FabSwingers.com forum: How open are you?

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Question more for couples and single females, do you tell your close friends, work colleagues etc about your swinger life/hotwife etc antics?

I get the feeling if you were sat at your desk and a colleague asked what you got up to and the weekend not many would answer with “I fucked a BBC while my hubby watched” haha

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By *aomilatteCouple
2 days ago

Midlands

We don't even discuss our sex life with anyone, so definitely wouldn't discuss swinging. Some people are very open though.

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By *otwife_couple_hullCouple
2 days ago

Hull

I tell nobody which can be a very lonely thing.

I do know my bf has got to know a woman at work who is in the scene and I know he's told her as much, through insinuation (ie knowing the name of local clubs), but that it was her who was open with him first. He's also, in his past, been very open about his kink life.

It'd be nice to be able to talk about it. I guess that's why I chat on here.

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By *etsbenaughty69Couple
2 days ago

Essex

This is apart of our life that we like to keep to ourselves..

It’s not for family or friends to know..

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By (user no longer on site)
2 days ago

With the general public and work colleagues, absolutely closed.

That said, I don't even chat about songs I love, art I've seen, filmstars I like etc

I am a very private person except for with a chosen few.

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By *ice_genuine_guy OP Man
2 days ago

around

Very much the answers I was expecting and I suppose with the social side of the life style maybe that helps people, after all it’s about communication too.

Wondering if in this ever changing world and I can already notice it becoming less taboo maybe in a few years it will be far more accepted than it is now

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By *rincess MayaCouple
2 days ago

Exeter

I have always thought this is a very secretive lifestyle and would like to feel that people would not judge, sadly I don’t think that is the case.

This is why I like the ‘forums’ an opportunity to discuss ur little kinks.

I went to work one Monday and was asked in the kitchen area while making a cup of tea. What did you get up to at the weekend?

I replied I went to an orgy , not one person took me seriously.

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By *ucifer And MazikeenCouple
2 days ago

Derbyshire

The only people that know about our secret lifestyle apart from our swinger friends is us. We are not here to brag to our vanilla friends or work mates we are here as a couple to have fun as a couple in the lifestyle for us.

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By *ice_genuine_guy OP Man
2 days ago

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"I have always thought this is a very secretive lifestyle and would like to feel that people would not judge, sadly I don’t think that is the case.

This is why I like the ‘forums’ an opportunity to discuss ur little kinks.

I went to work one Monday and was asked in the kitchen area while making a cup of tea. What did you get up to at the weekend?

I replied I went to an orgy , not one person took me seriously.

Haha if only they knew huh? But agree I love these forums

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By *aramel.desiresMan
2 days ago

Surrey

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By * and G CoupleCouple
2 days ago

London

"We don't even discuss our sex life with anyone, so definitely wouldn't discuss swinging. Some people are very open though."

Same here

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By *aramel.desiresMan
2 days ago

Surrey

I'm happy to talk about the lifestyle but only to enlighten and educate.

If the subject pops up I say everyone has a little kink in them or how can vanilla/missionary be for everyone it's just not possible!

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By *oupleLookingToExploreCouple
2 days ago

Liverpool

No one other than the people we have seen at clubs who we know in our personal life know! Was a little awkward at first but discretion is important to most on here x

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By *tms1xCouple
2 days ago

Chelmsford

We discuss a bit with close friends but not fully about our swinging life

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By *uxurycollectionCouple
2 days ago

Port Talbot

Mrs has told a couple of her close friends but that’s it.

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By *aveonMan
2 days ago

Dartford

Totally not discussed with anyone - my private life and escape from the everyday

Was at the local naturist club last week, two women, another guy and myself, all naked and having a totally open discussion about what we all enjoy sexually in a totally non sexual way !

It is exactly what we were saying - you just would not have a discussion as we were in everyday life !

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By *etwife8230Couple
2 days ago

Newport

Absolutely no one x

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By *aramel.desiresMan
2 days ago

Surrey

I think you can discuss the lifestyle without discussing your sex life.

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By *eeshellsCouple
2 days ago

Reading

We had a chat on the way to see Seeshell's best friends from uni about telling them. They don't know anyone else from our current vanilla life.

Decided not to. Good idea, the chat turned to a nearby nudist beach and they were very dismissive of naturists. We parked that idea quite quickly.

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By *oleraine-coupleCouple
2 days ago

Coleraine

We have told just one good friend of hubby’s and that’s largely because of two reasons

We have detailed knowledge of his affairs and also before I sucked his cock for him a few times when staying with us.

No one else knows anything

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By *akednorthernerMan
2 days ago

leeds

I’m quite open. Most of my friends either know or are involved in what I do.

Wouldn’t hide anything from friends or family if they asked

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