FabSwingers.com forum: Hothusband

By *heElvingtonTwo OP Couple
7 weeks ago

The Ramtops

I’ve asked this before but only as a response to a thread. This is the first time I’ve actually made a thread about it.

I see a lot of hotwife threads and there seems to be a general prevalent culture in the swinging lifestyle of men who want to have sex with other men’s wives.

Now I know the opposite does exist in the form of hot husbands (see thread name) but it never seems to be discussed. Is it a myth? Is it just lost in all the “let me bang your wife” threads or are women just wholly uninterested and so, like all dating culture, it just ends up entirely dominated by horny men?

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By *rishguy29Man
7 weeks ago

anywhere

I’ve never personally noticed myself or met a girl who likes to watch a guy with another girl so I’m pretty curious to know if it’s a myth or not myself

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By *heElvingtonTwo OP Couple
7 weeks ago

The Ramtops

"I’ve never personally noticed myself or met a girl who likes to watch a guy with another girl so I’m pretty curious to know if it’s a myth or not myself"

It’s very much what my lady wants but we seem to be in a minority of 2 lol

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By *aughty_guy12Man
7 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

It’s a thing. Can confirm

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

I made a thread asking this OP it was very low. Most wanted to be present and to watch rather than the whole hothusband going out and coming back to them. I'd say there were around 4 couples on the full thread who said they did this.

It does seem males seem to be more into the hotwife dynamic than the other way around, appears a much more female focused dynamic.

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By *herrybakewellCouple
7 weeks ago

Staffordshire

We always find its less common. It almost feels like a huge insecurity in couples. The woman can do as she pleases, the man does as he's told.

We're very much a hotwife hot husband couple. We have our solo adventures and prefer it to meeting couples.

We also don't sit in the corner and watch each other, as that just feels like a scientific experiment which detracts from the experience for everyone.

Jay's account is Fwb85 if anyone is looking.

Mrs. X

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By *ebbie69Couple
7 weeks ago

milton keynes

Although far less common, it is a thing and something I (Debbie) would be interested participating in. On the odd occasion it's been suggested to me I asked to meet both from the couple to make sure they are a genuine couple and to make sure the lady was really ok with her hubby going off with me. On every occasion I was told it was not possible to meet the lady which makes me highly suspicious it's just a guy only

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By *heElvingtonTwo OP Couple
7 weeks ago

The Ramtops

"Although far less common, it is a thing and something I (Debbie) would be interested participating in. On the odd occasion it's been suggested to me I asked to meet both from the couple to make sure they are a genuine couple and to make sure the lady was really ok with her hubby going off with me. On every occasion I was told it was not possible to meet the lady which makes me highly suspicious it's just a guy only"

That is understandable. I think for us any first meet would have to have both of us present mainly because a first meet is a vibe check for us. Have a drink make sure there’s chemistry and everyone is on the same page then go from there

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By *ap-scarCouple
7 weeks ago

Sleaford

I asked this question a few threads down. We are very much into hothusband/hotwifing and captain has watched a couple of times with me and another guy. I would love to return the favour. Its not about the cuck side of things, its more voyeurism for us. We would be happy fo meet a couple socially first or a single lady before deep diving into it. I think single guys are more open to this.

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By *heElvingtonTwo OP Couple
7 weeks ago

The Ramtops

"I asked this question a few threads down. We are very much into hothusband/hotwifing and captain has watched a couple of times with me and another guy. I would love to return the favour. Its not about the cuck side of things, its more voyeurism for us. We would be happy fo meet a couple socially first or a single lady before deep diving into it. I think single guys are more open to this. "

A is the same. For her it’s the experience of seeing another woman as she feels the things A feels when she has sex with me. Hearing the other woman’s pleasure and thinking “I know how that feels”

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By *usty kayWoman
7 weeks ago

Burnham on Sea

I would love my husband to actively be a hot husband. I have been able to enjoy him being out with a grand total of one woman because on here is is just another single guy and married so obviously cheating to boot. He gave up trying years ago and just enjoys my adventures which I find really sad.

I want to explore every dynamic of him being a hot husband potentially even eventually being a cuckqueen but I don't think it's meant to be

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By *layful Sub BratWoman
7 weeks ago

Greater London

You are a Cuckquean then. A quean likes to hear about / watch / serve her husband , as he plays with another woman (referred to as a cupcake).

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By *layful Sub BratWoman
7 weeks ago

Greater London

I love being a cupcake... Especially with so many power play scenarios.

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By *heElvingtonTwo OP Couple
7 weeks ago

The Ramtops

"I would love my husband to actively be a hot husband. I have been able to enjoy him being out with a grand total of one woman because on here is is just another single guy and married so obviously cheating to boot. He gave up trying years ago and just enjoys my adventures which I find really sad.

I want to explore every dynamic of him being a hot husband potentially even eventually being a cuckqueen but I don't think it's meant to be "

I feel the same I periodically loose hope and give up but then I inevitably try again. But yeah it feels like I’m wasting my time everyone just wants to fuck A and what we want is irrelevant

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By *etwife8230Couple
7 weeks ago

Newport

Happy for mine to be a hot husband 🥰

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By (user no longer on site)
7 weeks ago

Not sure how to qualify but something to aspire to

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
7 weeks ago

Epsom

Hot husband at your service

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By *ongandthick888Man
7 weeks ago

Leeds

Even more niche - do many women like to see their hot-husband with another guy?

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