FabSwingers.com forum: Hotel meet yes/no and why?

By *orseCool OP Man
2 days ago

Doncaster

You know what to do

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By *eductiveSecretsWoman
2 days ago

Birmingham

Absolutely yes! Mutual ground and being safe are a priority.

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By *hornyx69Man
2 days ago

dover

That’s a yes from me

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By *oiluvfunMan
2 days ago

Birmingham

Absolutely! Neutral ground, private, comfortable, no rush, and no cleaning up afterwards! What’s not to like? 😎

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By *hinstrapMan
2 days ago

sheffield

A yes from me

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By *hitehorsefunCouple
2 days ago

Wantage

With a couple yes, single male nah!

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By *abulincsCouple
2 days ago

near a bridge

Tried it many times and also had lots of Time wasters like any other meet we like it as neutral

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By *ustyandhard123Couple
2 days ago

Newark

No, because I like to make noise and can never relax! Luckily we can usually host and so not a problem.

(A- the f)

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By *ymbunny99Woman
2 days ago

sheerness

No, was held against my will once in a hotel room, never again unless I know them

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By *WB85Man
2 days ago

Staffordshire

All of my meets of that nature are in hotels. Its neutral and is far better than handing our your address.

From a safety perspective, always atleast one socially initially.

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By *WB85Man
2 days ago

Staffordshire

"No, was held against my will once in a hotel room, never again unless I know them "

Can I ask what you find safer?

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By *aandLoCouple
2 days ago

Southampton

We love a hotel. Feels that bit naughtier.

We don't worry about noise except on one occasion when the lady checking in at the same time as us, then followed us to the room next door.

We were meeting a sexy friend for a threesome, while the lady looked like she would be in the room for the evening. We requested to move.

Felt awkward having met her when we knew we'd (well, Mrs!) be a bit noisy for quite a few hours. 🤣

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By *oppet22TV/TS
2 days ago

huddersfield

Yes definitely

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By *tandbyme555Man
2 days ago

mitcham

No. I prefer to accommodate. Being in a hotel room makes it sleazy and uncomfortable

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By *akedambitionsMan
2 days ago

St Austell

Always yes from me good traveller too

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By *orthantscouple25Couple
2 days ago

Northampton

Yes. We have done this a lot and now do it regularly!

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By *ymbunny99Woman
2 days ago

sheerness

"No, was held against my will once in a hotel room, never again unless I know them

Can I ask what you find safer? "

I prefer clubs, there are lots of people around

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By *orthfieldsNickMan
2 days ago

West London

Not for me

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By *eroLondonMan
2 days ago

Mayfair

Hotel. Always. It's neutral territory, convenient and secure.

I meet for a social (or two) first before taking things further at a future date.

There is much delight in the notion of meeting someone at a hotel bar, imbibing and taking our sexual frisson to the next level, before being sequestered into a comfortable room and embarking on a dalliance that lingers for days after.

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By *WB85Man
2 days ago

Staffordshire

"No, was held against my will once in a hotel room, never again unless I know them

Can I ask what you find safer?

I prefer clubs, there are lots of people around "

That makes sense...its always a risk meeting a new person.

I've never enjoyed the club scene so its not an option for me.

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By *haringisCaring1208Couple
2 days ago

Lurgan

Yes for us. Our first ever meet was in a hotel

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By *ixenFoxCouple
2 days ago

Glasgow

Yes for us, more convenient in the city centre.

We also use it as a filter... if a single guy messages us for a 3sum we tell them to book a hotel and we'll be there. 99% of the time they immediately vanish!

Funny that! 💋

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By *imply_SensualMan
2 days ago

Cheshire

Yes, it can start in public, its neutral ground, and there is something psychologically sexy about a hotel meet.

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By *ixenFoxCouple
2 days ago

Glasgow

Yes for us, more convenient in the city centre.

We also use it as a filter... if a single guy messages us for a 3sum we tell them to book a hotel and we'll be there. 99% of the time they immediately vanish!

Funny that! 💋

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By *hunkymonkey81Man
2 days ago

Sheffield

Big beds lots of room chairs for bending over large showers

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By *ad4ladys1973Man
2 days ago

Southport

Love to get the chance either a sexy milf or gilf or couple!!

Southport calling (or Manchester or Liverpool lol!)

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By *orseCool OP Man
2 days ago

Doncaster

Why, this what i want to understand,.please

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By *orseCool OP Man
2 days ago

Doncaster

Such shame, why would someone send somebody to hotel but not show up

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By *orseCool OP Man
2 days ago

Doncaster

Guys open invitation here

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By *orseCool OP Man
2 days ago

Doncaster

It is a trust issue here i think

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By *orseCool OP Man
2 days ago

Doncaster

How was it

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By *sWyldWoman
2 days ago

Edinburgh

Always prefer hotels. Needs to be a nice one though!

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By *orseCool OP Man
2 days ago

Doncaster

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By *orseCool OP Man
2 days ago

Doncaster

Here we go, we have to treat the queen, so why then hotel?

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By *orseCool OP Man
2 days ago

Doncaster

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By *layfullsamMan
2 days ago

Solihull

Hell yes,

Bar downstairs so ideal for the initial social, mutual ground, other people about so safe etc

Room above if the meet progresses to that point

Regularly in hotels mid week but sadly lots won’t meet visitors to the area even if I’m there all through the year regularly

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By *orseCool OP Man
2 days ago

Doncaster

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By *orseCool OP Man
2 days ago

Doncaster

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By *eroLondonMan
2 days ago

Mayfair

"Wtf, where are we here, what happened?"

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By *orseCool OP Man
2 days ago

Doncaster

"Absolutely yes! Mutual ground and being safe are a priority."
, yes i understand, safty first

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By *orseCool OP Man
2 days ago

Doncaster

"Absolutely! Neutral ground, private, comfortable, no rush, and no cleaning up afterwards! What’s not to like? 😎"
that is true

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By *orseCool OP Man
2 days ago

Doncaster

"With a couple yes, single male nah!"
, yes why? Please let us know

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By *orseCool OP Man
2 days ago

Doncaster

"Tried it many times and also had lots of Time wasters like any other meet we like it as neutral "
, I do not understand why people would give a meeting and not show up or not interested to meet

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By *orseCool OP Man
2 days ago

Doncaster

"Yes for us, more convenient in the city centre.

We also use it as a filter... if a single guy messages us for a 3sum we tell them to book a hotel and we'll be there. 99% of the time they immediately vanish!

Funny that! 💋"
, stupid isn't it

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
2 days ago

Scotland

We would only ever meet in a hotel. There’s no way we would give strangers our home address especially as we have kids at home and I (Gem) wouldn’t feel comfortable going to someone else’s home unless we became regular and I knew them really well. However how well can you actually know someone you casually meet for sex 🫣

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By *orseCool OP Man
2 days ago

Doncaster

"We would only ever meet in a hotel. There’s no way we would give strangers our home address especially as we have kids at home and I (Gem) wouldn’t feel comfortable going to someone else’s home unless we became regular and I knew them really well. However how well can you actually know someone you casually meet for sex 🫣"
, well I've met some at home and found very cosy and private, but as you said when someone you do not trust, it is a solution

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By *orseCool OP Man
2 days ago

Doncaster

"Yes definitely "
, safe isn't it

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By *xDecadent_ColoursxxMan
2 days ago

Glasgow

Yes, but only with someone I'd already met.

I don't wanna walk into a room, have the door closed behind me, then find there's a huge guy hidden somewhere that's gonna take my wallet and phone 🙃

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By *sWyldWoman
2 days ago

Edinburgh

"Here we go, we have to treat the queen, so why then hotel?"

I don't expect others to foot the bill. I very happily pay my own way.

I prefer them because its neutral ground. You close the door and can shut the world away and get lost in pleasure.

I personally don't want anyone in my home and unless I'm really comfortable don't really want to go to someone else's.

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By *xDecadent_ColoursxxMan
2 days ago

Glasgow

"We would only ever meet in a hotel. There’s no way we would give strangers our home address especially as we have kids at home and I (Gem) wouldn’t feel comfortable going to someone else’s home unless we became regular and I knew them really well. However how well can you actually know someone you casually meet for sex 🫣, well I've met some at home and found very cosy and private, but as you said when someone you do not trust, it is a solution "

Why would you have sex with someone you didn't trust? 🤔

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By *ose and her beastCouple
2 days ago

Watford

Hotel meets are great to be safe and visible

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By *iftyishMan
2 days ago

South Coast & Essex

On a course in Midlands end of June. Any offers?

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By *27_OTFMan
2 days ago

luton

Open to invitess xx

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By *inkyLips2.0Woman
2 days ago

Debauchery

All the time, I could never go to a strangers house

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
2 days ago

Scotland

"We would only ever meet in a hotel. There’s no way we would give strangers our home address especially as we have kids at home and I (Gem) wouldn’t feel comfortable going to someone else’s home unless we became regular and I knew them really well. However how well can you actually know someone you casually meet for sex 🫣, well I've met some at home and found very cosy and private, but as you said when someone you do not trust, it is a solution

Why would you have sex with someone you didn't trust? 🤔"

I think when you are meeting strangers for sex it would be foolish to totally trust them. I guess I’m in a fortunate position that I would only meet first time private meets with my husband so can totally understand why single people would have even more trust issues

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By *xDecadent_ColoursxxMan
2 days ago

Glasgow

Yeah, I can't help be but be amazed at the number of people that clearly fine totally fine about showing up to the hotel room of someone they've never met before, and might only have exchanged some messages with 🙃

Clubs and socials all the way to start with, then go from there for me.

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By *GoodGirlGemxCouple
2 days ago

Scotland

"Yeah, I can't help be but be amazed at the number of people that clearly fine totally fine about showing up to the hotel room of someone they've never met before, and might only have exchanged some messages with 🙃

Clubs and socials all the way to start with, then go from there for me."

I guess you could apply that to any first time meet though not just at hotels

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By *earditallWoman
2 days ago

Lancaster

Yeah mutual is better I think

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