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how often do you visit as a couple ?

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By *urlittlesecret!! OP   Couple
6 days ago

west bromwich

How often do you and your partner attend swinger clubs/events or meet other couples to keep things exciting without it starting to feel routine We’re curious how other couples balance frequency anticipation, and keeping the spark alive do you find less frequent visits make it more exciting or does regular play work better ?

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By *aomilatteCouple
6 days ago

Midlands

We have about 8 club visits a year and play with others on about half our visits. It keeps things still very exciting between us! Neither of us craves more visits.

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By *WB85Man
6 days ago

Staffordshire

A few times a year.....its a pain in the arse arranging childcare.

Its why we play solo these days.

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By *olyGlamorousWoman
6 days ago

Chester

We go to a club at least once a month

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By *hefoxesofpenCouple
6 days ago

chester

We go every 8 weeks or so, but maybe only involve others once or twice. The voyeurism aspect of it means we have a good time regardless, plus access to things we don't have at home like a sex swing etc.

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By *rJigglesMan
6 days ago

stoke

Myself and the Mrs average about once a month, during the summer it can be a frequent as every fortnight.

We love the atmosphere for a chilled night out as well as for the scene

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By *pankingNorfolkCouple
6 days ago

Norwich ish

Juggling parental responsibilities we trnd to go to events at least once a month. Try to find kink focussed events

Never played with others we satisfy our exhibitionist side and make use of dungeons.

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By *urlittlesecret!! OP   Couple
6 days ago

west bromwich

once a month or every two sounds ideal to us aswell we dont want to burn out because at the moment it really is exciting we havnt played with anyone in a private room etc only used to gloryholes and soo far had alot of fun

do you find private meets better than clubs ?

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By *urlittlesecret!! OP   Couple
6 days ago

west bromwich

yes we also have a good time even just being there and treating it like a night out no pressue atall too play i just hope mrs tests the waters with a private room with someone on the next visit

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By *aomilatteCouple
6 days ago

Midlands


"once a month or every two sounds ideal to us aswell we dont want to burn out because at the moment it really is exciting we havnt played with anyone in a private room etc only used to gloryholes and soo far had alot of fun

do you find private meets better than clubs ? "

In the 9 years we've been going to clubs we've seen so many couples "burn" themselves out. Some were going to clubs every weekend but ended up splitting up. Maybe if they'd concentrated on each other more and were swinging occasionally they'd of had a happier ending.

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By *veragecouple2000Couple
6 days ago

South Wales

We try to go to our local club at least once a month…..we also like to book a night away and go to a different club or event every couple of months to meet new people xx 😘

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By *inetimecoupleCouple
5 days ago

close to Chester

We go once a month, we did once go two consecutive nights but it was too much.

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