FabSwingers.com forum: Male expectations

By *ND91 OP Man
2 days ago

Driffield

So I know this will be a controversial opinion-

But here goes…

Men sometimes DON’T help themselves on here.. but…

We all know it’s very important not to insult woman and to treat people with respect (rightfully so)

But men get a very rough ride sometimes on here - very very high expectations, being ignored, rude or dismissive comments, treat as an inconvenience unless they are in the top 1%.Expected to fuck like porn stars at the drop of a hat.

I believe equality should mean equality and we should all be a little nicer and more understanding towards each other

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By *iver78Man
2 days ago

barton upon humber

Fully agree ,

I used to react to it but now I just silence to myself and block rude people

Oddly I find it's the less attractive people or faceless profiles that are the rude ones

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By *oupleInSyncCouple
2 days ago

Falkirk

Definitely not looking for the top 1% of the site. Who decides who that is in the first place? "Normal" most definitely isn't for us that's for sure. We treat everyone with the same respect, but it seldom comes back the other way.

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By *ND91 OP Man
2 days ago

Driffield

Thanks for the great reply..totally agree! Plenty of woman are amazing on here but there seems to be an undercurrent who won’t accept any less than gerrard butler x porn star .. seems strangely high expectations sometimes!

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By *ND91 OP Man
2 days ago

Driffield

So refreshing to hear! We should all just respect each other is the overall vibe I’m aiming for.. can be rough on here for guys some times and has the potential for negative mental health impact xx

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By *eri24Woman
1 day ago

Bridgend

I'm not looking for gerard butler or a porn star

Just someone who's compatible and I'm attracted to

So many men don't understand that not everyone is for everyone and preferences are important

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By *hamallamadingdongMan
1 day ago

London

Everyone should have standards. That's ok. Unrealistic expectations is a different matter. For some they are the same thing.

Focus on yourself and enjoy the journey OP.

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By *ND91 OP Man
1 day ago

Driffield

"I'm not looking for gerard butler or a porn star

Just someone who's compatible and I'm attracted to

So many men don't understand that not everyone is for everyone and preferences are important "

Totally agree .. thank you! X

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
Forum Mod
1 day ago

Central

Most people will get together with regular people, not a 1% upper term

I just treat people well, whether we are mutually compatible or not. I appreciate how tough it can be for men and I don't envy them.

We can all just respect others and make our impact this way

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By *ND91 OP Man
1 day ago

Driffield

"Everyone should have standards. That's ok. Unrealistic expectations is a different matter. For some they are the same thing.

Focus on yourself and enjoy the journey OP."

Amen x

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By *hickthighs26Woman
1 day ago

funky town

I agree some people (women) on here get a superiority complex because if the influx of men telling them there beautiful. Its nice to be mice and stay humble

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By *ND91 OP Man
1 day ago

Driffield

"I agree some people (women) on here get a superiority complex because if the influx of men telling them there beautiful. Its nice to be mice and stay humble

Amen! Great words! X

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