a little interested in photos of any kind Oh we are interested..... especially of men in a couples profile.....maybe someone will start a thread about it "They should indeed | |||
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""... ...but frankly {name redacted} is much more photogenic; ... ...a couple of me, but I always say put your best foot forward; ... ...No one really gives two hoots what I look like; ... ...the men are much older and/or aren't as happy with their physique; ... ...the guy pictures get little to none response anyway"" • It's quite lamentable and disappointing to read such 'excuses' why men are so reticent to represent themselves. Can you imagine what people would think if a singleton male had no images whatsoever on his profile? I'm a straight male who only engages with women; I don't play with MF couples at all. The rare exception is when the F from the MF profile is looking to meet alone, ostensibly as a singleton woman (when they've messaged me in the first instance). In order for that to happen I need to ensure that both parties are on the same page (consent/acquiesce) with clear boundaries. The only time this is less important is when the woman has her own profile, which isn't always the case. Having photos of the male gives credence and validity to their couples profile and adds a layer of reassurance (for me). | |||
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"Agree!! In our experience it's often because attraction is wholly on the woman, as the men are much older and/or aren't as happy with their physique... We have both of us on our profiles but been told that's intimidating too 🫣" Keep having both , it’s much better Xx | |||
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"Can anyone tell me why on the couple profiles that there is only women’s pictures. As a woman I would love to see the men’s pictures have the same airing as us ladies …" Because that is what the couple choose to put on their profile. If it works for them there's no need to either explain the balance or change their profile. If it doesn't work for you then move on to another profile. | |||
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