FabSwingers.com forum: Being at the hands of abuse.

glasgow

Dear fab crew. Wondered what you ladies and gents thought about being able to name and shame certain users on here. I know the current rule is it’s not allowed but some of the messages I’ve just had is really disgusting. This person was not only verbally abusive but I really think he could be a danger to any women he meets. Shouldn’t we have an option to warn others ? Couldn’t we contact fab to show a mark on there profile once we prove it’s a legitimate issue. What’s your thoughts ?

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By *iver78Man
7 days ago

barton upon humber

It's getting more and more common , it would be nice if the lovely people who run this app take these sort of messages seriously !! Sorry you've been in the end of such messages ,

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By *mileyculturebelfastMan
7 days ago

belfast

Problem with that is people could make claims about anyone who turns them down.

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By *hickthighs26Woman
7 days ago

funky town

"Problem with that is people could make claims about anyone who turns them down."

100%

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By *aven RedWoman
7 days ago

who knows, but it's not raining x

Keep the messages, dont delete them. Block and report him. I'm so sorry you experienced that OP x

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By *iver78Man
7 days ago

barton upon humber

"Problem with that is people could make claims about anyone who turns them down."

This is very true , but couldn't they ask to see the messages !?

It's a tricky one I guess

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By *oyoteUglyWoman
7 days ago

not even in the north west

No. Because there is always 2 sides to every falling out. I'm sure fab can see the messages anyway so they'd know.

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By *ildatheart01Man
7 days ago

Petersfield

They should hire a retired judge to review them. Bound to be plenty on here.

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By *ringles1000Couple
7 days ago

Somerset

Like it, they would certainly be qualified.

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By *inger_2gym.girl OP Woman
7 days ago

glasgow

"No. Because there is always 2 sides to every falling out. I'm sure fab can see the messages anyway so they'd know. "

100% there’s always two sides and some people would use it as revenge for not wanting to meet them that’s why I thought it would be a good idea for fab to be able to step in and confirm they are in agreement with it being abuse and not just something taken out of context etc. I guess all they do is delete and rejoin but I’d fab could find a way to keep it marked on the profile regardless of how many profiles they make it would really help. Obviously only when fab have deemed it to be a legitimate form of abuse x

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By *unnesscoupleMan
7 days ago

around

"Keep the messages, dont delete them. Block and report him. I'm so sorry you experienced that OP x"

Exactly this. So sorry you had to experience that. Fab should be for fun and abuse should never be tolerated. Stay safe.

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By *hadow300Man
7 days ago

dagenham

The only thing I can say is if that occurs a new account will probably be blocked and a new account will be made so you seriously never get to the bottom of it. The only way you ever do is a never-ending story not ongoing thing when you report something, does anyone really take you? Seriously? I don’t think so.

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By *hadow300Man
7 days ago

dagenham

they are always looking out for people and to get paid for when you think about it no one around when you do have an issue it probably never gets flu chat. I never seriously get taken on behalf of everyone. I seriously do apologise from all of us that you had to experiences no one should ever have to go through that and the other everyone should be able to be made safe without any verbal abuse of any description

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