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"If it’s on my terms and I’m in the right mood - Yes. If it’s some random person messaging me their strange fantasy, and talking to me like I’m not human, no." I should have said that exactly lol Now I’m getting weird messages all over lol | |||
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"I can’t stop thinking about a big sexy man now xx" I can`t stop thinking of you thinking about big sexy horny men now , dam it`s catching lol | |||
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"What’s a race play? " I think it's some kind of role play using racist terms and tropes but everyone has agreed to it beforehand. Not for me, would make me feel very uncomfortable. | |||
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"What’s a race play? I think it's some kind of role play using racist terms and tropes but everyone has agreed to it beforehand. Not for me, would make me feel very uncomfortable. " Thanks. I’m glad I didn’t google it up and asked here. Not for me either | |||
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"Although it is not for me,the thing about "non-hedonist kink" is that it exists in the taboo socially unacceptable area. The problem is the increase in vanilla/ hedonist people claiming they are kinky and fetishists but who only play in the safe and acceptable Ann Summers depiction of kink, such as light sensation and play for arousal. For me, the point about kink/fetish is that it is an innate, it is also taboo and socially unacceptable and not just a pose for sex. There is nuance to the comment on racial slurs that should be added. In fetish terms, *raceplay* refers to: A consensual activity (which may involve sex) in which participants take on racially defined roles that may involve language, imagery, or dynamics rooted in race-based social or historical power structures. So, it can be just dynamics without language. I would mention raceplay works both ways, it is not just white master/ mistress and POC inferior, there are the black masters/ mistresses and white inferiors. I feel that provided there is genuine consent between those involved (including people in the vicinity) and no lasting harm is caused and it is handled sensitively, consenting adults should do what consenting adults want to do. " ☺️☺️❤️❤️ | |||
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