FabSwingers.com forum: Why do bi guys frighten folks

By *ymac580 OP Man
8 weeks ago

Derby

Are bi guys inherently different to bi ladies in principle

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By *essTTWoman
8 weeks ago

Birmingham

Because they're biphobic and small minded.

In their heads bi men are secretly gay

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By *iss DevilWoman
8 weeks ago

Bedford

Sadly, yes. Bi ladies are the dream of most men, as most male fantasy is seeing two (or more) ladies playing together. Bi men- too many men are scared of catching "the ghey", or believing they would not be seen as "manly enough", even though at least some of the "straight" ones would happily fuck a convincing TV.

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By *ymac580 OP Man
8 weeks ago

Derby

To me people are people

And I enjoy doing what is appropriate for the pleasure of the company I'm in

I enjoy other people having a good time

Does that make sense

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By *essTTWoman
8 weeks ago

Birmingham

"To me people are people

And I enjoy doing what is appropriate for the pleasure of the company I'm in

I enjoy other people having a good time

Does that make sense "

Yes

Complete sense

I am the same and I love bi men

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By *iss DevilWoman
8 weeks ago

Bedford

"To me people are people

And I enjoy doing what is appropriate for the pleasure of the company I'm in

I enjoy other people having a good time

Does that make sense

Yes

Complete sense

I am the same and I love bi men "
same here. It's a huge turn on, seeing men play with each other.

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By *urdoch261Man
8 weeks ago

chester

Great to see that some people are not anti bi men thanks ladies x

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
8 weeks ago

norwich ish

We aren’t anti any sexuality. Each to their own. In fact some of the best club nights we go to have a more varied crowd.

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By *inky fun couple 2027Couple
8 weeks ago

Newby/Scarborough

We think its because they are scared that the male will pounce on the straight male pmsl, we are both bi but always play withing the parameters of boundaries, even when we play with bi males,females or couples we always make sure everyone is comfortable and consenting.

Although we do find bi play more exciting we dont push for it xx

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By *atpussygood69Man
8 weeks ago

wakefield

I am a Bi male but I play within the parameters of the meet I can play straight or play with the guy in a mmf.

But generally if I am attracted to a person and it feels right I will play with them

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By *ngelLordCouple
8 weeks ago

Newport

Everyone for different reasons their on choice but definitely since we hv bot bi on profile not many interested to meet us

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By *acavityMan
8 weeks ago

Redditch

"I am a Bi male but I play within the parameters of the meet I can play straight or play with the guy in a mmf.

But generally if I am attracted to a person and it feels right I will play with them

Do you think it might be projection. The straight guy is worried that the bi man will ignore boundaries and consent, and do what he wants to the straight guy? Treating the straight guy like the straight guy treats women?

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By *eautifully TwistedWoman
8 weeks ago

Bognor Regis

If the guy isn't interested in other men then why would they want to meet a bi guy? I don't think it's about being scared it's about the sexual preferences of said people.

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By *ickedwillyCouple
8 weeks ago

Bangor

Bi guys don’t scare us.

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By *AYENCouple
8 weeks ago

Lincolnshire

"I am a Bi male but I play within the parameters of the meet I can play straight or play with the guy in a mmf.

But generally if I am attracted to a person and it feels right I will play with them

Are you saying all us straight guys ignore boundaries set by women?

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By *aveonMan
8 weeks ago

Dartford

Some guys are not interested in guys, and confident of that, some are curious, want to be naked and touch but have a mental block not allowing them to go further !

Then those who are varying levels of bi I suppose ? (Ranging from wanking with other men through to being fully versatile, kissing etc.)

I think those scared of bi guys are those unsure themselves of maybe considering being with another man

I certainly remember feeling that way myself - being scared about it, but once I tried it a few times was able to forget social conditioning and be much more open minded

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By *ealitybitesMan
8 weeks ago

Belfast

I don't know anyone who openly identifies as bi and I don't meet couples so it's all hypothetical.

As such bi men don't frighten me at all but based on comments on forum threads where some bi men and couples are of the opinion that everyone is a little bi and that anyone who claims they aren't are just afraid of their own sexuality or are narrow minded there will be a lot of straight people who feel that bi men and couples won't respect their preferences.

I'm also one half of a fab couple and we wouldn't meet a bi man for this reason and also because my completely straight lady friend has had messages in the past from couples asking her to play bi and telling her she doesn't know what she's missing if she's never tried.

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By *essTTWoman
8 weeks ago

Birmingham

"I am a Bi male but I play within the parameters of the meet I can play straight or play with the guy in a mmf.

But generally if I am attracted to a person and it feels right I will play with them

Are you saying all us straight guys ignore boundaries set by women? "

This is not what they said

However nearly every woman has a story where her boundaries have been ignored by a man

But no, not all men

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By *acavityMan
8 weeks ago

Redditch

"I am a Bi male but I play within the parameters of the meet I can play straight or play with the guy in a mmf.

But generally if I am attracted to a person and it feels right I will play with them

Are you saying all us straight guys ignore boundaries set by women? "

I'm asking if the straight men who won't play alongside openly bi men (lots of "straight" men message me, so the label means little) are worried about their consent being violated, because that's how they view the world.

Not all men, just those who don't trust other people to respect boundaries.

Personally, I'm bi, but if I'm with a couple, I'm going to be focused more on the lady, than the other man, even if he were bi. If he was straight, I'm not going to ruin the situation by trying something.

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By *westnkinkyMan
7 weeks ago

Southport

Double standards.....its ok for a girl to want to go with another girl but...soon as its a guy saying hes bi they run a mile

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
7 weeks ago

Manchester

Frightened? lol

Indifferent describes it better. They are free to enjoy their preferences but bring nothing to the deal that would attract either of us.

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
7 weeks ago

London

I don't consider myself frightening. However, there is still a lot of bi-phobia against bi guys

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