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By *otFilthySex OP   Man
5 days ago

dartford

Really struggling on this site which is the most annoying thing on the planet because my sex drive is through the roof and when I found this site years ago (had other accounts in the past) it felt like I’ve found the winning lottery ticket. Cougars, milfs, subs everywhere you look, stunning stunning people! I’ve had 3 meets since I found this, all been extremely good, most recent one was full of incredible sex in a hotel room but the meets are so few and far between? Now I know women on here get thousands of messages and only the messages that stand out or messages with face pics or if you’re just Brad Pitt with a 9 inch weapon will get a reply but it just seems so hard? I also get women on here will come on and start chatting to maybe a couple of guys and then trying to string 3/4 conversations along would be very hard but I’m just never someone that someone gets excited about. I am on dating apps and I get a lot of luck I talk to lots of girls but then obviously the convo comes “so what is it you’re looking for” and most girls on dating apps obviously are looking for relationships, don’t get me wrong I still get the odd invite round when the kids are in bed or with the dad for a weekend lol but this site is where I want the invites! One major part is I’m not Brad Pitt or 6’4 but I still feel like the amount of women on here locally to me with similar kinks and turn ons I could be getting more luck? I guess im asking what I should do differently or is there something amiss with my profile or what? And also asking if other guys are in the same boat, a boat that’s constantly wet but because you’re in the fucking bath and not deep in something else. Apologise if this is long and it’s just made you incredibly dry after you’ve been using your bullet or whatever it is you may use but yeah thought I’d just put it out there and ask the fab community! Sorry that this is so fucking long too, if you read before you go to sleep then you won’t need to pick your 50 shades of gray up tonight

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By *its_and_TiramisuCouple
5 days ago

North Somerset

Do you think your profile is the best that you can create, visually and in terms of the text? Is it going to stand out amongst the thousands of other men on the site and draw women to you?

If the answer is yes, then that's fine.

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By *otwife_couple_hullCouple
5 days ago

Hull

Good grief mate, line breaks are your friend!

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By *hil most chillMan
5 days ago

London, South East & Europe

Is it just me, or are there a lot of threads titled "Is it just me?"

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By *otwife_couple_hullCouple
5 days ago

Hull


"Is it just me, or are there a lot of threads titled "Is it just me?""

Well yes because there's so many single men with crap profiles who make no effort and still believe that the site will somehow provided easy sex.

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By *ildatheart01Man
5 days ago

Petersfield

You appear to be getting some meets, even though you want more. Some people complain they get absolutely none…so, while it may not be much consolation, you could be doing a lot worse.

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By *hil most chillMan
5 days ago

London, South East & Europe


"Is it just me, or are there a lot of threads titled "Is it just me?"

Well yes because there's so many single men with crap profiles who make no effort and still believe that the site will somehow provided easy sex."

But not all of the "Is it just me" threads are about men not getting meets. It's just a very commonly used thread title.

Anyway, who else thinks Bulgaria should win Eurovision?

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
5 days ago

Herts/Leeds

Your profile is 1 photo and 1 sentence with a negative status. Compare that to how you’re writing and expressing yourself on your post, and ask yourself if you’re putting your efforts into the right things maybe?

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By *otwife_couple_hullCouple
5 days ago

Hull


"Is it just me, or are there a lot of threads titled "Is it just me?"

Well yes because there's so many single men with crap profiles who make no effort and still believe that the site will somehow provided easy sex.

But not all of the "Is it just me" threads are about men not getting meets. It's just a very commonly used thread title.

Anyway, who else thinks Bulgaria should win Eurovision?"

You are right. In fact, I find it hard to get meets. This weekend I had three meets with three different verified guys and NOT ONE SHOWED. NOT BLOODY ONE. But it's still the same problem, I hate to say it, just from the other side.

And no, I actually like the UK entry, it reminds me of darkwave, club antichrist and so on

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By *rightonsteveMan
5 days ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The answer is ‘Yes, it is you’

You had a meet from a lovely lady, do again what you did to meet her.

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By *hil most chillMan
5 days ago

London, South East & Europe


"Is it just me, or are there a lot of threads titled "Is it just me?"

Well yes because there's so many single men with crap profiles who make no effort and still believe that the site will somehow provided easy sex.

But not all of the "Is it just me" threads are about men not getting meets. It's just a very commonly used thread title.

Anyway, who else thinks Bulgaria should win Eurovision?

You are right. In fact, I find it hard to get meets. This weekend I had three meets with three different verified guys and NOT ONE SHOWED. NOT BLOODY ONE. But it's still the same problem, I hate to say it, just from the other side.

And no, I actually like the UK entry, it reminds me of darkwave, club antichrist and so on"

Agreed, the UK one is pretty catchy!

3 no-shows in one weekend is tough, sorry to hear that. And you're right, both men and women have difficulties on here, they're just different problems to overcome.

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
5 days ago

Herts/Leeds


"Is it just me, or are there a lot of threads titled "Is it just me?"

Well yes because there's so many single men with crap profiles who make no effort and still believe that the site will somehow provided easy sex.

But not all of the "Is it just me" threads are about men not getting meets. It's just a very commonly used thread title.

Anyway, who else thinks Bulgaria should win Eurovision?

You are right. In fact, I find it hard to get meets. This weekend I had three meets with three different verified guys and NOT ONE SHOWED. NOT BLOODY ONE. But it's still the same problem, I hate to say it, just from the other side.

And no, I actually like the UK entry, it reminds me of darkwave, club antichrist and so on"

Hang on I thought UK was out already?

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By *otwife_couple_hullCouple
5 days ago

Hull


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3 no-shows in one weekend is tough, sorry to hear that. And you're right, both men and women have difficulties on here, they're just different problems to overcome."

It's amazing how different cities can be as well. Hull has been awful, really terrible. Wish I'd never left Brighton / Hove. At least for this lol.

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By *hil most chillMan
5 days ago

London, South East & Europe


"Is it just me, or are there a lot of threads titled "Is it just me?"

Well yes because there's so many single men with crap profiles who make no effort and still believe that the site will somehow provided easy sex.

But not all of the "Is it just me" threads are about men not getting meets. It's just a very commonly used thread title.

Anyway, who else thinks Bulgaria should win Eurovision?

You are right. In fact, I find it hard to get meets. This weekend I had three meets with three different verified guys and NOT ONE SHOWED. NOT BLOODY ONE. But it's still the same problem, I hate to say it, just from the other side.

And no, I actually like the UK entry, it reminds me of darkwave, club antichrist and so on

Hang on I thought UK was out already? "

That's actually unpossible

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By *ojo2joWoman
5 days ago

Swansea

Your message sounds like you treat women as a commodity who are just on Fab waiting to be selected for a shag.

In reality us ‘MILFs and cougars’ are here for many reasons; browsing the forums, catching up with existing friends and looking for stimulating conversations and maybe to find someone to get intimate with too.

Us MILFs and cougars may be here for more than just a shag and many a relationship has started through FAB so what you’re offering won’t appeal to all.

Regardless of why we’re here, we mainly want to be treated with respect and as we’re in the majority, we can be selective who we talk to so I’d like to apologise on behalf of the MILFs and cougars that we haven’t interacted with you yet.

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By *otwife_couple_hullCouple
5 days ago

Hull


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Hang on I thought UK was out already? "

uhhhh I dont know tbh, I dont follow it in any real way, I just know what the UK entry is cos I follow him on youtube!

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By *lowupdollTV/TS
5 days ago

Herts/Leeds


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Hang on I thought UK was out already?

uhhhh I dont know tbh, I dont follow it in any real way, I just know what the UK entry is cos I follow him on youtube!"

Tbh I’ve no idea either I don’t watch it, just remembered something about UK being out.

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By *iss DevilWoman
5 days ago

Bedford


"Is it just me, or are there a lot of threads titled "Is it just me?"

Well yes because there's so many single men with crap profiles who make no effort and still believe that the site will somehow provided easy sex."
so much this! Men seem to believe every woman on here is absolutely sex-starved and would open her legs for just anyone. However, there has to be attraction, plus a lot of women on here are looking for very specific experiences/people, not just any Tom, Dick or Harry who can just about put a few words together in their bio and think they'd be swimming in pussy. OP, your post on here is probably 5 times, if not more, longer than your bio! So yes, currently it is you, or your lack of effort.

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By *otFilthySex OP   Man
5 days ago

dartford


"Your message sounds like you treat women as a commodity who are just on Fab waiting to be selected for a shag.

In reality us ‘MILFs and cougars’ are here for many reasons; browsing the forums, catching up with existing friends and looking for stimulating conversations and maybe to find someone to get intimate with too.

Us MILFs and cougars may be here for more than just a shag and many a relationship has started through FAB so what you’re offering won’t appeal to all.

Regardless of why we’re here, we mainly want to be treated with respect and as we’re in the majority, we can be selective who we talk to so I’d like to apologise on behalf of the MILFs and cougars that we haven’t interacted with you yet."

Thank you very much, I’ve never disrespected a woman in person or online and never will. I totally get women won’t sleep with anyone and neither will I sleep with anyone. I totally get that women on here may have friends, cams, forums and whatever else which is why I understand not being messaged back, my profile seems thin I know but I’m not one to write an essay about what I want or what I like, neither am I someone who will post my face for the whole of fab to see, I won’t post countless amounts of cock pics either I understand women on here see hundreds of them daily so unless I’m posting my body what else is there to post, my profile isn’t appealing but given the chance I can be a very good meet because I’m a down to earth respectful guy and I’m also handy in the bedroom but I guess it’s just a little harder than anticipated when I first discovered fab.

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By *otFilthySex OP   Man
5 days ago

dartford


"Is it just me, or are there a lot of threads titled "Is it just me?"

Well yes because there's so many single men with crap profiles who make no effort and still believe that the site will somehow provided easy sex. so much this! Men seem to believe every woman on here is absolutely sex-starved and would open her legs for just anyone. However, there has to be attraction, plus a lot of women on here are looking for very specific experiences/people, not just any Tom, Dick or Harry who can just about put a few words together in their bio and think they'd be swimming in pussy. OP, your post on here is probably 5 times, if not more, longer than your bio! So yes, currently it is you, or your lack of effort. "

With respect, never did I say I expect women too just fall at my feet and have sex with me every time I message them.

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By *rightonsteveMan
5 days ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ignore the men, that always works

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By *ojo2joWoman
5 days ago

Swansea


"Your message sounds like you treat women as a commodity who are just on Fab waiting to be selected for a shag.

In reality us ‘MILFs and cougars’ are here for many reasons; browsing the forums, catching up with existing friends and looking for stimulating conversations and maybe to find someone to get intimate with too.

Us MILFs and cougars may be here for more than just a shag and many a relationship has started through FAB so what you’re offering won’t appeal to all.

Regardless of why we’re here, we mainly want to be treated with respect and as we’re in the majority, we can be selective who we talk to so I’d like to apologise on behalf of the MILFs and cougars that we haven’t interacted with you yet.

Thank you very much, I’ve never disrespected a woman in person or online and never will. I totally get women won’t sleep with anyone and neither will I sleep with anyone. I totally get that women on here may have friends, cams, forums and whatever else which is why I understand not being messaged back, my profile seems thin I know but I’m not one to write an essay about what I want or what I like, neither am I someone who will post my face for the whole of fab to see, I won’t post countless amounts of cock pics either I understand women on here see hundreds of them daily so unless I’m posting my body what else is there to post, my profile isn’t appealing but given the chance I can be a very good meet because I’m a down to earth respectful guy and I’m also handy in the bedroom but I guess it’s just a little harder than anticipated when I first discovered fab. "

You may not think you’re disrespecting but this very statement “Cougars, milfs, subs everywhere you look” gives me the ick.

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By *otFilthySex OP   Man
5 days ago

dartford


"The answer is ‘Yes, it is you’

You had a meet from a lovely lady, do again what you did to meet her. "

Yeah I understand, we hit it off from messaging straight away and exchanged phone numbers but could never both be free due to work. Stayed in contact and finally arranged a hotel and it was incredible, both loved it and have stayed chatting. Obviously to her I may have been exactly what she wanted and I just haven’t found another that feels the same but like I say, just so few and far between.

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By *otFilthySex OP   Man
5 days ago

dartford


"Your message sounds like you treat women as a commodity who are just on Fab waiting to be selected for a shag.

In reality us ‘MILFs and cougars’ are here for many reasons; browsing the forums, catching up with existing friends and looking for stimulating conversations and maybe to find someone to get intimate with too.

Us MILFs and cougars may be here for more than just a shag and many a relationship has started through FAB so what you’re offering won’t appeal to all.

Regardless of why we’re here, we mainly want to be treated with respect and as we’re in the majority, we can be selective who we talk to so I’d like to apologise on behalf of the MILFs and cougars that we haven’t interacted with you yet.

Thank you very much, I’ve never disrespected a woman in person or online and never will. I totally get women won’t sleep with anyone and neither will I sleep with anyone. I totally get that women on here may have friends, cams, forums and whatever else which is why I understand not being messaged back, my profile seems thin I know but I’m not one to write an essay about what I want or what I like, neither am I someone who will post my face for the whole of fab to see, I won’t post countless amounts of cock pics either I understand women on here see hundreds of them daily so unless I’m posting my body what else is there to post, my profile isn’t appealing but given the chance I can be a very good meet because I’m a down to earth respectful guy and I’m also handy in the bedroom but I guess it’s just a little harder than anticipated when I first discovered fab.

You may not think you’re disrespecting but this very statement “Cougars, milfs, subs everywhere you look” gives me the ick."

On a swinging site where 90% of the women have one of those in their name, status or bio I’m genuinely just stating a fact.

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