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Has anyone ever been used ?!?

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By *eautyandthebeast86 OP   Couple
3 hours ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

We have had a new experience never had before, we have had a unicorn over for 3 hours in the hottub on the sofa all getting involved and having a great time, no drama just soft fun. The minute she climaxed she pretty much left , all fine though and had some cuddles and kisses and walked her to near her car but when I texted to check she got home safe was blocked both on watsapp and here ? Have we just been used ?

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By *eliWoman
3 hours ago

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Maybe.

Or maybe it wasn't as enjoyable from her side.

It's rubbish there wasn't communication, that's poor behaviour. And feeling used isn't great but you'll never actually know now. Feel a bit meh, that's fine. Hopefully you won't experience that again.

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By *tickler2000Man
3 hours ago

St Agnes

Yeah. She took me fekkin house

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By *aandLoCouple
2 hours ago

Southampton

I'm not sure if you've been used, but she clearly doesn't want another meet.

There's so many possible questions: did you spend time connecting before the meet or was it more a spontaneous, horny meet? Did d you discuss whether it would be a one off? Did she enjoy it as much as you and your partner did? Could there have been something that in hindsight she felt didn't work? Etc etc

If you can honestly say you were considerate of her needs and boundaries, in the same way as you are as a couple, you can do no more. She has left you no avenue to talk about how it went for all of you, perhaps you need to try and put it down to experience and move on.

Easier said than done I know. 🫤

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By *iss DevilWoman
2 hours ago

Bedford

I wouldn't necessarily call it "being used". Obviously don't know what was discussed beforehand, what sort of rules were set up, if it was all made clear it was going to be soft play only, and whether it was set as a one-off. I'm guessing she just decided she didn't want to meet again, some people do prefer just one-offs.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
2 hours ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

Yup, and it made me feel like a right chump

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By *done777Man
2 hours ago

Northwest(Derry/Donegal)

Yep, had a mfmf meet here a few years back with a lady & couple.

Once the guy climaxed he started getting dressed & basically said to his partner that she can stay but he's gone, bit of confusion & myself & the lady told the partner it might be for the best if she left Incase it escalates further, blocked & never heard from them again

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By *eautyandthebeast86 OP   Couple
2 hours ago

Somewhere in Norfolk ask :)

Maybe it’s due to me and my partner both didn’t climax but we don’t care about that sort of thing we are there just to have honest fun and climax isn’t something we worry about ? It was discussed that she would message when home safe and also said she would like to set something up regularly, we did discuss prior that it was to be soft only and she was totally fine with that, she was also very dominant but we let her lead because we thought it would make her more comfortable?

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By *aomilatteCouple
2 hours ago

Midlands

She may have pretended to climax as she wanted to leave. Not everyone connects with everyone. You've got good verifications so obviously have made good connections, just not with the Lady mentioned.

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By *udelawfsMan
2 hours ago

A pristine town

There are thousands of possibilities. Maybe she didn’t want another meet. Maybe she accidentally blocked both of you. Maybe she didn’t want verification from you. Maybe she fell in love with both of you and decided blocking was cheaper than therapy. Maybe her post-orgasm brain hits block button as a sensory response… lol.

But here’s the brutal part, you’ll never know, and honestly, you don’t need to know. Please don’t donate more emotional energy to this. Every extra second spent decoding it is just quality time wasted. Move on.

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
1 hour ago

southam

I was invited to his room he had me strip to panties and wait with my hands above my head to show my submission after a long wait he drew out his big cock and had me kneel and suck it until he came in my mouth he then dismissed me with barely time to pull on my jeans and shirt, I ask if i might just touch myself breifly but he said he was busy my little cock was still hard and raging in my panties as i descended in the lift but it felt so incredibly right for me

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By *anderingWelshGuyMan
60 minutes ago

Swansea

Yes and I absolutely fucking loved it haha

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By *lkGuyMagic24Man
57 minutes ago

Kingswood

Maybe she had post nut clarity and realised she wasn’t up for it as much as she thought

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