FabSwingers.com forum: ONCE BITTEN, TWICE SHY

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh the joys of FAB ! Most people are great, but some make you wonder !

A few months ago I was contacted by a couple from EBBW VALE. Arranged to meet, struggled 20 miles through traffic in rush hour, almost there, text :

" Sorry have to cancel, family emergency "

Oh well I think, fair enough, these things happen and at least they had the good grace to let me know.

Lo and behold they contacted me again this week, same scenario, almost there, another " FAMILY EMERGENCY "

except this time they are still posting a meet for today on their profile:

" MALE ALONE LOOKING FOR ANY FUN"

which is somewhat different to the couple meet request they had up yesterday !

New motto, NO SECOND CHANCE

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

That's annoying for you. We've got a no second chance rule now too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's annoying for you. We've got a no second chance rule now too."

I wouldn't let you down on that first meet

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"That's annoying for you. We've got a no second chance rule now too.

I wouldn't let you down on that first meet

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I have been called a bitch so many times for having a No Second Chance rule. Rile applies if I have set off from home of started to get ready if accommodating.

Yes I know there are family emergencies and things do crop up but I find it hard to believe they can happen when I am en route.....

If that makes me a bitch so be it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 threads all about the same couple that you've more or less named and shamed

One side of a story...yours!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not named anyone in the forums, and they are perfectly entitled to respond, I would have it no other way ! I am a regular forum contributor and try to give a balanced opinion and help where possible. Surely I am entitled to the use of the facilities myself ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mentioned the male is meeting alone. Maybe it was one of those cases of a man pretending to be a couple. Block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not named anyone in the forums, and they are perfectly entitled to respond, I would have it no other way ! I am a regular forum contributor and try to give a balanced opinion and help where possible. Surely I am entitled to the use of the facilities myself ?"

as far as i can see you're airing your dirty laundry which is'nt allowed,you've put their location in capitals to make it more obvious who they are which is more or less naming and shaming which is'nt allowed and you've started 3 threads which is over the top

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto

And yet when a woman makes a similar thread, or a "woe is me" post in almost every thread (yes, they exist), the thread would be double the size with people consoling her and single male bashing.

Clearly he's frustrated so let him use the forums to vent.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

You dont need three threads plus comments on your status too.

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